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« Reply #75 on: March 24, 2006, 05:44:00 PM »
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"I've personally seen Joe lose it with staff in DC as well. Anytime someone questions what he says or challenges him in ANY way, he automatically says "this is probably not the place for you". You can not have your own opinions or disagree with him or the administration because then you're not "embracing the process" or "you have a bad attitude"."



















Seems to me that the person who compared Gauld with the definition of "narcissistic personality disorder" hit the nail squarely on its head.  Why would anyone send their child to a school like Hyde that follows that man's lead?  No wonder Hyde is the target of so much criticism."
















Watch it bud. My momma sent me to Hyde. Don't be talking 'bout my momma.











Merle Haggard"








Seems we have a comedian on this site.  You are definitely entertaining Sid, or Meryl or whoever you are! I get the feeling you went to Hyde many years ago.  According to what I am reading it seems Hyde has not changed one bit from all those years ago even though laws have changed and a stronger liability exists for Hyde.  Do you think they are so arrogant that they don't care?  What's the deal with this Joe Gauld?  Does he think he is a prophet or God?  I did not go to Hyde nor do I have a child who goes there, but I was researching boarding schools and came across this very interesting and amusing board.  Hyde is definitely not for my son, but I have enjoyed reading up on this weird school."










 I take great umbrage with your pejorative "weird".  I assure you I would never have taught at a "weird" institution.  Hyde was unusual by design.  As far as Joe's foibles remember  the pearl is born from the sickness of the oyster.  As the beauty of the pearl is born out of disease and suffering, so are knowledge, noble human nature and purified human feeling born out of suffering and pain.  Hyde has provided many student with the suffering they needed to grow into full complete humans.  Plus it gave Jean and I a great place to play bridge with the Gaulds.







Sumner Hawley"







Nice try.  Sumner Hawley died more than a decade ago.  "








I am immortal, not because I alone among creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but because I have a soul, a spirit capable of compassion and sacrifice and endurance.



Sumner"


As a parent who is trying to find information about schools for struggling kids, I don't find your comments helpful or amusing.  I didn't visit this site for entertainment, but for serious help.
I have no idea whether you're really affiliated with the Hyde School.  The more I read about Hyde the more concerned I get about the kind of school it is.  Comments like yours don't help.  Please stop.  Thank you.
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« Reply #76 on: March 26, 2006, 05:12:00 AM »
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"I've personally seen Joe lose it with staff in DC as well. Anytime someone questions what he says or challenges him in ANY way, he automatically says "this is probably not the place for you". You can not have your own opinions or disagree with him or the administration because then you're not "embracing the process" or "you have a bad attitude"."






















Seems to me that the person who compared Gauld with the definition of "narcissistic personality disorder" hit the nail squarely on its head.  Why would anyone send their child to a school like Hyde that follows that man's lead?  No wonder Hyde is the target of so much criticism."



















Watch it bud. My momma sent me to Hyde. Don't be talking 'bout my momma.













Merle Haggard"










Seems we have a comedian on this site.  You are definitely entertaining Sid, or Meryl or whoever you are! I get the feeling you went to Hyde many years ago.  According to what I am reading it seems Hyde has not changed one bit from all those years ago even though laws have changed and a stronger liability exists for Hyde.  Do you think they are so arrogant that they don't care?  What's the deal with this Joe Gauld?  Does he think he is a prophet or God?  I did not go to Hyde nor do I have a child who goes there, but I was researching boarding schools and came across this very interesting and amusing board.  Hyde is definitely not for my son, but I have enjoyed reading up on this weird school."













 I take great umbrage with your pejorative "weird".  I assure you I would never have taught at a "weird" institution.  Hyde was unusual by design.  As far as Joe's foibles remember  the pearl is born from the sickness of the oyster.  As the beauty of the pearl is born out of disease and suffering, so are knowledge, noble human nature and purified human feeling born out of suffering and pain.  Hyde has provided many student with the suffering they needed to grow into full complete humans.  Plus it gave Jean and I a great place to play bridge with the Gaulds.









Sumner Hawley"










Nice try.  Sumner Hawley died more than a decade ago.  "













I am immortal, not because I alone among creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but because I have a soul, a spirit capable of compassion and sacrifice and endurance.





