Dear "phased out",
Relax I was in the church pew too! These people in here went through straight as you and I went through KHK....They had blue chairs and we had hard wooden benches that made our butts go numb.
Truth is both programs were emotionally damaging and designed to be that way. Straight was before khk started, and khk soon followed suit, so to speak.
Truth is noone can truly compare anyones "personal hell" that is why it is personal.
Unfortunately, we all have our own deomons that may or may not bite us in the butts at a moments notice. Mine lately has been depression. Ye will see that if ye check out the depression cumulative stress thread I started b/c I could barely take it anymore.
The arguing on here may or may not help I guess depending upon how ye use the forum as a "tool" of whatever ones use is for it.
Truth as I know it around here though is most survivors I have met on here are nice and willing to help ye out of this brainwashing web if they can at the time. I myself have been trying to climb out of the web for 16 years...I have had some successes with it and some regressions.
I hope the fighting may stop on here though b/c I don't think it solves anything really.....
This is for all of us ..including me not just "phased out"
love and hope to ye all!
sincerely,
-DP
Fear is the parent of cruelty, therefore it is no wonder if religion and cruelty have gone hand-in-hand.
--Bertrand Russell, British philosopher, educator, mathemetician, and social critic