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Sexual assaults and inappropriate behavior by Hyde Staff
Anne Bonney:
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--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---Hyde mom,
I agree. Nothing funny about it. It is pure blame the victim right out of the Catholic Church play book. The chickens will come home to roost some day, they always do. Hyde will toss a parent out on their ear over simple disagreements but will embrace a sycophant guilty of moral and criminal transgressions. It makes all the character BS exactly that. BS. They talk the talk but can't walk the walk.
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The difference between the Catholic Church and Hyde is that the Catholic Church has humbled themselves and are making sure this doesn't happen again. Hyde stood behind LD and when they finally made a statement it was, "LD will be taking a little time off to look at his life."
There was no doubt that the "concern" was about LD, not the victim.
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There's nothing really different. The Catholic Church has been anything but humble regarding this and have taken the least amount of responsibiltiy that they possibly could. Where's Cardinal Law right now?
Hydemom:
--- Quote from: ""JoeSoulBro"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Hydemom"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---Hyde mom,
I agree. Nothing funny about it. It is pure blame the victim right out of the Catholic Church play book. The chickens will come home to roost some day, they always do. Hyde will toss a parent out on their ear over simple disagreements but will embrace a sycophant guilty of moral and criminal transgressions. It makes all the character BS exactly that. BS. They talk the talk but can't walk the walk.
--- End quote ---
The difference between the Catholic Church and Hyde is that the Catholic Church has humbled themselves and are making sure this doesn't happen again. Hyde stood behind LD and when they finally made a statement it was, "LD will be taking a little time off to look at his life."
There was no doubt that the "concern" was about LD, not the victim.
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It is part of the Hyde ethos. You are responsible for your experience at Hyde. If Hyde does not work for you it is because you did not commit to the process. So if you are sexually harassed at Hyde it is because you allowed it to happen.
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Very interesting that you say this. When LD enjoyed himself rubbing his body all over my daughter she complained to Ken Grant who then called her into a meeting with LD, (without my knowledge) along with other adult staff. She was made to confront him in front of all. MY GOD, this was a sexual assault and they want a young teenage girl to be in the same room as the perpetrator to "confront" him?? Sorry, but this goes beyond sick!! Every single one of those staff who participated in this and knew it was wrong needs to look at themselves and ask why they were such cowards. I am referring to the non family members who were upset yet kept silent.
Someone asked if we won the case. The case was going to trial in Ct Federal Court. The jury was selected. Hyde then settled right before.
Ursus:
--- Quote from: ""Hydemom"" ---
--- Quote from: ""JoeSoulBro"" ---It is part of the Hyde ethos. You are responsible for your experience at Hyde. If Hyde does not work for you it is because you did not commit to the process. So if you are sexually harassed at Hyde it is because you allowed it to happen.
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Very interesting that you say this. When LD enjoyed himself rubbing his body all over my daughter she complained to Ken Grant who then called her into a meeting with LD, (without my knowledge) along with other adult staff. She was made to confront him in front of all. MY GOD, this was a sexual assault and they want a young teenage girl to be in the same room as the perpetrator to "confront" him?? Sorry, but this goes beyond sick!! Every single one of those staff who participated in this and knew it was wrong needs to look at themselves and ask why they were such cowards. I am referring to the non family members who were upset yet kept silent.
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This picture is achingly similar to the picture of Hyde School thinking there was nothing wrong with assembling the student body for butt naked fat measurements.
Point is, Hyde thinks there is nothing wrong with this.
And it doesn't matter that the rest of the world thinks there is something wrong with this, cuz the rest of the world is in a piss-poor position to judge character. Character being, of course, what Hyde is the expert at.
Remember, Joe said "leave the character judgments to us, we are in a better position to judge than parents are" (paraphrase; emphasis added).
The fact that they think there is nothing wrong with these kinds of things reflects a very sick, conservative, and paternalistic outlook. The bottom of that barrel has yet to be scraped.
Anne Bonney:
--- Quote from: ""Hydemom"" ---
Very interesting that you say this. When LD enjoyed himself rubbing his body all over my daughter she complained to Ken Grant who then called her into a meeting with LD, (without my knowledge) along with other adult staff. She was made to confront him in front of all. MY GOD, this was a sexual assault and they want a young teenage girl to be in the same room as the perpetrator to "confront" him?? Sorry, but this goes beyond sick!! Every single one of those staff who participated in this and knew it was wrong needs to look at themselves and ask why they were such cowards. I am referring to the non family members who were upset yet kept silent.
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Yep, common practice amongst cults. When I was in Straight I did talk to one person about being sexually abused as a kid. It got back to staff that I had "admitted" this (that was the term they used) and I was summoned to an 'executive meeting'. "Dr." Newton and his bitch wife Ruth Ann grilled me about what happened in front of a few male staffers. Ruth Ann berated me to "accept my responsibility" for what happened. I was SEVEN. (when the sexual abuse happened, not when I was in Straight, wanted to be clear on that)
They're not going to "look at themselves", are you kidding? They don't give a shit. Sad but true.
--- Quote ---Someone asked if we won the case. The case was going to trial in Ct Federal Court. The jury was selected. Hyde then settled right before.
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I think I remember talking to you before. How was Hyde in a position to settle? Who were the parties to the suit?
Ursus:
--- Quote from: ""Anne Bonney"" ---They're not going to "look at themselves", are you kidding? They don't give a shit. Sad but true.
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Yup. They roll their eyes. It's the subject of jokes.
I'm sure it's brought up in faculty meetings, "Whatever you do, don't post on fornits so they don't know you're reading it." And then, every once in a while, a newbie faculty member, duly indoctrinated but a bit hazy on the rules, posts anyway, "This is a cesspool!"
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