Shelby,
I think you are doing a great thing with this. It is difficult to deal with us straightlings, especially before we face our demons.
As for me, I have no partner to share at this time....
...but if you know anyone interested in a custodial dad, kids x3, 2 cats, a neurotic Golden Retriever and a macaw...
aw, never mind, I hear them running away already
LOL
Bill