On 2006-01-15 06:01:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2006-01-14 05:12:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Here's an idea; throw yourself into the rest of your life and stop tormenting yourself with all the shit this website reminds you of. As some have said lately, this website has lost its way; its purpose; its meaning. Time to move on and repalce all the negativity that is perpetuating itself here."
Finally, someone with reasoning."
I wish the original Anon Poster would expound on this "reasoning".
I think of Pirate as a friend. Although I do not know him personally, I have bantered with him over time and have found him completely "thrown" into his life. Asking him to "stop tormenting himself" implies that there is a choice...Perhaps there is, he can vent and explore/examine his inner-landscape at the moment or he can just swallow it and "move on". (sounds like a tough love move to me) Almost assuring that "it" will perpetuate itself.
Where else can he discuss memories of Straight...Where else do you expect him to gather with other folks who have had a similar experience...
Ya said that someone said, "this website has lost its way; its purpose; its meaning." Perhaps for you, and that other person this website has lost it's meaning for them as well as yourself. Have you lost your purpose for this site? If so, happy trails.
It is suggested that he "replace all the negativity that is perpetuating itself here." Sounds like a pipe dream (an empty suggestion...like those of Straight) until such time that a demonstrable example of how this might be done.
I would like to know how reasonable this "reasoning" is.
Sorry, but to me this cant be written by a survivor...maybe a parent of a survivor. It just sounds too Straight-Like....imho