Segregation of Sexes in Program.

[Froderik]

I saw two guys get 'stood up' for ass faggotry once in Straight Inc.

Some kid was ass-raped by his oldcummer...
(or the 'rape-ee' was perhaps into it, fuck if I know).

I later read about this incident on one of these sites, and some people were able to recall more particulars -- like blood on one of the seats, and maybe one of the kids got terminated or something; not really all that important I guess....  

I'm sure that they were warned not to mention it to anyone.. "confidentiality" and all, don'tcha know...

[Anonymous]

I was worried all day today.
My daughter is five years old, and I have run out of books.
Without books, there is no stories to tell her.
Without stories to tell her, she never goes to bed.
If she doesn't go to bed, she's tired at school.
If she's tired at school, she gets bad grades.
If she gets bad grades she will not go to college.
If she doesn't go to college she will be poor.
If she is poor she might not have any books.
If she doesn't have any books what will she read her kids?

Alas, I have found a story to tell her.
You have not only saved her life.
But countless future generations.
God bless you and your story.

     :x  :evil:

[Froderik]

:roll:  ::huh::  ::phone::

[psy]

However, I have read studies that indicate that when males and females are separated for long periods of time, they will express them selves sexually with the same sex.

Can't suppress the forces of nature. I too have heard about this in TBSs, and not just with the girls.

Yeah...  but when you get caught.. they are more than willing to tell your parents..  I'm waiting for the first kid to kill his/herself after that happens... Doh... wait.  it probably already has.

Even if it didn't happen, they're more than willing to tell your parents it did... For example, I, allegedly, gave head to a plunger with a condom on it... WTF... we weren't even allowed condoms in program.  Needless to say, my parents were suitably shocked...  Hey.. They knew what buttons to push and they jammed em all HARD.

Ah the lovable Carl Janowitz.. and all the tales he spun...  I hope his cancer kills him slowly.

[Froderik]

Even if it didn't happen, they're more than willing to tell your parents it did... For example, I, allegedly, gave head to a plunger with a condom on it... WTF... we weren't even allowed condoms in program.  Needless to say, my parents were suitably shocked...

Why would they do this? Why did they tell this bullshit to your parents?

[psy]

Actually even at normal single sexed boarding school girls who Identify as straigh will sometimes experiment. To some extent it is a comfort thing

Well duh..  Personally I think everybody has experimented at some point in time.. If not, they should.  Problem is... when most people experiment, they aren't brought out in front of group and told to reveal in great explicit detail what happened....  And this happened.

Two girls who were playing around with sticking their tongue through their fingers were called out in front of group for being lesbian.  They were best friends, but not lovers.  Didn't matter.  Rumor was enough for permanent bans.

Hey.. howabout the girl who masturbated with the spatula and was put on bans with cookware... They limited her apartment's utensils, counted them, and searched under her bed...  Well since they didn't allow electric toothbrushes, porn, or any sort of sex-toy... people improvise.  Again.. girl was humiliated in front of group.

Or the guy was caught with a dildo... well apparantly he just wanted to feel what it was like... so he managed to get one.  You can imagine how bad that was for him in group considering he wasn't gay (but they tried to tell him he was).

Or the tape recording of sex (god knows how he got a tape recorder in) one partner made secretly...  Well... After finding the tape, they played it for group.

How about the girl that accused a guy in program of rape...  Well she was just a drama queen.  Never investigated.

Girls were called sluts in group.  no surprise there.  Guys... Well they were just being guys.  Them girls should keep their legs shut! (to be fair, one female counselor (Joelle) did the opposite and always blamed the guy)

Or how about the counselor (Joelle) who liked to tell stories about how she masturbates while driving.

Or Mike Martin, who once called me a "devil worshiping faggot" (witnessed by Brian W.)

Passing notes...  BANS... talking one on one... BANS...  a flirtation... BANS... God help you if they found you fucking.  You can pretty much guarantee never talking to her/him again.

We were trained see the "wee wee" and "ta ta" as evil.

People still did their business...  they just felt dirty about it.  I really wish ill on program for that.  I wish a great deal of ill.  I used to be able to ask girls out.   not anymore.  too shy.  i used to flirt.  I used to be charming.  Now people think: oh.. he's just some cold intellectual...  I want who I used to be back.

