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« Reply #135 on: March 17, 2006, 08:36:00 PM »
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1.  Teacher/coach who conducted a  Lord-of-the-Flies-style drill that consisted of encirling the weakest and most helpless student on the team and beating the tar out of him. This developed character in the encircling students by teaching them the meaning of "Courage."

2.  Teacher/coach who specialized in developing close relationships with the best looking girls in the school, and coaching them about "Leadership" in one-on-one sessions in his office.

3.  Teacher quoted in Time magazine, addressing a student with the question, "Do you realize that you're a gutless chameleon?" This developed character in the student to whom the question was directed by teaching him the meaning of "Concern for Others."

4.  Teacher who instilled academic "Curiosity" in his students by regularly storming out of the class because their attitude was so bad that they didn't deserve to have him there (and he needed could go back to his office and finish out the athletic schedule).
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« Reply #136 on: March 17, 2006, 08:47:00 PM »
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1.  Teacher/coach who conducted a  Lord-of-the-Flies-style drill that consisted of encirling the weakest and most helpless student on the team and beating the tar out of him. This developed character in the encircling students by teaching them the meaning of "Courage."



2.  Teacher/coach who specialized in developing close relationships with the best looking girls in the school, and coaching them about "Leadership" in one-on-one sessions in his office.



3.  Teacher quoted in Time magazine, addressing a student with the question, "Do you realize that you're a gutless chameleon?" This developed character in the student to whom the question was directed by teaching him the meaning of "Concern for Others."



4.  Teacher who instilled academic "Curiosity" in his students by regularly storming out of the class because their attitude was so bad that they didn't deserve to have him there (and he needed could go back to his office and finish out the athletic schedule).




. Teacher quoted in Time magazine, addressing a student with the question, "Do you realize that you're a gutless chameleon?" This developed character in the student to whom the question was directed by teaching him the meaning of "Concern for Others."



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I would stipulate that would be a verbal assault.  Who was that?


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« Reply #137 on: March 17, 2006, 11:01:00 PM »
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On 2006-03-17 17:36:00, Anonymous wrote:


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Names withheld by request:





1.  Teacher/coach who conducted a  Lord-of-the-Flies-style drill that consisted of encirling the weakest and most helpless student on the team and beating the tar out of him. This developed character in the encircling students by teaching them the meaning of "Courage."





2.  Teacher/coach who specialized in developing close relationships with the best looking girls in the school, and coaching them about "Leadership" in one-on-one sessions in his office.





3.  Teacher quoted in Time magazine, addressing a student with the question, "Do you realize that you're a gutless chameleon?" This developed character in the student to whom the question was directed by teaching him the meaning of "Concern for Others."





4.  Teacher who instilled academic "Curiosity" in his students by regularly storming out of the class because their attitude was so bad that they didn't deserve to have him there (and he needed could go back to his office and finish out the athletic schedule).








. Teacher quoted in Time magazine, addressing a student with the question, "Do you realize that you're a gutless chameleon?" This developed character in the student to whom the question was directed by teaching him the meaning of "Concern for Others."






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I would stipulate that would be a verbal assault.  Who was that?





Sydney Runningoutofsurnames"

Man that is to funny for words.
http://www.time.com/time/archive/previe ... 95,00.html
Jim Searles! I thought it was some one scary.

So who was the couch/coach  back in the day of swine flu and whip inflation now?

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« Reply #138 on: March 17, 2006, 11:49:00 PM »
2. Teacher/coach who specialized in developing close relationships with the best looking girls in the school, and coaching them about "Leadership" in one-on-one sessions in his office.

This is an easy one!  Larry Dubinsky.  Total pervert who the administrators protected until a parent finally sued. He should have been arrested, but instead the school told us girls, "you need to confront him and tell him how he makes you feel."  oh yeah girls, let's tell Dubinsky that feeling us up to get his rocks off at practice makes us feel uncomfortable. I am sure he would have stopped if we let him know.......NOT!
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« Reply #139 on: March 18, 2006, 07:44:00 AM »
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"2. Teacher/coach who specialized in developing close relationships with the best looking girls in the school, and coaching them about "Leadership" in one-on-one sessions in his office.