Sumner"




As a parent who is trying to find information about schools for struggling kids, I don't find your comments helpful or amusing.  I didn't visit this site for entertainment, but for serious help.

I have no idea whether you're really affiliated with the Hyde School.  The more I read about Hyde the more concerned I get about the kind of school it is.  Comments like yours don't help.  Please stop.  Thank you."


hey this is a open forum.  However you are say what ever you want.  Everyone else does.
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« Reply #77 on: March 26, 2006, 04:45:00 PM »
I love The Hyde School.
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« Reply #78 on: March 27, 2006, 06:31:00 AM »
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"I love The Hyde School."


  Anyone know the hyde school song?

Boom boom boom boom. We are the souls of Hyde. Lets have a web forum sing along.  I will go get my pitch pipe.

Jim Searles
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« Reply #79 on: March 27, 2006, 08:38:00 AM »
Jim Searles had perfect pitch...he never used a pitch pipe!
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« Reply #80 on: March 27, 2006, 09:43:00 AM »
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"Jim Searles had perfect pitch...he never used a pitch pipe!"


Damn, you have a good memory.  So what are the lyrics to the school song?  Marsha and I would like to sing it at our next gig.

 Todd Donahue
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« Reply #81 on: March 27, 2006, 12:32:00 PM »
Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom.
We Come, We Come
We come with a shout and a song.
Singing always, as we go marching on.
We are a merry, happy-go-lucky throng,
We are the Souls of Hyde...boom, boom, boom.

We're the chosen band,
United by true friendship's ties.
Swell the joyous strain,
To meet the echos from on high,
Oh won't you listen to the song,
We sing as we go marching by.
We'll give a cheer for five words dear,
And for all the souls of Hyde.
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« Reply #82 on: March 27, 2006, 01:33:00 PM »
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"Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom.

We Come, We Come

We come with a shout and a song.

Singing always, as we go marching on.

We are a merry, happy-go-lucky throng,

We are the Souls of Hyde...boom, boom, boom.



We're the chosen band,

United by true friendship's ties.

Swell the joyous strain,

To meet the echos from on high,

Oh won't you listen to the song,

We sing as we go marching by.

We'll give a cheer for five words dear,

And for all the souls of Hyde."


http://www.adps.org/manuals/ADPS-Pledge ... ersion.pdf

The Marching Song (We Come)
C.S. Smith, Amherst, 1874
(Tune: ?Ubi Bene?)
We come, we come, we come with a shout and a song,
Singing always as we go marching on,
We are a merry, happy-go-lucky throng
In Alpha Delta Phi.
We're the chosen band,
United by true friendship's tie.
Swell the joyous strain
To meet the echoes from on high.
Listen to the song
We sing as we go marching by.
We'll give a cheer for
And for Alpha Delta Phi.
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« Reply #83 on: March 27, 2006, 04:55:00 PM »
It's also close to the Bowdoin song
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« Reply #84 on: March 27, 2006, 05:12:00 PM »
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On 2006-03-27 09:32:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom, Boom.

We Come, We Come

We come with a shout and a song.

Singing always, as we go marching on.

We are a merry, happy-go-lucky throng,

We are the Souls of Hyde...boom, boom, boom.



We're the chosen band,

United by true friendship's ties.

Swell the joyous strain,

To meet the echos from on high,

Oh won't you listen to the song,

We sing as we go marching by.

We'll give a cheer for five words dear,

And for all the souls of Hyde."


Hey thanks. We will work it in right before Farewell Angelina.

Todd
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« Reply #85 on: March 29, 2006, 04:01:00 PM »
Dear Hyde-DC Faculty;

I apologize for the length of this email, but I ask you to read it thoughtfully, because I believe the basic issue is critical to what Hyde-DC could and should be.

Now that you all have had to think about and respond to the Wednesday Wrap up Confrontation, I want to address what I believe to be the deeper issue that was involved.  

I was encouraged by faculty members who made it a point to express their appreciation for what I did, but disappointed that only one faculty member directly addressed his concerns and strong disapproval for my performance.  If I am reading the entire faculty correctly, there were many more who were also upset with the way I handled the situation. If so, the fact they have yet to directly express their disapproval or concerns to me or Joanne signifies a serious weakness in faculty leadership.

