I've been thinking about this for a while, and please feel free to poke holes in my idea, but I was wondering, "OK, so what DO parents do with a teen they want to place in a TBS/Wilderness/Boot Camp?"
My idea: foreign exchange student program
Even if there is nothing wrong with the kid and the parents are being ridiculous, there is nothing wrong with a little perspective, you know? Learn a new culture, meet new people, fuck a new girlfriend/boyfriend, be in an entirely different place away from your family and friends that your parents obviously don't approve of. (They'll still be there when you get back.) It would be especially adventagous if the host home has a sibling the same age as the kid, so he/she can teach them how to get into all sorts of trouble.
I'm sure some parents will argue.. "but this is rewarding them for bad behavior!"
My response is, "Is this about punishment, or about help and growth?"
I don't care how "awful" a kid is, I think they certainly have the potential to benefit from this. I know that if I went abroad when I was 16, the culture shock alone would have snapped my ass into shape, because I would want to at least meet new people.
If academics are an issue, there are cultural exchange programs they can take over the summer, which do not require them to learn the language before they go, and they do not have to have a minimum GPA. It's for about a two month period, max.
http://www.mindspring.com/~bennettusa/usteen.htmlIf the kid is reluctant to study some of the culture beforehand, you can simply say "Hey, if you don't learn this stuff, you will NEVER get laid over there."
Obviously, I certainly wouldn't want any sort of foreign exchange program to crop up that is geared for troubled teens, because I could certainly see that backfiring, and we could end up with host homes as terrible as those from Straight. I'm talking legit student exchange.
The trick is to get the kid to want to go. I know when I was that age, there were certainly countries I would have LOVED to visit if given the chance. (Especially Japan.) Maybe other teens feel the same way?
And besides, the kid's parents can trade up for a new model for a few months by becoming a host family themselves.
I dunno, maybe I'm being too idealistic.
I wanted to bounce it around with you guys first, and if enough people think it is a good idea, I might toss it out there on the struggling teens site. (Let's see how long it lasts.)