Didn't mean to offend anyone, I';m just drunk as fuck right now (and when I last posted, too......)
Just saying, it's not that hard to do, it just takes a lil bit o planning, and wilingness to deal with a lil bit of red tape, but nothing insurmountable. Just find out who runs the damn place, tell 'em you wanna have a memorial for departed friends and loved ones, and it's generally cool. Not a big deal in the eyes of the folks that run the place, just tell 'em where and when and they will generally accommodate you. Nothing to it but to do it......,