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Offline Deborah

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« Reply #15 on: July 12, 2005, 02:34:00 PM »
Why am I not surprised that a program parent can't distinguish the difference between a teen sharing his/her story and the teen's parent divulging information about the teen on a 'bash the kid' site?

Or posting their opinions freely at a Survivor site, while heavily censoring their pro-program site.

How would you respond if your kid asked you to delete the information you posted publicly about him/her?
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« Reply #16 on: July 12, 2005, 02:45:00 PM »
My parents have always cared about my "success and emotional health", as many other parents do.

They can still make mistakes.  Huge mistakes.  In fact, parents who are deeply concerned about their child are vulnerable to manipulation by the "teen help industry".  

That is why these survivor sites are so important.  They provide different perspectives on the issue, not just the stories provided by the programs.  

If this site had been around 10 or 12 years ago, I probably would never have been sent to Provo Canyon.
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« Reply #17 on: July 12, 2005, 05:54:00 PM »
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On 2005-07-12 11:12:00, Anonymous wrote:

"You guys are a joke.  Most of the kids post their OWN lives on the internet in blogs, which is how the parents know so much in the first place! Most of the kids discussed on the strugglingteens board bear no resemblance to any of you.  They are bright kids from families who love them and care about their success and emotional health.  They can actually structure a sentence and engage in meaningful dialogue.  I wuold suggest that you stay here in your playground and stop embarrassing yourselves on the grown-ups board."


Dude, I'm a New York Times bestselling author.  I graduated with an above-average GPA from a national top ten, public, science and engineering, post-secondary educational institution.  I scored *well* into the top two percent on the SATs.

I love my family and they love me.

Others on Fornits have their own triumphs to cite.

I would suggest that you stop making yourself look foolish by jumping to conclusions about people you don't know.

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« Reply #18 on: July 12, 2005, 08:30:00 PM »
Thanks Dev and Overlordd for all the work that you do. Never mind the insults someone posted. I have read some posts on struggling teens and they are quite disturbing to say the least.

Those people just want someone to whine to and make people believe they did not screw up as parents.

Besides mental illness and developmental issues, I find it hard to believe their little Billie and Susie just woke up and one day became the teenagers from hell. That takes years and years to happen and during the child's formative years it is the PARENT that has the most impact on a child's development and behaviors.

If these children are doing all this acting out as the parents say they are, then if they instilled the proper tools and guidance in their kids from day one these kids will come around eventually and grow out of a lot of stuff once the hormones even out and the brain finishes developing.
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« Reply #19 on: July 13, 2005, 08:51:00 AM »
hmmmm...I'll have to investigate this "teen help" board, as I've never seen it before.

Okay, the Ambiens kicking in now, better lay down!  (I work night shift 12h x3 per week at the hospital, sometimes difficult to keep a sleep schedule.)
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« Reply #20 on: July 13, 2005, 08:52:00 AM »
Timoclea (julie)

What did you right? I would like to read it, whats it about? please tell me, how long did it take to get to best seller status.
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« Reply #21 on: July 13, 2005, 09:41:00 AM »
On another note, I present to you, absolute and complete proof that they troll us and ghost us, the pricks.


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Overlordd~
I appreciate your "concern". You needn't be highly disturbed. And they are not "dragging" her back, she was very much a part of this decision. She did not feel ready to just jump back into the lake without a paddle. She wanted some safety nets in place should she "screw up" (her words not mine).

They do not have "their claws in her". She happens to love her therapist and has the highest regard for her as a human being. A good support system is imperative to achieve the best possible outcome upon returning home.

So, obviously you have a beef with programs. In fact, I know that you are affiliated with Fornits Wayward Web forum. I think maybe you got lost in cyberspace. This forum is for PARENTS who like to offer support and encouragement.

How is she feeling? It wouldn't matter if I told you the truth. You would say she's been brainwashed, in fear of repercussions or just talking the talk. So I won't waste my breath. But thanks for asking.

