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« on: October 04, 2005, 09:06:00 AM »
Hi. Im Dustin Kava.  I was at Ivy Riot from Oct 04 to June 05.  I was the one who organized and took place in the Riot that took place recently.  I am still awaiting all the court bullshit that came along with my decision to do what i did.  But if i had the oppurtunity to go back i wouldnt.  I did what i thought had to be done.  How many times can you see a friend get his ass kicked for no reason at all.  How many times can you get a letter from your parents telling you how great the school is. When you yourself acually knows what goes on there.  Every aspect of that school is a hoax.  The education i mean come on.  just look at what happened.  They lied about being accredited.  How do you make one of your main points of advertising is the crediation of the school.  My parents through 60 grand into this school and all i got was Felong 1st Riot Criminal Mischief and assault.  How many months can you go without hearing your moms voice. Or seeing your sister or brothers.  Whats the incentive to get out with you know you are going to be living with Programized parents who have been fed bullshit propoganda about WWASP schools.  NOw i understand that i am a child and i dont have kids of my own. so i dont know what it is like to be in that situation where you dont know what to you do with your kids.  But still how can you make such a big decision in your and your childs life without doing some major major research. I mean come on parents look into these damn schools do some f ing research before hand. How hard is it to type in google IVY RIDGE past expeirences or something and find out straight from the kids who have been there what it is like.  Not some asshole on the phone pitching you the new and improved sales pitch that Mr. Jason Finlinson came up with on his way to work.  Look into the staff that is going ot be working with the kids.  I found out lots about the staff that was working there. Many have outstanding criminal records.  One of my dorm parents that i had was in prison for like 8 years for the attempted murder of his wife. I mean come on how are these people going to teach you to live a honest and prospours life.  Ive never felt more humilatied in my life then when i was at that school. Feelings of such helplessness and lonelyness.  Just do your research before you make quite possibly the worst decision ever in your life

Information about what happened the night of the riot will be coming very soon.  Keep posted thanks for listening
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« Reply #1 on: October 04, 2005, 12:36:00 PM »
Welcome Dustin! I'm so glad to hear from you.
I share your frustration. Amazing, isn't it? I've been watching this same old song and dance now for around 35 years, since my family got wrapped up in one of these treatment cults. But then again, step back and look at a few other lunatic ideas that people are just in love with. Public schooling, anyone? The war on certain unpatentable drugs not sold by Glaxo/Smith-Kline? Perpetual war just as Orwell told us about? When you stop to think about it in the broader context, it just makes terrifyingly perfect sense, doesn't it?

I tried sending letters to you guys at the St. Lawrence jail, but all but one came back.

Aside from the criminal stuff yet to play out, how did everyone make out? Is it true that most of the guys landed up in Jamaica? Are you in touch w/ any of them? Did anyone else make it out more or less OK?

I give money for church organs in the hope the organ music will distract the congregation's attention from the rest of the service.
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« Reply #2 on: October 04, 2005, 12:43:00 PM »
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On 2005-10-04 06:06:00, dustinkava wrote:

"Hi. Im Dustin Kava.  I was at Ivy Riot from Oct 04 to June 05.  I was the one who organized and took place in the Riot that took place recently.  I am still awaiting all the court bullshit that came along with my decision to do what i did.  But if i had the oppurtunity to go back i wouldnt.  I did what i thought had to be done.  How many times can you see a friend get his ass kicked for no reason at all.  How many times can you get a letter from your parents telling you how great the school is. When you yourself acually knows what goes on there.  Every aspect of that school is a hoax.  The education i mean come on.  just look at what happened.  They lied about being accredited.  How do you make one of your main points of advertising is the crediation of the school.  My parents through 60 grand into this school and all i got was Felong 1st Riot Criminal Mischief and assault.  How many months can you go without hearing your moms voice. Or seeing your sister or brothers.  Whats the incentive to get out with you know you are going to be living with Programized parents who have been fed bullshit propoganda about WWASP schools.  NOw i understand that i am a child and i dont have kids of my own. so i dont know what it is like to be in that situation where you dont know what to you do with your kids.  But still how can you make such a big decision in your and your childs life without doing some major major research. I mean come on parents look into these damn schools do some f ing research before hand. How hard is it to type in google IVY RIDGE past expeirences or something and find out straight from the kids who have been there what it is like.  Not some asshole on the phone pitching you the new and improved sales pitch that Mr. Jason Finlinson came up with on his way to work.  Look into the staff that is going ot be working with the kids.  I found out lots about the staff that was working there. Many have outstanding criminal records.  One of my dorm parents that i had was in prison for like 8 years for the attempted murder of his wife. I mean come on how are these people going to teach you to live a honest and prospours life.  Ive never felt more humilatied in my life then when i was at that school. Feelings of such helplessness and lonelyness.  Just do your research before you make quite possibly the worst decision ever in your life



Information about what happened the night of the riot will be coming very soon.  Keep posted thanks for listening"


Awesome work, man.  Glad you did what was needed.  You have my support.  I wish more kids would come to their senses when they are in situations like you were and do as you did.