This is an easy one!  Larry Dubinsky.  Total pervert who the administrators protected until a parent finally sued. He should have been arrested, but instead the school told us girls, "you need to confront him and tell him how he makes you feel."  oh yeah girls, let's tell Dubinsky that feeling us up to get his rocks off at practice makes us feel uncomfortable. I am sure he would have stopped if we let him know.......NOT!"


  I am sorry to hear that.  There is a natural tendency for institutions to circle the wagons in a case like this, to protect the mission.  Catholicism and it adherents were the keepers of the knowledge of the golden age through the dark ages in europe. As a non catholic christian and former catholic, I acknowledge the role the Church had in preserving and spreading the Word of Christ.  The church has existed for close to two millenia.  The recent sex abuse charges against catholic clergy speak to failures both institutional and human but not to failure of the mission of the church to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ.
I would submit that if the assurtions you have made are true, the same is true of hyde.  Hyde mission is not to molest pubesent girls any more then the Catholic Church's mission is to sodomize little boys.  It is a human failure on the part of an individual and the people surronding that individual not a flaw in the fundemental mission.

How did you pick up the on the Time article if you went to woodstock?  I was at that meeting in 76 and forgot all about it.  I am tring to remember which andrew .... Mann Swartz?  It is really funny (my apologies if Jim is reading this) being confronted by Jim was like encountering a toy poodle as a watch dog.  He was really a sweet guy. His wife was a very nice and caring person too. I think her name was Joanna.
The guy that was scary was Paul Hurd.  I had a chest Xray recently and the doctor asked how I got the indentations on my chest bone.  Just kidding.

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« Reply #140 on: March 18, 2006, 08:35:00 AM »
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On 2006-03-18 04:44:00, Anonymous wrote:

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On 2006-03-17 20:49:00, Anonymous wrote:


"2. Teacher/coach who specialized in developing close relationships with the best looking girls in the school, and coaching them about "Leadership" in one-on-one sessions in his office.





This is an easy one!  Larry Dubinsky.  Total pervert who the administrators protected until a parent finally sued. He should have been arrested, but instead the school told us girls, "you need to confront him and tell him how he makes you feel."  oh yeah girls, let's tell Dubinsky that feeling us up to get his rocks off at practice makes us feel uncomfortable. I am sure he would have stopped if we let him know.......NOT!"




  I am sorry to hear that.  There is a natural tendency for institutions to circle the wagons in a case like this, to protect the mission.  Catholicism and it adherents were the keepers of the knowledge of the golden age through the dark ages in europe. As a non catholic christian and former catholic, I acknowledge the role the Church had in preserving and spreading the Word of Christ.  The church has existed for close to two millenia.  The recent sex abuse charges against catholic clergy speak to failures both institutional and human but not to failure of the mission of the church to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ.

I would submit that if the assurtions you have made are true, the same is true of hyde.  Hyde mission is not to molest pubesent girls any more then the Catholic Church's mission is to sodomize little boys.  It is a human failure on the part of an individual and the people surronding that individual not a flaw in the fundemental mission.



How did you pick up the on the Time article if you went to woodstock?  I was at that meeting in 76 and forgot all about it.  I am tring to remember which andrew .... Mann Swartz?  It is really funny (my apologies if Jim is reading this) being confronted by Jim was like encountering a toy poodle as a watch dog.  He was really a sweet guy. His wife was a very nice and caring person too. I think her name was Joanna.

The guy that was scary was Paul Hurd.  I had a chest Xray recently and the doctor asked how I got the indentations on my chest bone.  Just kidding.



sydney"


I agree that Hyde's mission is not to molest, but the key question is, do you get rid of the molester and keep all the people who covered it up, or do you also get rid of the administrators who believed this was an acceptable way to run a place? If I am not mistaken the Catholic Church got rid of the head of the Church in Boston for the cover-ups, not strictly the molestors.

You wanted more names.  I can add to the other ones.  Ken Grant who physically attacked at least one girl that I know of, Don McMillan who has attacked at least one kid, and of course the in house pervert Dubinsky who loved to give back rubs to us in sports. Of course the other names were already brought up like the Prophet Joe Gauld.  Never did hear of his son Malcolm going at it physically with anyone, so guess that is a plus.

