I think we can all agree that parents need more alternatives and that under no circumstance should they risk sending a kid to a program that lacks licensing, oversight, or properly trained and qualified staff...
The problems with alternatives is that each case is different, in both the kids issue and the parents level of desperation and ignorance. Sad to say the one thing most parents have in common is that a program will seem the most attractive no matter the alternatives. The programs can promise peace in the home, a sure fix, and little action from the parent. Real therapy can't compete with that because it's real therapy, not thought reform.
@TSW, I'll checkout Intermountain Hospital... Thanks for the info
"desperation and ignorance" is what makes the big $ for The Industry. I didn't even know about Fornits or ST until after my kid was already marching through the Utah wilderness. I'm damn glad I got educated before we had to decide on the "next steps" before he finished his time there.
I did, however, have some second-hand experience -- a nephew who my sister sent to a mindfuck TBS. When we had exhausted all local alternatives and he still seemed to be on a death spiral, we got desperate enough to send him to wilderness. It was specifically chosen as an alternative to a mindfuck TBS, and as an alternative to all the shitty local options we had tried with no success. With our family's many journeys to the middle of nowhere, it seemed somewhat appropriate. Little did I know at the time that Wilderness & TBS were related. I still don't get that,
at all. A wilderness experience should be nothing like a mindfuck TBS experience. Yes, BM techniques can be applied in any setting, but I just don't get the connection, or how it got this way. I have always found the wilderness to be a very cool place, one where you can let go of the stresses of urban life and experience something very different, and I thought my son would draw on happy childhood memories there while he "figured things out." On the other hand, a so-called "school" where you have to work through Levels or points, and can get in trouble for stupid shit like relationships with the opposite sex just doesn't make any sense. Not that the wilderness seems so damn therapeutic, but the TBS model seems really anti-therapeutic.
The other thing is, we weren't expecting any 'quick fix' or any real therapeutic breakthroughs -- more like a starting point. A starting point for what exactly, I don't know. Maybe just a starting point for living as opposed to dying. And a starting point for understanding exactly what was so bad about living that made dying look like a reasonable alternative.