I'm a young man (21). I go to school, work two jobs, and have a fairly normal relationship with my girl. Yes, I was forced to be in elan for 14 truly terrible months, but I don't use it as an excuse for my own problems and honestly it isnt a factor in my mind at all (i dont remember the last time i really thought about elan) And just because I come on here and vent out frustrations or voice my 2 cents on things, or make silly stupid jokes doesn't make me or anyone on here miserable/loser/shiteater/etc...
NOBODY TAKES THIS SERIOUSLY. if all the people who still post here met at a barbeque or something, there'd be no problems and no disresepect, its just the nature of a webboard to be anarchistic and antagonistic, and thats why we come here to let it out. its not pathetic... well usually not, its just silliness
get over yourself
-Mr Pinky