Hey, that's enough for me not to ever recommend Hyde to anyone.  The message might be good, but the messengers are one scary group.
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« Reply #141 on: March 18, 2006, 08:45:00 AM »
One of you mentioned the name Cavalli.  Isn't that a relation to the woman at Woodstock who married one of the fathers?  Could this be the same flirtatious administrator who came to Hyde after a bad divorce and was intent on finding herself a rich guy?
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« Reply #142 on: March 18, 2006, 09:22:00 AM »
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"2. Teacher/coach who specialized in developing close relationships with the best looking girls in the school, and coaching them about "Leadership" in one-on-one sessions in his office.







This is an easy one!  Larry Dubinsky.  Total pervert who the administrators protected until a parent finally sued. He should have been arrested, but instead the school told us girls, "you need to confront him and tell him how he makes you feel."  oh yeah girls, let's tell Dubinsky that feeling us up to get his rocks off at practice makes us feel uncomfortable. I am sure he would have stopped if we let him know.......NOT!"







  I am sorry to hear that.  There is a natural tendency for institutions to circle the wagons in a case like this, to protect the mission.  Catholicism and it adherents were the keepers of the knowledge of the golden age through the dark ages in europe. As a non catholic christian and former catholic, I acknowledge the role the Church had in preserving and spreading the Word of Christ.  The church has existed for close to two millenia.  The recent sex abuse charges against catholic clergy speak to failures both institutional and human but not to failure of the mission of the church to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ.


I would submit that if the assurtions you have made are true, the same is true of hyde.  Hyde mission is not to molest pubesent girls any more then the Catholic Church's mission is to sodomize little boys.  It is a human failure on the part of an individual and the people surronding that individual not a flaw in the fundemental mission.





How did you pick up the on the Time article if you went to woodstock?  I was at that meeting in 76 and forgot all about it.  I am tring to remember which andrew .... Mann Swartz?  It is really funny (my apologies if Jim is reading this) being confronted by Jim was like encountering a toy poodle as a watch dog.  He was really a sweet guy. His wife was a very nice and caring person too. I think her name was Joanna.


The guy that was scary was Paul Hurd.  I had a chest Xray recently and the doctor asked how I got the indentations on my chest bone.  Just kidding.





sydney"




I agree that Hyde's mission is not to molest, but the key question is, do you get rid of the molester and keep all the people who covered it up, or do you also get rid of the administrators who believed this was an acceptable way to run a place? If I am not mistaken the Catholic Church got rid of the head of the Church in Boston for the cover-ups, not strictly the molestors.



You wanted more names.  I can add to the other ones.  Ken Grant who physically attacked at least one girl that I know of, Don McMillan who has attacked at least one kid, and of course the in house pervert Dubinsky who loved to give back rubs to us in sports. Of course the other names were already brought up like the Prophet Joe Gauld.  Never did hear of his son Malcolm going at it physically with anyone, so guess that is a plus.



Hey, that's enough for me not to ever recommend Hyde to anyone.  The message might be good, but the messengers are one scary group."


Yes Cardinal Law was removed to the Vatican which is a nation state, so that he would be beyond the reach of the legal arm of the Commonweath of Massachusetts (I have always loved that phase).  One would hope that an institution that demands high personal standards would look inward to do the same.
Sexualality is a powerful force.  The story of King David is an architype that we have seen repeated in the story of Bill Clinton. Bill's down fall was two fold:
He did not keep it in his pants
He lied about it.
It was the lying that got him in trouble.
Everyone has personal failings.  It is how you deal with them that defines your charater.  The down fall of David was more that he sent Uriah to his death, not just that he surcame to sexual desire of Bathsheba.  We tend to remember the sex part of the Story of David,  which says something about us.
The thing that bothers me about this story of Larry is not that he is an imperfect person but that Hyde did not live up to expectations for right action on the part of those who were agrieved.

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« Reply #143 on: March 18, 2006, 11:44:00 AM »
<Sydney>>

The current Director of Training for Teleflex, but I don't mean to suggest anything like what happened at Woodstock; just a funny tendency for him to spend a lot of time with the best looking female students.
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« Reply #144 on: March 18, 2006, 02:54:00 PM »
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"One of you mentioned the name Cavalli.  Isn't that a relation to the woman at Woodstock who married one of the fathers?  Could this be the same flirtatious administrator who came to Hyde after a bad divorce and was intent on finding herself a rich guy?"