Further, speaking frankly, I don?t believe Ms. Cooke would have refused my directive to stop if she did not feel strong faculty support for her position.  Events eventually made it clear that some middle school teachers have been upset by the leadership conflict between Mr. Djassou and Ms. Goubourn, and the wrap up became the very wrong choice to vent those concerns. What happened was very disrespectful to both Mr. Djassou and Ms. Goubourn, and their extensive efforts to resolve the leadership issue of Mr. Djassou.

However, I feel the larger problem at the wrap up was the failure of senior faculty members to provide moral leadership for the entire faculty.  If such behavior was in fact known to be unacceptable to veteran faculty members, this professional confrontation and breakdown in authority would never have occurred.

Hyde uniquely addresses personal growth of teachers as well as students, parents and families.  However seminars are expressly designed for this purpose, which are distinctly separate from our professional responsibilities.  If there are internal conflicts and concerns, they should be directed to Joanne?s administration, and not in a public forum like a wrap up.

This ugly situation revealed a huge gap in Hyde?s discipline, and a damaging weakness in our administrative structure.  Joanne had asked me to conduct the wrap up, which became sidetracked by issues that should have been addressed to Joanne directly and had no business being expressed in a professional workshop. Once it got out of hand, I asked Ms. Cooke 3 times to stop, finally directing her to leave.  The fact that many faculty members left with or after Ms. Cooke revealed a major teacher insubordination of Hyde authority.

At this point my anger was directed at the faculty as a whole; how could the faculty tolerate and remain oblivious to this blatant example of unprofessional behavior and its damage to our organization? How many teachers have expressed their concerns to those who acted unprofessionally?  Clearly there is a double standard at Hyde; accepting and sometimes even supporting attitudes and behavior of colleagues they definitely would never tolerate in their students.      

 This situation was perhaps the biggest disappointment in my 53 years of teaching; I had felt Hyde-DC was much farther along than this. However I do believe in the overall potential of the DC faculty, and I am very hopeful the situation will trigger the emergence of the moral leaders in our faculty.

I am examining how I might have handled the situation more effectively.  I also believe it is critical for every faculty member to thoughtfully examine their own role.  If we are going to accept the moral leadership role with our students, we certainly must express it with each other.

Those concerned with the Djassou-Goubourn conflict should have taken their concerns directly to Joanne; she is the moral leader and ultimate authority of the Hyde community.  Equally important, other faculty members should have urged them to do so. The responsibility begins not with the administration, but with the faculty.  This is the example the entire Hyde community needs.  We cannot lead students and parents if we cannot lead ourselves.

One of the greatest strengths I see in the Hyde-Bath and Hyde-Woodstock faculties is their ability to examine themselves and acknowledge their shortcomings and mistakes?an absolutely essential quality of leaders.  They do have the advantage of experiencing deeper seminars than we presently have in DC, but it is a challenge we must address in DC.  We have too many situations where the first impulse is to protect oneself from constructive criticism, which is a powerful means to help us become our best.

We all need to understand the structure of Hyde. Hyde-DC seeks to become a powerful and nationally recognized educational organization, which deserves to be replicated.  We are governed by a dedicated group of nine trustees, including two Hyde parents, who regularly assess and guide the leadership of our head of school.  

At their meeting last Thursday, the board strongly expressed their confidence and trust in Ms. Goubourn?s leadership.  However they also directed her to reduce her working hours until she resolves her medical situation.  Adding to this the vital training period of Dr. Frierson to manage the school, we should all realize that the emergence of the moral leadership of the faculty is more important than ever before.

We recently had the national example of what Terrell Owen?s ego did to undermine the proud Philadelphia Eagles organization.  The lesson is that no individual is greater than the whole.  The Eagles may struggle this season, but they have restored the integrity of their institution.

?When the going gets tough, the tough get going.? I know there are potentially strong leaders in our DC faculty, and I look forward to their emergence.

Have a happy Thanksgiving.  Regards Joe
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« Reply #86 on: March 29, 2006, 04:41:00 PM »
He apologizes for the length of the email. What is your point. He write long emails?
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« Reply #87 on: March 29, 2006, 05:08:00 PM »
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On 2006-03-29 13:01:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Dear Hyde-DC Faculty;



I apologize for the length of this email, but I ask you to read it thoughtfully, because I believe the basic issue is critical to what Hyde-DC could and should be.