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I call your attention to the third paragraph. I have not said I have anything to do with fornits while I was on the board, so she must troll here, or ghost, whatever you wanna call it. It has been said they did, but I never saw any proof of it, now we have it.
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« Reply #22 on: July 13, 2005, 10:21:00 AM »
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On 2005-07-13 05:52:00, OverLordd wrote:

"Timoclea (julie)



What did you right? I would like to read it, whats it about? please tell me, how long did it take to get to best seller status."


I wrote _Cally's War_ with John Ringo.  It was released October 1 of 2003 and was in the October 10 list of NYT hardcover fiction at #31 for that one list before dropping back off. :smile:  Which would seem kind of like a "Big fat hairy deal" except that it's a science fiction novel and those very rarely hit the bestseller lists at all.

It's common for books to hit the bestseller lists right after release if they're going to hit it at all, because you get most of your sales on a book in the first month after its release.

The book's about a female assassin who looks and acts 20 but is really 51, and she's suffering from career burnout.  Can you really kill people as a job, even very bad people, for thirty years without having it affect you?  The Earth's been through a horrible war with aliens that basically strip worlds like locusts.  We "won," but it knocked our world population down to a billion.  It's forty years post-war, and some of our alien "allies" weren't really our friends.  Now we're heavily in debt to them and they're pulling the strings of our puppet government.  Cally works for the underground resistance organization, human and alien, that's fighting them.

There's a leak in her organization.  Cally and her backup team have to find the leak and shut it down fast, before the entire resistance is compromised.  All this while clinging to sanity by her fingernails and dealing with the inner demons that are tearing her apart.

It's a spin-off story in John's _Legacy of the Aldenata_ series.  Some people have said you need to read the first four books to catch everything, others have said it "worked" for them as a standalone.  A lot of people enjoyed it, obviously or it wouldn't have had so many sales, but it's been a love it or hate it book.  Mostly because a lot of people apparently didn't get the memo that even though the four mainline books are straight military SF, _Cally's War_ is a psychological spy novel with a fair dose of romance in it and a bit more sex than the four mainline novels.  Since a lot of John's readership is conservative Christian, well, you can imagine. :smile:

Anyway, since it's a bit controversial, you may want to read the sample chapters at http://www.baen.com before deciding if you want to shell out for the hardcover or not--it's not out in paperback yet.

I want *happy* readers. :smile:  And I've had a whole lot of those, but the ones who've hated it have been...intense. :smile: :smile: :smile:

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« Reply #23 on: July 13, 2005, 10:23:00 AM »
Well, Devlin did invite them all over but most of them took one look and ran away.
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« Reply #24 on: July 13, 2005, 11:23:00 AM »
Ok, you got me hooked, im going to go buy it next time I'm at my local B&N  :smile:  I enjoy a good sci-fi its my favorite type of book, so I will have to read it and I will tell you what I think.

Have you read Orson Scot Card? (Ender's Game and such) What do you think about his underlining themes of child abuse in all his books. I had to stop reading him cause it pissed me off so much.
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« Reply #25 on: July 13, 2005, 11:39:00 AM »
Ok even more funny shit while im thinking about it, that made a topic about me!!! hehe, its called Over Lordd, but still, haha, the first lady that posted was nice, but the other one, was mean.
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« Reply #26 on: July 13, 2005, 01:50:00 PM »
I'm really surprised they haven't banned and deleted you yet. Something's changing over there. I wonder if Lon is just adapting to the competition or if he's really starting to get an inkling that there is another side to this story.

Oh, btw, the proper term for ppl who read regularly w/o posting is "lurking". And I've heard that the Fornits fora are a "must read" to industry people.
 

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« Reply #27 on: July 13, 2005, 02:05:00 PM »
Overlordd you should be smacked
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« Reply #28 on: July 13, 2005, 02:06:00 PM »
lurking, ghosting, litsl like pronouncing tomato two diffrent ways, hehe, anyway he couldent ban me if he wanted to and wanted to stay in step with his own rules. He is a nice guy, (from how much I have spoken to him) so I don't think he would do that. I have not personally attacked any one, and I have obeyed the rules so ::shrugs:: you guys are welcome to join me if you want. just behave
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« Reply #29 on: July 13, 2005, 06:34:00 PM »
I find it hilarious you piss so many people off Overlord. You must be doing something right.
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