I don't know much about Cavalli's personal story.  What I remember is that she was a fairly nice person most of the time who seemed to be under the Hyde spell.  In seminar she talked like she bought the Gauld view of the world and wasn't willing to challenge the "word" handed down from on high.  Of course, when I was at Hyde there were lots of groupies like that, staff who seemed to have a real hard thinking their own original thoughts and who depended on Gauld and Hyde to tell them how to treat everyone. Very scary.  Sometimes Cavalli would get into the Hyde thing and talk to people like they were real little children who needed mommy to tell them what to do.
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« Reply #145 on: March 19, 2006, 09:04:00 AM »
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"This week we received a telephone call from parents who are trying to find an appropriate boarding school for their child.  The mom explained to us that she "Googled" Hyde and found this website.  She said that she and her husband had heard some very negative things about Hyde, but that finding this website and reading many of the postings REALLY scared them.  They said they can't imagine sending their child to a school like Hyde, in light of all of the negative reports here.  She said the positive comments were overshadowed by the many thoughtful criticisms.  She also said their educational consultant doesn't recommend Hyde any longer.  



Anyway, they're looking for suggestions.  What other schools have people had good experiences with (their child is beginning to hang with the wrong crowd, is showing some signs of defiance, but isn't out of control)?



Thanks for your help."


My advice about helping parents find a good boarding school for their child:  First, find other parents whose kids have struggled with similar issues and are in boarding schools.  Second, find the names of educational consultants they've used and that they've had good experiences with.  Third, contact these educational consultants, explain your situation.  Fourth, ask the following key question: What do you think of the Hyde School.  If the educational consultant says it's a school worth considering, look for another educational consultant.  If the educational consultant expresses reservations about Hyde and says it's probably a good idea to look at alternatives to Hyde, continue talking.  That's a very good sign.  Any educational consultant who refers to Hyde either doesn't really know what goes on there or thinks like the Hyde cult.  That's a very bad sign.
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« Reply #146 on: March 19, 2006, 08:37:00 PM »
"I really love Sumner. He was the brite spot of erudition in an otherwise intelectually dull landscape."

When he was sober.

"I include the Texan that used to strut in the student union spouting his opinions as fact, in the guise of a civics course."

Society may be in need of a new 12 Step group to address that particular form of inebriation: "Hi, I'm Eddie, and I'm addicted to the sound of my own voice." "Hi, Eddie!"

"Anyway "A violent physical or verbal attack." I don't think so. If that was violent what do you call what Joe did you he got in your face?"

The words "rage, "abuse," "tirade," "tantrum," and "outburst" come to mind, although the list is by no means exhaustive.

In fact, the following passage, written by the CIA's predecessor agency about another individual who had memorable rages, contains various details (e.g., biting objects, spittle, purple face) that might ring a bell for you [I have substituted the name of Joe for the name of the original subject]:

"Almost everyone who has written about [Joe Gauld] has commented on his rages. These are well known to all of his associates and they have learned to fear them. The descriptions of his behavior during these rages vary considerably. The more extreme descriptions claim that at the climax he rolls on the floor and chews on [substitute "tennis balls" for "the carpets"] ...
Even without this added touch of chewing [substitute "tennis balls" for "the carpet"], his behavior is still extremely violent and shows an utter lack of emotional control. In the worst rages he undoubtedly acts like a spoiled child who cannot have his own way and bangs his fists on the tables and walls. He scolds and shouts and stammers and on some occasions foaming saliva gathers in the corners of his mouth ...

"He was an alarming sight, his hair disheveled, his eyes fixed, and his face distorted and purple. I feared that he would collapse or have a stroke ...

"It must not be supposed, however, that these rages occur only when he is crossed on major issues. On the contrary, very insignificant matters might call out this reaction. In general they are brought on whenever anyone contradicts him, when there is unpleasant news for which he might feel responsible, when there is any skepticism concerning his judgment or when a situation arises in which his infallibility might be challenged or belittled. ... [A]mong his staff there is a tactic [sic] understanding: "For God's sake don't excite [Joe] - which means do not tell him bad news -- do not mention things which are not as he conceives them to be."