Again, kudos to you.
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« Reply #3 on: October 04, 2005, 12:44:00 PM »
:nworthy:  :nworthy:  :nworthy:

You are a hero to me and to everyone here on fornits that isn't some programmed dick. You're a freedom fighter without even knowing the signifigance of what you've done.

You, sir, kick ass.

BTW, if you wanna do all of us a favor head over to http://www.isaccorp.org and tell Shelby about whats up, fill out an appadavit, etc - and give them a kids-eye-view of what really happened in Ivy Ridge so that their document library can be updated.

 :grin:

Next the statesmen will invent cheap lies, putting the blame upon the nation that is attacked,  and every man will be glad of those conscience-soothing falsities, and will diligently study them, and refuse to examine any refutations of them; and thus he will by and by convince himself that  the war is just, and will thank God for the better sleep he enjoys after this process of grotesque  self-deception."  
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0517150735/circlofmiamithem' target='_new'>Mark Twain, The Mysterious Stranger, 1916, Ch.9

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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #4 on: October 04, 2005, 01:35:00 PM »
Way to go, Dustin! Take back your freedom and your life and don't look back!

Do you know how your parents heard about this program?  The Internet?  A next-door neighbor?  Some sleezy ed con or parent with a kid in WWASPS?
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« Reply #5 on: October 04, 2005, 02:05:00 PM »
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On 2005-10-04 06:06:00, dustinkava wrote:
"Hi. Im Dustin Kava.  I was at Ivy Riot from Oct 04 to June 05.  I was the one who organized and took place in the Riot that took place recently.  I am still awaiting all the court bullshit that came along with my decision to do what i did.  But if i had the oppurtunity to go back i wouldnt.  I did what i thought had to be done.  How many times can you see a friend get his ass kicked for no reason at all.  How many times can you get a letter from your parents telling you how great the school is. When you yourself acually knows what goes on there.  Every aspect of that school is a hoax.  The education i mean come on.  just look at what happened.  They lied about being accredited.  How do you make one of your main points of advertising is the crediation of the school.  My parents through 60 grand into this school and all i got was Felong 1st Riot Criminal Mischief and assault.  How many months can you go without hearing your moms voice. Or seeing your sister or brothers.  Whats the incentive to get out with you know you are going to be living with Programized parents who have been fed bullshit propoganda about WWASP schools.  NOw i understand that i am a child and i dont have kids of my own. so i dont know what it is like to be in that situation where you dont know what to you do with your kids.  But still how can you make such a big decision in your and your childs life without doing some major major research. I mean come on parents look into these damn schools do some f ing research before hand. How hard is it to type in google IVY RIDGE past expeirences or something and find out straight from the kids who have been there what it is like.  Not some asshole on the phone pitching you the new and improved sales pitch that Mr. Jason Finlinson came up with on his way to work.  Look into the staff that is going ot be working with the kids.  I found out lots about the staff that was working there. Many have outstanding criminal records.  One of my dorm parents that i had was in prison for like 8 years for the attempted murder of his wife. I mean come on how are these people going to teach you to live a honest and prospours life.  Ive never felt more humilatied in my life then when i was at that school. Feelings of such helplessness and lonelyness.  Just do your research before you make quite possibly the worst decision ever in your life

Information about what happened the night of the riot will be coming very soon.  Keep posted thanks for listening"

I knew there had to be a good reason for that riot when I read about it. Knowing what I do from my experience in a treatment hell hole (Straight Inc), I knew it was probably justified. I understand and remember very well the loneliness, humiliation, and helplessness you mentioned...and the abuse.

Of course, the court system may not see things from your perspective, but I understand very well why you fought back. Sooner or later people need to see institutionalized child abuse and brainwashing for what it is. Hope you have a good attorney and that the judge doesnt come down too hard on you in court. Good luck with that. I look forward to hearing more details when you can provide them.
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« Reply #6 on: October 04, 2005, 02:51:00 PM »
Well, its a honor to meet such a person as your self. I would ask for details on how you orginized the riot. I would like to do such things. I find such events very interesting. You are a hero in by book. I dont care what others say. Thank you for your service to your fellow humanity.
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our walking down a hallway, you turn left, you turn right. BRICK WALL!