Now that you all have had to think about and respond to the Wednesday Wrap up Confrontation, I want to address what I believe to be the deeper issue that was involved.  



I was encouraged by faculty members who made it a point to express their appreciation for what I did, but disappointed that only one faculty member directly addressed his concerns and strong disapproval for my performance.  If I am reading the entire faculty correctly, there were many more who were also upset with the way I handled the situation. If so, the fact they have yet to directly express their disapproval or concerns to me or Joanne signifies a serious weakness in faculty leadership.



Further, speaking frankly, I don?t believe Ms. Cooke would have refused my directive to stop if she did not feel strong faculty support for her position.  Events eventually made it clear that some middle school teachers have been upset by the leadership conflict between Mr. Djassou and Ms. Goubourn, and the wrap up became the very wrong choice to vent those concerns. What happened was very disrespectful to both Mr. Djassou and Ms. Goubourn, and their extensive efforts to resolve the leadership issue of Mr. Djassou.



However, I feel the larger problem at the wrap up was the failure of senior faculty members to provide moral leadership for the entire faculty.  If such behavior was in fact known to be unacceptable to veteran faculty members, this professional confrontation and breakdown in authority would never have occurred.



Hyde uniquely addresses personal growth of teachers as well as students, parents and families.  However seminars are expressly designed for this purpose, which are distinctly separate from our professional responsibilities.  If there are internal conflicts and concerns, they should be directed to Joanne?s administration, and not in a public forum like a wrap up.



This ugly situation revealed a huge gap in Hyde?s discipline, and a damaging weakness in our administrative structure.  Joanne had asked me to conduct the wrap up, which became sidetracked by issues that should have been addressed to Joanne directly and had no business being expressed in a professional workshop. Once it got out of hand, I asked Ms. Cooke 3 times to stop, finally directing her to leave.  The fact that many faculty members left with or after Ms. Cooke revealed a major teacher insubordination of Hyde authority.



At this point my anger was directed at the faculty as a whole; how could the faculty tolerate and remain oblivious to this blatant example of unprofessional behavior and its damage to our organization? How many teachers have expressed their concerns to those who acted unprofessionally?  Clearly there is a double standard at Hyde; accepting and sometimes even supporting attitudes and behavior of colleagues they definitely would never tolerate in their students.      



 This situation was perhaps the biggest disappointment in my 53 years of teaching; I had felt Hyde-DC was much farther along than this. However I do believe in the overall potential of the DC faculty, and I am very hopeful the situation will trigger the emergence of the moral leaders in our faculty.



I am examining how I might have handled the situation more effectively.  I also believe it is critical for every faculty member to thoughtfully examine their own role.  If we are going to accept the moral leadership role with our students, we certainly must express it with each other.



Those concerned with the Djassou-Goubourn conflict should have taken their concerns directly to Joanne; she is the moral leader and ultimate authority of the Hyde community.  Equally important, other faculty members should have urged them to do so. The responsibility begins not with the administration, but with the faculty.  This is the example the entire Hyde community needs.  We cannot lead students and parents if we cannot lead ourselves.



One of the greatest strengths I see in the Hyde-Bath and Hyde-Woodstock faculties is their ability to examine themselves and acknowledge their shortcomings and mistakes?an absolutely essential quality of leaders.  They do have the advantage of experiencing deeper seminars than we presently have in DC, but it is a challenge we must address in DC.  We have too many situations where the first impulse is to protect oneself from constructive criticism, which is a powerful means to help us become our best.



We all need to understand the structure of Hyde. Hyde-DC seeks to become a powerful and nationally recognized educational organization, which deserves to be replicated.  We are governed by a dedicated group of nine trustees, including two Hyde parents, who regularly assess and guide the leadership of our head of school.  



At their meeting last Thursday, the board strongly expressed their confidence and trust in Ms. Goubourn?s leadership.  However they also directed her to reduce her working hours until she resolves her medical situation.  Adding to this the vital training period of Dr. Frierson to manage the school, we should all realize that the emergence of the moral leadership of the faculty is more important than ever before.



We recently had the national example of what Terrell Owen?s ego did to undermine the proud Philadelphia Eagles organization.  The lesson is that no individual is greater than the whole.  The Eagles may struggle this season, but they have restored the integrity of their institution.