"Many writers believe that these rages are just play acting. There is much to be said for this point of view since [Joe's] first reaction to the unpleasant situation is not indignation, as one would ordinarily expect under these circumstances. He goes off into a rage or tirade without warning. Similarly, when he has finished, there is no aftermath. He immediately cools down and begins to talk about other matters in a perfectly calm tone of voice as though nothing had happened. Occasionally he will look around sheepishly, as if to see if anyone is laughing, and then proceeds with other matters, without the slightest trace of resentment.

"Some of his closest associates have felt that he induces these rages consciously to frighten those about him ... [a] technique by which he would throw his entire entourage into confusion by well-timed fits of rage and thus make them more submissive ...

"Rage and abuse became the favorite weapons in his armory ...

"This is not the time to enter into a detailed discussion concerning the nature and purpose of the rages. It is sufficient, for the present time, to realize that his associates are well aware that [Joe] can and does behave in this way. It is a part of the [Joe] they know and are forced to deal with. We may point out, however, that they are not conscious acting alone since it is quite impossible for an actor to actually become purple in the face unless he really is in an emotional state.

"... If we examine the causes of these outbursts, we almost invariably find that the trigger which sets them off is something which he considers to be a challenge of his super-man personality. It may be a contradiction, a criticism or even a doubt concerning the truth or wisdom of something he has said or done, or it might be a slight or the anticipation of opposition. Even though the subject may be trifling or the challenge only by implication, or even wholly imagined, he feels called upon to display his primitive character ... To contradict him is in his eyes a crime of 'lese-majeste'; opposition to his plans, from whatever it may come, is a definite sacrilege, to which the only reply is an immediate and striking display of his omnipotence.

"As soon as his display has served its purpose and cowed his listeners into submission, it is turned off as suddenly as it was turned on. How great is the insecurity which demands such constant vigilence and apprehension!

"... we must ferret out and seek to correct the underlying factors which produced the unwelcome phenomenon. We must discover the psychological streams which nourish this destructive state of mind in order that we may divert them into channels which will permit a further evolution of our form of civilization."

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« Reply #147 on: March 19, 2006, 08:42:00 PM »
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""I really love Sumner. He was the brite spot of erudition in an otherwise intelectually dull landscape."



When he was sober.



"I include the Texan that used to strut in the student union spouting his opinions as fact, in the guise of a civics course."



Society may be in need of a new 12 Step group to address that particular form of inebriation: "Hi, I'm Eddie, and I'm addicted to the sound of my own voice." "Hi, Eddie!"



"Anyway "A violent physical or verbal attack." I don't think so. If that was violent what do you call what Joe did you he got in your face?"



The words "rage, "abuse," "tirade," "tantrum," and "outburst" come to mind, although the list is by no means exhaustive.



In fact, the following passage, written by the CIA's predecessor agency about another individual who had memorable rages, contains various details (e.g., biting objects, spittle, purple face) that might ring a bell for you [I have substituted the name of Joe for the name of the original subject]:



"Almost everyone who has written about [Joe Gauld] has commented on his rages. These are well known to all of his associates and they have learned to fear them. The descriptions of his behavior during these rages vary considerably. The more extreme descriptions claim that at the climax he rolls on the floor and chews on [substitute "tennis balls" for "the carpets"] ...

Even without this added touch of chewing [substitute "tennis balls" for "the carpet"], his behavior is still extremely violent and shows an utter lack of emotional control. In the worst rages he undoubtedly acts like a spoiled child who cannot have his own way and bangs his fists on the tables and walls. He scolds and shouts and stammers and on some occasions foaming saliva gathers in the corners of his mouth ...



"He was an alarming sight, his hair disheveled, his eyes fixed, and his face distorted and purple. I feared that he would collapse or have a stroke ...



"It must not be supposed, however, that these rages occur only when he is crossed on major issues. On the contrary, very insignificant matters might call out this reaction. In general they are brought on whenever anyone contradicts him, when there is unpleasant news for which he might feel responsible, when there is any skepticism concerning his judgment or when a situation arises in which his infallibility might be challenged or belittled. ... [A]mong his staff there is a tactic [sic] understanding: "For God's sake don't excite [Joe] - which means do not tell him bad news -- do not mention things which are not as he conceives them to be."



