Whoever you people are you are very irresponsible
This situation is not a joke, and it's not just a random chatroom
This is real abuse and real people being abused
This is a delicate situation
What happened with me here is not a joke
I came on this site for help and support because I was dealing with living in an abusive family, I trusted that other survivors would understand and spoke candidly
I was the victim of sexual abuse in my life and therefore I am understandably touchy about what might seem normal to other people
I also was upset because I wrote some embarrassing personal stuff that my mother was abusing me with not thinking I was in a place where sex and abuse were treated as a joke
Again this is a site for survivors of abuse out of programs and abusive family situations are common and contribute.
I have said this sixteen times too in the hope of appealing to reason, this isn’t a debate, it’s a person who has dealt with abuse who tried repeatedly to get you to understand this nicely
I think a lot of people on here are connected to programs even if they pretend otherwise
There is a great deal of staff on this site for certain
Also this is a delicate situation,
PV is a dangerous place
People out of PV will tell you how it works
In PV they put you on suicide watch, and you have to sit in front of the nurses desk on a roll away cot, and sleep there and the lights are really bright and staff is literally breathing on you, and you have to sign in every 15 minutes, in a hospital gown, and eat with a plastic spoon
And sometimes people don’t have the faintest idea what little thing they said that got them there,
PV uses the whole danger to yourself and others thing a lot,
it makes you paranoid
If you say I was bullied in school,
PV staff starts asking you if you ever thought about hurting those bullies!
Which is horrible because every ordinary kid out there kind a wanted to punch the bully!
And none of them were a danger to themselves or others
And a lot of times the bullies were a lot like the sexual harassment on here!
Places like PV use horrible tragedy to justify robbery and abusing ordinary kids
But what I’m saying is this is a delicate situation
It needs to be calm somewhat and the survivors of programs do not need to be baited and harassed.
Tempers should be kept on here,
I as a survivor of abuse don’t need to be bullied and sexually harassed. People need to be aware of the fact that they shouldn’t say anything that PV staff, so it’s a high threshold, could twist into being threatening towards PV.
For example people should probably not talk about going to PV honestly, especially not even in a joking manner, because it sounds threatening to PV and they could get you in trouble for it I think legally.
Certainly don’t say anything about wanting to “do something to program headsâ€
