I don't need anyones pitty party, but if you were really there to help, you'd have some suggestions besides foul language and finger pointing, and clearly you don't, which makes you as credible as a lunch box. Why don't you put your anger into something more viable, like offering advice, not crapping down someones throat. Or are you not capable of solving a tragidy that continues to exist. Seems to me, your efforts would be much better utilized helping, not making matters worse. Or can't you see beyond your nose?