GAH!!!!

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« Reply #7 on: October 04, 2005, 03:45:00 PM »
You did the right thing, and everything you said in your post is 100% correct.

I have been out of the program for over 5 years now and still can't believe these places exist.

You know the truth, don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. You lived it. You know it.

And now you know one of suburbias deepest darkest secrets: there is an underground network of cultist parents searching for new 'recruits' to make a buck and indoctrinate another family into their sick game.

The responsible parties will always plead ignorance. This is no excuse, like you said they need to be responsible and do their research.

Now they will have their own demons to deal with, and spend their life trying to convince themselves they did the right thing.

I'm glad you're out. Have a good life and enjoy your freedom.
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« Reply #8 on: October 04, 2005, 04:54:00 PM »
My friend, I could not agree with you more. I too was a student in one of these hellholes(cedu) 13 years ago, and your experience at Ivy Ridge mirrors my own, despite our obvious age difference and the fact that we attended different schools.  

Non-existant academics, abusive staff members with long criminal records, substandard living conditions, shitty food,isolation, complete alienation from family,friends, and reality, no freedom of movement, non-existance of even the most basic human rights,forced labor, sleep deprivation, non-stop humiliation...

These conditions are familiar to anyone who ever spent anytime in one of these bullshit BM money scams; regardless of who they are or when they were incarcerated.

Like you Dustin, I too saw these hypocrites for the monsters that they are.  I refused to buy into their bullshit, or to let them break me.  I rebelled from day one, and I ran and ran and ran, until finally they couldn't catch me, and I got out for good.  

Dustin, I could only dream of doing what you did back in my day.  Unfortunately, I was surrounded by sheep: people who were too scared to make a stand and take their lives back.  I couldn't help my friends, but I did help myself.  I split, took my life back, and to this day I credit that decision as one of the defining moments of my life.

Dustin what you did is remarkable, and don't ever let anyone take that away from you.

You've earned my deepest respect.


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« Reply #9 on: October 04, 2005, 05:06:00 PM »
Dustin,

I am glad you posted, and that you seem to be doing ok.  I hope you have good legal representation, and that your parents are helping you now.
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« Reply #10 on: October 04, 2005, 05:11:00 PM »
//I tried sending letters to you guys at the St. Lawrence jail, but all but one came back. //

Most all mine got sent back too - and the last few had They Are NOT Here!!! written across the front!
I took that to mean a lot of people write and was glad of the fact even if the kids didn't get the letters.

There are people who would like to talk with just Dustin - if you feel like talking, please feel free to write me.
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« Reply #11 on: October 04, 2005, 11:52:00 PM »
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On 2005-10-04 06:06:00, dustinkava wrote:

"...How many times can you see a friend get his ass kicked for no reason at all.  How many times can you get a letter from your parents telling you how great the school is. When you yourself acually knows what goes on there.  Every aspect of that school is a hoax.  The education i mean come on.  just look at what happened.  They lied about being accredited.  How do you make one of your main points of advertising is the crediation of the school.  My parents through 60 grand into this school and all i got was Felong 1st Riot Criminal Mischief and assault.  How many months can you go without hearing your moms voice. Or seeing your sister or brothers. Whats the incentive to get out with you know you are going to be living with Programized parents who have been fed bullshit propoganda about WWASP schools.  NOw i understand that i am a child and i dont have kids of my own. so i dont know what it is like to be in that situation where you dont know what to you do with your kids.  But still how can you make such a big decision in your and your childs life without doing some major major research. I mean come on parents look into these damn schools do some f ing research before hand. How hard is it to type in google IVY RIDGE past expeirences or something and find out straight from the kids who have been there what it is like.  Not some asshole on the phone pitching you the new and improved sales pitch that Mr. Jason Finlinson came up with on his way to work.  Look into the staff that is going ot be working with the kids.  I found out lots about the staff that was working there. Many have outstanding criminal records.  One of my dorm parents that i had was in prison for like 8 years for the attempted murder of his wife. I mean come on how are these people going to teach you to live a honest and prospours life.  Ive never felt more humilatied in my life then when i was at that school. Feelings of such helplessness and lonelyness.  Just do your research before you make quite possibly the worst decision ever in your life



Information about what happened the night of the riot will be coming very soon.  Keep posted thanks for listening"



Huzzah, Guy! :nworthy: :nworthy: :nworthy:
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