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Sexual assaults and inappropriate behavior by Hyde Staff
Ursus:
I have to say that my sense of humor as per Hyde's sexual peccadilloes (peck o' dildos?) has become increasingly cynical and sarcastic over the years as I begun to hear more and more, and I apologize if I have offended you with that. I certainly was not trying to trivialize the matter. Truly, I think we are seeing the tip of the iceberg.
I think we are just now beginning to hear the stories from long ago. The stories from not so long ago might have to take more time; at least we know about Dubinsky. I think it takes a long time before people can process this to the point where they go public with it.
But this is how Hyde gets away with it. The code of secrecy brought about by shame, the brainwashing that the kids' themselves are actually responsible for this, the guilt... And the impression that you are the only one. Time passes and you discover differently, but then it seems too late to make the school accountable to the public. Maybe not.
hanzomon4:
I just read about your case over at ISAC yesterday, did you win the suit?
Ursus:
--- Quote from: ""hanzomon4"" ---I just read about your case over at ISAC yesterday, did you win the suit?
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Are you talking about Dubinsky? I believe they went all the way up to picking a jury, but then settled out of court.
These cases always get settled out of court. The kids and parents are made to feel that this was a rare and will-never-happen-again event. But it has been happening, again and again, for over 30 friggin' years!!
Hydemom:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---Hyde mom,
I agree. Nothing funny about it. It is pure blame the victim right out of the Catholic Church play book. The chickens will come home to roost some day, they always do. Hyde will toss a parent out on their ear over simple disagreements but will embrace a sycophant guilty of moral and criminal transgressions. It makes all the character BS exactly that. BS. They talk the talk but can't walk the walk.
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The difference between the Catholic Church and Hyde is that the Catholic Church has humbled themselves and are making sure this doesn't happen again. Hyde stood behind LD and when they finally made a statement it was, "LD will be taking a little time off to look at his life."
There was no doubt that the "concern" was about LD, not the victim.
Jesus H Christ:
--- Quote from: ""Hydemom"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---Hyde mom,
I agree. Nothing funny about it. It is pure blame the victim right out of the Catholic Church play book. The chickens will come home to roost some day, they always do. Hyde will toss a parent out on their ear over simple disagreements but will embrace a sycophant guilty of moral and criminal transgressions. It makes all the character BS exactly that. BS. They talk the talk but can't walk the walk.
--- End quote ---
The difference between the Catholic Church and Hyde is that the Catholic Church has humbled themselves and are making sure this doesn't happen again. Hyde stood behind LD and when they finally made a statement it was, "LD will be taking a little time off to look at his life."
There was no doubt that the "concern" was about LD, not the victim.
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It is part of the Hyde ethos. You are responsible for your experience at Hyde. If Hyde does not work for you it is because you did not commit to the process. So if you are sexually harassed at Hyde it is because you allowed it to happen.
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