Whooter: Who hijacked your post? The person who responded last it not the same I am used to addressing. I can tell by semantics and style.
Anyway, you did explain to Maruska that your daughter's self esteem suddenly dropped. In the post after mine, you challenged that assertion. So, I am a bit confused.
As far as blame is concerned, I've read other posts of your's that seem to indicate the onus falls on the child. I am simply challenging that notion. It is my experience that the parents don't really take an in-depth role in recovering the family besides outsourcing their kids. Also, parents go back home to their comfortable beds and lives. Not too many at CEDU seemed invested other than on family day. They set up baby demos of raps/propheets, but they were diluted and for show only. Totally inauthentic.
It doesn't matter anyway because as an adult, you are responsible for yourself regardless of past experiences.
Anyway, I got shipped off to CEDU for similar reasons. I would not attend school. I didn't fail out either. I also had some traumatic experiences with predators. It is difficult for me to talk about that. But CEDU only intensified the trauma and distrust.
When I left CEDU, I found a school that was private, with courses taught by college professors. The whole culture (comparative to traditional private or public schools) was different and I thrived. Unfortunately, most people can't afford that.
