The current "My teen wont forgive me" thread on ST

[Deborah]

So i'm making a website about it for a college art project (actually I used the art project as an excuse to work on it... it's been a long time coming).  Gonna present it in class today.  Wish me luck.  Yup it's 90% done.  The select few who have the preview URL have at it.

Good luck. It's a certain A+!!

[exhausted]

Deborah, did I sound duped by DR Shithead? No! I told him/her that I was aware of the stirring they were trying to do and to get lost, if you see that as being duped then you have the problem not me.

I think you've confused me with someone else.
Ever heard of a book "Your Child's Self-Esteem", Dorothy Cargill?
Good stuff.
Ya know that amphetimines don't improve self-esteem, but they can shrink the brain and enlarge the heart. Something to consider.

Deborah I'm so sorry, in my anger I quoted what Nihilanthic
 said thinking it was you, I apologise  ops:

yer I've almost becvome an expert on ADHD and Ritolin, I am aware of the dangers and take my son for regular monitoring of blood pressure, growth, weight etc checks, I've had a heart scan done too, I refused to let him have the mnedication wihtout having it done 1st, especially as there is a family history of cardiomyapathy (sp?)

I know the Ritolin won't help self esteem, but it does aid his concentration, that in turn gives him the confidence to do his school work and helps him to manage to sit still for 5 minutes, in turn he gets praise and that boosts his self esteem, boy do i know about it when he doesn't take it, he's virtually suicidal once it dawns on him that he has been a total pain all day.

He does have lots of other issues which are gradually surfacing, it's taking a very long time to diagnose them bit by bit, and obviously each thing will have to be treated bit by bit as seperate problems - right now I'm the one with self esteem issues, I really feel like I messed up big time and spend a lot of time thinking back on how I could have done things differently

I am going to try to read every book that has been suggested to me, and its a lot!

[psy]

I mean that I freeze up, cause there's just too much to try to organize into coherent sentences.

I know it well.  It's like talking in fragments or being overcome with sudden confusion.  Mind goes totally blank.

My dad and I don't talk.  We haven't for about 5 or 6 years now.  He won't listen.  I tried one more time when Maia's book came out.  He wanted no part of it.

it might be the guilt.  Although I finally got my dad to listen my mom still actually plugs her ears.  She's slowly catching on and asking questions but it's a difficult deprogramming process.

:rofl: Yeah, that's what I heard too.  I have no idea.  I couldn't believe how big that story was on the front page of the Times a couple weeks back.  The top half of the front page and the entire back inside page.  Guess my dad couldn't have missed that one.  I wonder what he thought?

He might not have read about Sembler or recognized his name.  Even then, The article mentions little about the abuse.  You read the comments on the paper's website?  It's all stuff like "oh my god.  how could they embarass that poor poor man" or "why is this on the front page"  Oh well.  Sex sells.  Child abuse apparently doesn't get very good ratings.

[Nihilanthic]

Oh now I'm the bad guy?  :rofl: Thanks for the honor.

I guess the tongue in your cheek didn't make it over the internet, but just so you know... people have taken our trolls 100% seriously before, time and time again.

We even had a fake program page up, HOSTED ON FORNITS, with S&M therapy, and people would actually try to sign up for it! The little applet went to nowhere, of course, but they still did it.

 :rofl: at any rate I'm glad you've opened a dialogue here. If the struggling turkeys would do the same it would save a lot of children a lot of suffering.

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[Bob]

Exhausted, have you thought about hiring an escort service? If you could get your child to the United States, an escort service could take him the rest of the way.

[exhausted]

Exhausted, have you thought about hiring an escort service? If you could get your child to the United States, an escort service could take him the rest of the way.

Why
would

I

Hire

An

Escort

Service

When

My

Child

IS NOT GOING TO A PROGRAM!

Unless he needs hospitilisation for fear of him endangering himself, or goes to jail, then you get a free escort service, they're called the police

[Anonymous]

Bob's another troll. A lot of them have crawled out of the woodwork on this thread.

[exhausted]

Oh for crying out loud, even a troll can read can they not? Surely my absolute refusal to send my child anywhere is apparent by now?

What the hell is wrong with these peope that they can't understand a simple concept like I'm not mad enough to just send my kid halfway across the world to people I have never met just because they say they can be trusted on the internet - it's like telling a child it's okay to meet their net friend because they say they are a 13 year old boy so therefore they can't really be a 50 year old pedo  :roll:

[Anonymous]

Are you just referring to the troll saying that, or do you mean that the real thing has done it as well?

If your communications with any program have become at all interesting (and we might find interesting what you don't), I think this entire forum would strongly appreciate it if you posted them. (But please remember what TSW said, and edit them for direct references to your children.)

I also meant it about that tape recorder business. Find out when the conversation goes to hell, and prevent it from reaching that point. You're the adult; your kids don't have the wisdom to prevent things from getting out of hand, so the only one left is you.

[Sue Your Ass Off Scheff]

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[Anonymous]

Can't you assclowns troll ST instead?

(Woo! Post 666! Okay, I'm done for the night.)

[Sue Your Ass Off Scheff]

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[exhausted]

Are you just referring to the troll saying that, or do you mean that the real thing has done it as well?

If your communications with any program have become at all interesting (and we might find interesting what you don't), I think this entire forum would strongly appreciate it if you posted them. (But please remember what TSW said, and edit them for direct references to your children.)

I also meant it about that tape recorder business. Find out when the conversation goes to hell, and prevent it from reaching that point. You're the adult; your kids don't have the wisdom to prevent things from getting out of hand, so the only one left is you.

was referring to all the people who keep popping up and saying they can help me by dragging my kid out of bed in the night and transporting him from the UK to the US, it isn't going to happen, yet still, as you see from the above posts, I'm still getting the offers of 'help'

i have said before that Aspen e mailed me saying to get him on the next flight and they'd start him the next morning wihtout really knowing wether what i was saying was true or not, I could have kidnapped any old persons kid and sent them for all they cared.....they continue to e mail me wondering where I am and why haven't I sent my son - I just delete them lol

[MightyAardvark]

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[Anonymous]

they continue to e mail me wondering where I am and why haven't I sent my son - I just delete them lol

Please reach into your Deleted Items folder and copy and paste them into a new topic on Fornits. We're REALLY curious what they have to say.