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Offline Anonymous

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« on: September 28, 2005, 01:38:00 PM »
I check in every blue moon here.  The amount of time you guys spend on here us surreal.  You are going to be old and tired one day, look back and come to the sad conclusion that you spent the first part of your lives in straight, and the last part on here bitching about it.  life is so short, go live it already.
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« Reply #1 on: September 28, 2005, 03:13:00 PM »
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« Reply #2 on: September 28, 2005, 03:16:00 PM »
Truth hurts, doesn't it?
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« Reply #3 on: September 28, 2005, 03:20:00 PM »
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« Reply #5 on: September 28, 2005, 06:16:00 PM »
You all need some serious therapy...and I am not talking about dime therapy...if you are still hung up because of shit that happened to you 20 years ago...then here is a news flash:

YOU WERE FUCKED UP B4 STRAIGHT IF YOU OK B4 STRAIGHT THEN YOU WOULDN'T STILL BE BLAMING IT FOR ALL OF YOUR MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES!!!!!!

People who were ok b4 Straight have moved on...maybe you should too :exclaim: :wave:
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« Reply #6 on: September 28, 2005, 06:18:00 PM »
This is part of moving on... Finding others who help you make sense. So you can then take the giant step of forgiving. See some of us ( the healthy ones ) know the only true way to move on and be free is to process it all and forgive, to some degree.. This is a step in the processing ..

Yes, then there are others here  who are just too angry and can not see the path of freedom. To those people, I must also realized that is a step in their path..But I don't have to agree it is the most healthy , productive path.

BTW , if you ( the OP ) were rightously at peace .. You would have never posted here. Welcome !
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« Reply #7 on: September 28, 2005, 09:11:00 PM »
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On 2005-09-28 10:38:00, Anonymous wrote:

"I check in every blue moon here.  The amount of time you guys spend on here us surreal.  You are going to be old and tired one day, look back and come to the sad conclusion that you spent the first part of your lives in straight, and the last part on here bitching about it.  life is so short, go live it already."


So why is it that you "check in every blue moon" anyway??
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« Reply #8 on: September 28, 2005, 09:14:00 PM »
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On 2005-09-28 10:38:00, Anonymous wrote:


"I check in every blue moon here.  The amount of time you guys spend on here us surreal.  You are going to be old and tired one day, look back and come to the sad conclusion that you spent the first part of your lives in straight, and the last part on here bitching about it.  life is so short, go live it already."




So why is it that you "check in every blue moon" anyway??
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Excellent point, Helena! :smokin:

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« Reply #9 on: September 28, 2005, 09:42:00 PM »
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On 2005-09-28 15:16:00, Anonymous wrote:

"You all need some serious therapy...and I am not talking about dime therapy...if you are still hung up because of shit that happened to you 20 years ago...then here is a news flash:



YOU WERE FUCKED UP B4 STRAIGHT IF YOU OK B4 STRAIGHT THEN YOU WOULDN'T STILL BE BLAMING IT FOR ALL OF YOUR MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES!!!!!!



People who were ok b4 Straight have moved on...maybe you should too :exclaim: :wave:  



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Twenty years is the surfacing mark for intense deep-rooted trauma.  It?s perfectly natural and appropriate for people to be having realizations, sadness and anger about what happened to them.  Everyone grows at a different pace. Why not butt out and let those who are still processing their grief and anger do so in peace without being  such a judgmental asshole? Sound good to you? Yeah, give it a try?

Sheesh.:roll:


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« Reply #10 on: September 28, 2005, 09:52:00 PM »
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On 2005-09-28 10:38:00, Anonymous wrote:

"I check in every blue moon here.  The amount of time you guys spend on here us surreal.  You are going to be old and tired one day, look back and come to the sad conclusion that you spent the first part of your lives in straight, and the last part on here bitching about it.  life is so short, go live it already."


Point tokin'.  Mm i mean taken...point taken!! :lol: ...none the less...
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« Reply #11 on: September 28, 2005, 10:31:00 PM »
Last time I check Sembler is alive and well. As long as he is alive we will be here trying to exact the truth. Also he is a money man for our president.

So I won't put my head in the sand and pretend it didn't happen. Also I am successful in my life. But I will never forget what happend to us.
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« Reply #12 on: September 29, 2005, 09:06:00 AM »
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On 2005-09-28 15:16:00, Anonymous wrote:

"You all need some serious therapy...and I am not talking about dime therapy...if you are still hung up because of shit that happened to you 20 years ago...then here is a news flash:



YOU WERE FUCKED UP B4 STRAIGHT IF YOU OK B4 STRAIGHT THEN YOU WOULDN'T STILL BE BLAMING IT FOR ALL OF YOUR MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES!!!!!!



People who were ok b4 Straight have moved on...maybe you should too :exclaim: :wave:  



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You know I dont hear anyone condemning the survivors of the sexual abuses by priests. Why is our pain any different. We were children. We were heinously [sp] abused. We were told it was for our own good and that we deserved it. HMMmmm I should get over this? You get over your need for me to get over it.
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« Reply #13 on: September 29, 2005, 12:15:00 PM »
I never said there was anything wrong with dealing with the pain.  I never said that it didn't hurt, or that it wasn't terribly wrong.  

But LIVING on this board continually dwelling in every aspect all day long is NOT healthy.  

And Sammie, no one takes you seriously.  Last I checked there was a picture circulating of you and the caption reads:  "JUGS"

NICE.
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