"Many writers believe that these rages are just play acting. There is much to be said for this point of view since [Joe's] first reaction to the unpleasant situation is not indignation, as one would ordinarily expect under these circumstances. He goes off into a rage or tirade without warning. Similarly, when he has finished, there is no aftermath. He immediately cools down and begins to talk about other matters in a perfectly calm tone of voice as though nothing had happened. Occasionally he will look around sheepishly, as if to see if anyone is laughing, and then proceeds with other matters, without the slightest trace of resentment.



"Some of his closest associates have felt that he induces these rages consciously to frighten those about him ... [a] technique by which he would throw his entire entourage into confusion by well-timed fits of rage and thus make them more submissive ...



"Rage and abuse became the favorite weapons in his armory ...



"This is not the time to enter into a detailed discussion concerning the nature and purpose of the rages. It is sufficient, for the present time, to realize that his associates are well aware that [Joe] can and does behave in this way. It is a part of the [Joe] they know and are forced to deal with. We may point out, however, that they are not conscious acting alone since it is quite impossible for an actor to actually become purple in the face unless he really is in an emotional state.



"... If we examine the causes of these outbursts, we almost invariably find that the trigger which sets them off is something which he considers to be a challenge of his super-man personality. It may be a contradiction, a criticism or even a doubt concerning the truth or wisdom of something he has said or done, or it might be a slight or the anticipation of opposition. Even though the subject may be trifling or the challenge only by implication, or even wholly imagined, he feels called upon to display his primitive character ... To contradict him is in his eyes a crime of 'lese-majeste'; opposition to his plans, from whatever it may come, is a definite sacrilege, to which the only reply is an immediate and striking display of his omnipotence.



"As soon as his display has served its purpose and cowed his listeners into submission, it is turned off as suddenly as it was turned on. How great is the insecurity which demands such constant vigilence and apprehension!



"... we must ferret out and seek to correct the underlying factors which produced the unwelcome phenomenon. We must discover the psychological streams which nourish this destructive state of mind in order that we may divert them into channels which will permit a further evolution of our form of civilization."



Source:

http://www.nizkor.org/hweb/people/h/hit ... index.html



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Wow, what a powerful, and frightening, comparison.
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Hyde School, The Most Truthful Informative Post I have Seen
« Reply #148 on: March 19, 2006, 08:48:00 PM »
Today's New York Times Magazine includes a powerful and astute article by the renowned James Traub on world conflict/peace.  He's an impressive journalist.  And, this is the very same James Traub who wrote a scathing critique of the Hyde School, referring to Hyde's cult-like qualities.  I wonder what motivated Traub to investigate, write about, and expose Hyde.  In any case, it's amazing to see that someone of Traub's caliber sees Hyde for what it is and has chosen to tell the world: http://www.educationnext.org/20051/22.html
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« Reply #149 on: March 20, 2006, 07:03:00 AM »
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On 2006-03-15 16:31:00, Anonymous wrote:

"This week we received a telephone call from parents who are trying to find an appropriate boarding school for their child.  The mom explained to us that she "Googled" Hyde and found this website.  She said that she and her husband had heard some very negative things about Hyde, but that finding this website and reading many of the postings REALLY scared them.  They said they can't imagine sending their child to a school like Hyde, in light of all of the negative reports here.  She said the positive comments were overshadowed by the many thoughtful criticisms.  She also said their educational consultant doesn't recommend Hyde any longer.  



Anyway, they're looking for suggestions.  What other schools have people had good experiences with (their child is beginning to hang with the wrong crowd, is showing some signs of defiance, but isn't out of control)?



Thanks for your help."


I recommend you look at the Oliverian School in New Hampshire: http://www.oliverianschool.org/

This school focuses on some of the same kinds of kids who end up at Hyde.  But the differences in approach are amazing.  The approach at Oliverian seems to be so much more enlightened, helpful, supportive than Hyde's.  Hyde can be so destructive for so many of its kids (and the parents).  Schools like Oliverian take a radically different approach that makes so much more sense than Hyde's.  You'll be amazed at the difference.  There are other schools like this that are definitely worth visiting.  These schools are like a field of tulips; for many people Hyde is like a toxic dump.  Kids may continue to struggle at places like Oliverian, but the staff are so much more skilled at knowing what to do to help them.  Unlike Hyde, they actually have serious training in how to deal with adolescents who are having a tough time.  You won't see anything like that Gauld propaganda and brainwashing.
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