Jayne longnecker: I hope you burn in hell.

[psy]

Even if it didn't happen, they're more than willing to tell your parents it did... For example, I, allegedly, gave head to a plunger with a condom on it... WTF... we weren't even allowed condoms in program.  Needless to say, my parents were suitably shocked...

Why would they do this? Why did they tell this bullshit to your parents?

Why else?  To demonstrate you're a wild monster..  far worse than they realized.  To keep you there longer.  To make more money.  To discredit you when you denied it.  To build mistrust.  To further the rift between parent and child.  Programs can't work if they don't control communication, and you can permanantly damage/sever communication by doing such things.

[Froderik]

Why else?  To demonstrate you're a wild monster..  far worse than they realized.  To keep you there longer.  To make more money.  To discredit you when you denied it.  To build mistrust.  To further the rift between parent and child.  Programs can't work if they don't control communication, and you can permanantly damage/sever communication by doing such things.

Yeah but that just sounds like such a bizarre thing to make up about someone.. you know?

I mean you gotta wonder how those a-holes came up with that one..  :roll:

[Froderik]

Jayne Longnecker

Jesus Christ..  :rofl:  . What a name... ::bwahaha::

[psy]

Jayne Longnecker

Jesus Christ..  :rofl:  . What a name... ::bwahaha::

deepthroater?

Yeah... and a personality to match.

[psy]

Why else?  To demonstrate you're a wild monster..  far worse than they realized.  To keep you there longer.  To make more money.  To discredit you when you denied it.  To build mistrust.  To further the rift between parent and child.  Programs can't work if they don't control communication, and you can permanantly damage/sever communication by doing such things.

Yeah but that just sounds like such a bizarre thing to make up about someone.. you know?

I mean you gotta wonder how those a-holes came up with that one..  :roll:

I have no clue...  It is possible it was a rumor somebody made up (but i doubt that since I didn't hear of it till my parents told me...).  Rumors were enough to get ppl in trouble.  My parents, given their background, bought it, hook, line, and sinker.  According to their shrink (who doesn't work for benchmark, but gets most of his business from them), i was headed to the bathhouses of San-Franisisco, where I would get aids and die...  Parents bought that one too...

Hilarious thing was, I'm not the promiscuous type... at all.

[Froderik]

I have no clue...  It is possible it was a rumor somebody made up (but i doubt that since I didn't hear of it till my parents told me...).  Rumors were enough to get ppl in trouble.  My parents, given their background, bought it, hook, line, and sinker.  According to their shrink (who doesn't work for benchmark, but gets most of his business from them), i was headed to the bathhouses of San-Franisisco, where I would get aids and die...  Parents bought that one too...

Hilarious thing was, I'm not the promiscuous type... at all.

Yeah it's really fucked how the program will misread & misunderstand people to ludicrous degrees like that.

So it was probably staff who made up that shit about you I guess.

[CCM girl 1989]

One of the best things about being kept away from boys is that any man, no matter how old, what he has to do with the program, whether he is your houseparent, or your shrink, maybe even perhaps an owner, can get lucky lol? They get their pick of all of us young girls. We almost welcome it. We get taken advantage of in a way?!! But, who cares right?

[Rude Intrusion]

One of the best things about being kept away from boys is that any man, no matter how old, what he has to do with the program, whether he is your houseparent, or your shrink, maybe even perhaps an owner, can get lucky lol? They get their pick of all of us young girls. We almost welcome it. We get taken advantage of in a way?!! But, who cares right?

Lots of people care, and so should you. Under those circumstances it is rape.

[Oz girl]

One of the best things about being kept away from boys is that any man, no matter how old, what he has to do with the program, whether he is your houseparent, or your shrink, maybe even perhaps an owner, can get lucky lol? They get their pick of all of us young girls. We almost welcome it. We get taken advantage of in a way?!! But, who cares right?

Kids in this situation do get taken advantage of by sick adults. You may not be aware CCM that some kids who are victims of incest find it confusing because they did not find the experience physically unpleasant this doesnt make it ok.
Over here (and I assume in the US) shrinks who have even a consensual relationship with their adult patients are in HUGE trouble. So when underage kids are involved, some of whom may have significant issues the moral wrong is very grave.