yeah it's scary
I wish people would wake up more just in general
it's amazing the police don't do more about it you know?
i don't know I really wonder if there are any sociology classes on it?
i've read articles about philipino women being told by companies that they are going overseas to work as maids.
this is also a common thing. usually the women live with families and work for them, the women even pay the companies, only to find that once they are out of their countries that they have been sold to brothels.
there they are beaten into submission,
there was a special on TV about a Russian women in Turkey too.
If I remember right she ran away and the cops turned her back over to her handlers.
it's hard in general when people won't face the facts.
I see so much good in this world, but there is a lot of horror too
nothing can get done when people don't recognize reality and where the danger is?
how can a society fix something when peoples attitudes are such that they wont even see it.
like strip clubs in the US
like it's all over TV, there are a few in every town
but people don’t recognize it for what it is.
I think this really applies to all areas of violence against women.
it's so unfair really, any area of women and sex is subject to sexual prejudice, even if, such as in the instance of rape, the women is completely not at fault.
we all have heard of women being stoned to death and such for being raped?
there are just these attitudes in people
that keep violence against women in place
I don't want to use my parents as an example but
they are a good one
they have very defined lines of sexual prejudice
things like, "What were you doing in the park alone"
at 2:30 in the afternoon, with my dog
I called them right away when I was attacked at my apartment, and they were really horrible, “we don't believe you? What did you do? How much money is this going to cost us. You have to get rid of your pets"
This is to a women that was just attacked by a random terrifying stranger, this was the gist of the phone conversation right after.
you say give up the only creatures that you can depend on and really love?!
their attitude was so bad i ended up not reporting the assault till later and they never caught the guy.
they made me feel like I had done something and yelled at me
they refuse to believe anything they don't want to
and will cut you off pretty abusively if you say something they don't like
For example, PV, I know what PV was like and have tried repeatedly to tell them, they refuse to believe me
they are so bad even as to make snide comments about Bi polar disorder and taking medication and so on.
like they haven't understood anything,
if i come back with print outs of peoples stories out of PV or other programs, or with the drug prescribing info, which tells you what is really in these drugs, or with the flier from my doctors office stating they can only accept FIVE visits from pharmaceutical representatives in one day.
I show them stuff about Bi polar disorder, like how it's a chemical imbalance problem and how the person has to show signs of real chemical depression and mania, neither of which i do. And that the place, PV, that said I was Bi polar is completely corrupt, and that the drugs cause liver failure at 35 and tardive disease
and that according to the Adderall, which is an amphetamine, website 1 in 10 children have ADD!
it doesn't matter, it's a little like the sometimes racism that pops up when they hang around the country club too much
it has something to do with growing up in the 50's I think?
it's just horrible though, it's like trying to tell your family that the Nazis are really bad guys and having them cut you off and say I don't want to hear such negativity, and then having to listen to them swallow all the propaganda and sometimes turn it on you.
It makes one feel most insecure.
it's an apt comparison too, for anyone out of a program.
it's sometimes annoying when someone throws in Nazi references
but considering what these programs are like it applies
it also applies to the sex industry
there are bad people in the world and they are certainly in these two places
it's just horrible they won't believe me