?When the going gets tough, the tough get going.? I know there are potentially strong leaders in our DC faculty, and I look forward to their emergence.



Have a happy Thanksgiving.  Regards Joe

 
"


I'm assuming this lengthy email was written by Joe Gauld following some sort of big blow up at Hyde-DC.  Why am I not at all surprised that there's chaos and conflict at a Hyde school?  Isn't it amazing how controversy, confrontation, and poor behavior emerge in Hyde settings up and down the coast?  I have visited lots of schools in my time and never have I encountered such an amazing pattern of morale problems, bad behavior, and internal dispute as I have at Hyde.  How is it possible that so many people tolerate this very poor excuse for education and so-called character education?  

I'm fascinated by Joe's own statement above: "The lesson is that no individual is greater than the whole."  Anyone who has spent any significant amount of time around Joe Gauld knows that his own behavior is the height of hypocrisy.  He's the guy who stands or sits with parents and lectures them endlessly about what's wrong with their lives, how they need Hyde, is willing to kick them out of the room like a testy parent, and all that.  It's laughable that Joe Gauld would tell others that no individual is greater than the whole.  His arrogance is beyond words.
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« Reply #88 on: March 29, 2006, 07:14:00 PM »
Yeh I would much rather put my kid in a school with a bunch of NEA hacks doing a nine to five, counting the days until they retire and don't give a fuck about my kid, with gang bangers dealing dope and carrying on school grounds. The fact is the kids in that school have something that can not be found in any other school in that neighborhood, a disiplined enviroment to study in. If that was the only thing Old Joe G did in his life it would be far more worthy in terms of the social contract then the contributions of many of the folk posting on this board myself included.
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« Reply #89 on: March 29, 2006, 07:41:00 PM »
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On 2006-03-29 14:08:00, Anonymous wrote:

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On 2006-03-29 13:01:00, Anonymous wrote:


"Dear Hyde-DC Faculty;





I apologize for the length of this email, but I ask you to read it thoughtfully, because I believe the basic issue is critical to what Hyde-DC could and should be.





Now that you all have had to think about and respond to the Wednesday Wrap up Confrontation, I want to address what I believe to be the deeper issue that was involved.  





I was encouraged by faculty members who made it a point to express their appreciation for what I did, but disappointed that only one faculty member directly addressed his concerns and strong disapproval for my performance.  If I am reading the entire faculty correctly, there were many more who were also upset with the way I handled the situation. If so, the fact they have yet to directly express their disapproval or concerns to me or Joanne signifies a serious weakness in faculty leadership.





Further, speaking frankly, I don?t believe Ms. Cooke would have refused my directive to stop if she did not feel strong faculty support for her position.  Events eventually made it clear that some middle school teachers have been upset by the leadership conflict between Mr. Djassou and Ms. Goubourn, and the wrap up became the very wrong choice to vent those concerns. What happened was very disrespectful to both Mr. Djassou and Ms. Goubourn, and their extensive efforts to resolve the leadership issue of Mr. Djassou.





However, I feel the larger problem at the wrap up was the failure of senior faculty members to provide moral leadership for the entire faculty.  If such behavior was in fact known to be unacceptable to veteran faculty members, this professional confrontation and breakdown in authority would never have occurred.





Hyde uniquely addresses personal growth of teachers as well as students, parents and families.  However seminars are expressly designed for this purpose, which are distinctly separate from our professional responsibilities.  If there are internal conflicts and concerns, they should be directed to Joanne?s administration, and not in a public forum like a wrap up.





This ugly situation revealed a huge gap in Hyde?s discipline, and a damaging weakness in our administrative structure.  Joanne had asked me to conduct the wrap up, which became sidetracked by issues that should have been addressed to Joanne directly and had no business being expressed in a professional workshop. Once it got out of hand, I asked Ms. Cooke 3 times to stop, finally directing her to leave.  The fact that many faculty members left with or after Ms. Cooke revealed a major teacher insubordination of Hyde authority.





At this point my anger was directed at the faculty as a whole; how could the faculty tolerate and remain oblivious to this blatant example of unprofessional behavior and its damage to our organization? How many teachers have expressed their concerns to those who acted unprofessionally?  Clearly there is a double standard at Hyde; accepting and sometimes even supporting attitudes and behavior of colleagues they definitely would never tolerate in their students.      





