Apology accepted. We already knew how you got the informaton. We were saying yesterday to each other that there must've been a Heidi that worked there that we didn't know or remember. It was big of you to step up and own up to your mistake. Thank you. I know that usually things will get drawn out on here. We'll just end it now.
You figured right Tina. I just find it real strange, your friend has the same name and went to Elan, and when I was at elan 87-88 there was this staff member named Heidi who also had health complications from Her liver. Talk about a small world? Anyway She was really cool and treated the residents like human beings, wasn't one of those child abusers like all the rest of them. It's real sad though that a certain person or persons, one most likely being artman would find humor in all of this and pin it on Jordan, as what he usually does here at this forum. Dont ask me why, but this guy has some serious issues and likes to slander Jordan at any cost. Sadly ( I like to refer to him as IT) picked on your friend Heidi and exploited Her illness for his bad,sick taste in humor. IT will soon face it's demons one way or another, and bad karma will one day find IT.
For your friend Heidi, I hope life will turn around for the better part of it, and hopefully the worst will be behind Her. Keep up on the faith.
What I really want to know is why someone took it upon his/her self to post information about Heidi?
I know it was easily found in a search engine. That is not the point here.
No matter how easily it is found or not found what gives anyone the right to repost that information? Were you personally asked to repost the information found by the person it was about? In this case that person is Heidi.
It was obvious that said person did not even know if the Heidi they had the info on was the correct Heidi. They ASSUMED it was "their" Heidi. And the end result was this fiasco that has everyone and their mother flippin pissed off.
If Heidi wanted that kind of info taken from Beliefnet and dragged on over to Fornits/Elan forums/threads she would of done it herself. Long ago.
That information should of stayed over at the Beliefnet site.
Putting that info about her life out on front street like that was not going to be constructive whatsoever. Did you EVER think it would turn out constructive?
If anything it should of been a very discreet post simply stating that here is Heidi's email addy she has been having a bit of a hard time lately, if you want email her and offer your love and support. The end. No specific details were even needed.
Especially not even knowing with 110% certainty that you even had info on the correct person.
Turns out that a girl who wanted her life to remain anonymous was outed so to speak and now some wack job is imitating her and mocking her situation.
I'd say it was a HUDGE CLUSTERFUCK!
It was very noble of him to apologize to the Heidi who was wronged in this situation.
It is unfortunate.
Now we have another mud slinging contest at hand.
Who is the troll or trolls that are creating fake Heidi profiles and posting insanity?
Everyone here hopefully learned a hudge lesson from this fiasco,
do not under any circumstances good intentioned OR not post anything about yourself or anyone else that contains sensitive information.
If it is about you and only you then post away about your personal issues IF your just a glutton for punishment. You will be screwed with if you make a choice to post your dirty laundry here.
It was even nicer of her to forgive this person for the HUDGE mistake they made.
Heidi your truly a saint. God bless you little lady. I wish nothing but the best for you in the future.
