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« on: December 11, 2005, 09:40:00 AM »
So, what effect do you think being locked up in a WWASP program or other program had on your sexual maturity?

There is something seriously disturbing about being restricted from even seeing the opposite sex for years at a time, this must have a long term effect on some kids. There was a few 12 year olds locked up, and you could tell they'd be there for years, how would that effect them?

Masturbation was a serious offense, as weird as that sounds. Having to live in a cabin full of teenage boys of all ages can make for some squeeky beds at night!  :lol:

any thoughts?
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« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2005, 11:09:00 AM »
This is a case where the program's religious values strongly influenced the rules.

Masturbation was forbidden, period.  Sexual contact, gay or straight, was also forbidden.  Everyone who wasn't a virgin was labeled a slut.

Us girls would like to cuddle together when we could get away with it, not to be lesbians, but just to feel some human contact a couple times over our 2-3 year stays.

I don't know if it was the same with the boys, but a lot of the girls turned bisexual while in the program.  It's much more socially acceptable for girls to do this than boys.
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« Reply #2 on: December 11, 2005, 04:15:00 PM »
I know of three boys who are now faggots..Its a shame
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« Reply #3 on: December 12, 2005, 08:49:00 PM »
Eh, if you go by the numbers abused people actually end up a little more open about it and healthier sexually in the end, though they still have to carry their emotional baggage throughout life...

... and Im not about to fall in line with the programmies and say that controlled abuse is good if it toughens someone or forces them to grow up, either.

I can sit here and try to imagine how desperate Id be for some contact and affection and genuine love, not programmie puppet-love when I put on an act and speak the dogma in a seminar (ah, lovebombs :roll: ) or for ANY release, but I probably have no REAL idea because Ive never had to go through that.

Also, having night staff prevent masturbation is just fucking barbaric and cruel, if not sexual abuse in and of itself. Too bad its just another charge on the laundry list of abuses you cant prove  :sad:

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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #4 on: December 13, 2005, 11:59:00 AM »
Niles,

What does Helena Handbasket (and your other girlfriends) think about YOUR sexuality?
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« Reply #5 on: December 13, 2005, 12:27:00 PM »
The only safe place to jerk it was in the shower, but man you had to learn to bust a nut fast cuz they were only a couple minuts!
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« Reply #6 on: December 13, 2005, 05:10:00 PM »
[ This Message was edited by: Nihilanthic on 2005-12-13 14:10 ]
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #7 on: December 13, 2005, 06:40:00 PM »
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On 2005-12-13 08:59:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Niles,



What does Helena Handbasket (and your other girlfriends) think about YOUR sexuality?

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Hmm, odd that you'd ask him. Why not ask Helena and all of Nilies' other adoring fans?

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« Reply #8 on: December 13, 2005, 08:38:00 PM »
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On 2005-12-13 08:59:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Niles,



What does Helena Handbasket (and your other girlfriends) think about YOUR sexuality?

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OK, from one who detests Nils' arrogance, I still have to say that post is out of line. Mean-spirited, to say the least. And it creates an occasion that actually calls for otherwise ridiculous outcries of "ad hominem attacks!"
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« Reply #9 on: December 13, 2005, 08:44:00 PM »
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And it creates an occasion that actually calls for otherwise ridiculous outcries of "ad hominem attacks!"

Ironic coming from you...

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from one who detests Nils' arrogance

hmm... sounds like you give plenty of ammunition for him using the term 'ad-hominem' against you. can you say something WITHOUT attacking who you're responding to ?

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, I still have to say that post is out of line. Mean-spirited, to say the least.


So was yours.

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« Reply #10 on: December 14, 2005, 04:42:00 AM »

That it is wrong for a man to say he is certain of the objective truth of a proposition unless he can provide evidence which logically justifies that certainty. This is what agnosticism asserts and in my opinion, is all that is essential to agnosticism.
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #11 on: December 14, 2005, 12:35:00 PM »
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« Reply #12 on: December 15, 2005, 12:29:00 AM »
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On 2005-12-14 01:42:00, Nihilanthic wrote:

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That it is wrong for a man to say he is certain of the objective truth of a proposition unless he can provide evidence which logically justifies that certainty. This is what agnosticism asserts and in my opinion, is all that is essential to agnosticism.
--Thomas Henry Huxley, English biologist

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Ah, Nils, you've captured my heart at last . . . ::birthday::
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« Reply #13 on: December 22, 2005, 02:22:00 PM »
Let me see here, being locked up from when I was 12-16, only getting out by running away from Cross Creek, had a huge effect on my sexual maturity. Since I was deprived of having nomal relationships with the opposite sex during my incarciration.......I often sought out sexual relationships with owners, therapists, and house parents. I was successful doing this, because they were into young girls. I got the attention I was looking for.

After I ran away, and was living on my own for a year in St. George Utah, I had sex with atleast 15 different men. I had a huge appetite for sex, but my brain didn't understand what it was to have a monogomous relationship, so I had a ton of sex, ended up getting pregnant (having the abortion done in Las Vegas), and thank god I had my Aunt, and Uncle save me from a horrible life. I moved back to California entered high school, and was quickly back on track. I had my first real relationship with someone of the opposite sex, which lasted for 3 1/2 years. I was lucky that I didn't get AIDS or some other type of sexually transmitted disease during my stay in Utah.

These programs are so far from what reality is, that when you enter the real world after being there, you have no idea what the hell is going on.

Parents think that by putting their children there, that it'll save them. You come out even more screwed up, and end up doing more harm to yourself then you would've had you not been put in there in the first place.

Think long and hard before making a decision that could hurt your child.
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« Reply #14 on: December 22, 2005, 04:46:00 PM »
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but you guys killed this thread...
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