 This situation was perhaps the biggest disappointment in my 53 years of teaching; I had felt Hyde-DC was much farther along than this. However I do believe in the overall potential of the DC faculty, and I am very hopeful the situation will trigger the emergence of the moral leaders in our faculty.





I am examining how I might have handled the situation more effectively.  I also believe it is critical for every faculty member to thoughtfully examine their own role.  If we are going to accept the moral leadership role with our students, we certainly must express it with each other.





Those concerned with the Djassou-Goubourn conflict should have taken their concerns directly to Joanne; she is the moral leader and ultimate authority of the Hyde community.  Equally important, other faculty members should have urged them to do so. The responsibility begins not with the administration, but with the faculty.  This is the example the entire Hyde community needs.  We cannot lead students and parents if we cannot lead ourselves.





One of the greatest strengths I see in the Hyde-Bath and Hyde-Woodstock faculties is their ability to examine themselves and acknowledge their shortcomings and mistakes?an absolutely essential quality of leaders.  They do have the advantage of experiencing deeper seminars than we presently have in DC, but it is a challenge we must address in DC.  We have too many situations where the first impulse is to protect oneself from constructive criticism, which is a powerful means to help us become our best.





We all need to understand the structure of Hyde. Hyde-DC seeks to become a powerful and nationally recognized educational organization, which deserves to be replicated.  We are governed by a dedicated group of nine trustees, including two Hyde parents, who regularly assess and guide the leadership of our head of school.  





At their meeting last Thursday, the board strongly expressed their confidence and trust in Ms. Goubourn?s leadership.  However they also directed her to reduce her working hours until she resolves her medical situation.  Adding to this the vital training period of Dr. Frierson to manage the school, we should all realize that the emergence of the moral leadership of the faculty is more important than ever before.





We recently had the national example of what Terrell Owen?s ego did to undermine the proud Philadelphia Eagles organization.  The lesson is that no individual is greater than the whole.  The Eagles may struggle this season, but they have restored the integrity of their institution.





?When the going gets tough, the tough get going.? I know there are potentially strong leaders in our DC faculty, and I look forward to their emergence.





Have a happy Thanksgiving.  Regards Joe


 
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I'm assuming this lengthy email was written by Joe Gauld following some sort of big blow up at Hyde-DC.  Why am I not at all surprised that there's chaos and conflict at a Hyde school?  Isn't it amazing how controversy, confrontation, and poor behavior emerge in Hyde settings up and down the coast?  I have visited lots of schools in my time and never have I encountered such an amazing pattern of morale problems, bad behavior, and internal dispute as I have at Hyde.  How is it possible that so many people tolerate this very poor excuse for education and so-called character education?  



I'm fascinated by Joe's own statement above: "The lesson is that no individual is greater than the whole."  Anyone who has spent any significant amount of time around Joe Gauld knows that his own behavior is the height of hypocrisy.  He's the guy who stands or sits with parents and lectures them endlessly about what's wrong with their lives, how they need Hyde, is willing to kick them out of the room like a testy parent, and all that.  It's laughable that Joe Gauld would tell others that no individual is greater than the whole.  His arrogance is beyond words."


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Isn't it amazing how controversy, confrontation, and poor behavior emerge in Hyde settings up and down the coast?  I have visited lots of schools in my time and never have I encountered such an amazing pattern of morale problems, bad behavior, and internal dispute as I have at Hyde.


Secretive cult like hyde has allowed you be hind the veil of isolation to disern this pattern?  And you have visited many schools in your time.  Are you the same parent that had been involved with Hyde for years but only had thier kid in school for a year but thought the school was so bad but let thier kid stay anyway in the emotionally toxic enviroment? Or are you some one else or are you the same person?  You have been to Hyde-DC no doubt and found it wanting vis a vis the other fine DC schools.  It has a toxic enviroment because this old guy from Bath comes down once in a while and yells and eject a little spittle, and this is all so beyond the pale in the city with the highest murder rate in the US. People don't like yelling.  It is against the social mores of inner city DC for sure. It must be bad in hyde DC.  Why don't you go down and tell the people in person how screwed up Hyde DC is.  Save them.  Give them something better. I know you can because you have visited so many schools and know the right way to run a school. Right?
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