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Offline Cayo Hueso

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« Reply #15 on: May 31, 2005, 03:00:00 PM »
Well Bob, how this thread turned into dating 101 for you I'll never know.  

If you're still referring to me you sure are making a lot of assumptions about my life based on a couple of conversations we had with a group of people 2 or 3 years ago.  Are ya psychic or something? :roll:   And why you would feel the need to address whatever it is you're trying to address at this particular point in time is escaping me too.  You and I have only had passing contact with each other.  If you assumed from those brief encounters that I wasn't really interested in pursuing a friendship with you, you were right on the money.  If you assumed that it had anything to do with dope, you're sorely mistaken.  Just some advice, if those are the only kinds of women you're meeting, ya might want to get out more...broaden your horizons a bit.

To those of you that think I'm just being mean to poor old Bob, sorry.  First off, he brought this up out of the blue and to be honest I had no clue what he was talking about then and I still don't.  Second, he did it on an open forum, not PM and third...I hardly know the fucking guy!

WOOF, I appreciate your response to the original post that I put up.  I'll respond more when I've got time.  We've been swamped lately, almost literally.  I doubt we know each other, I wasn't in at the same time as Bob.  I was in the Gandy bldg. from summer 82 to summer 84.

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« Reply #16 on: May 31, 2005, 07:26:00 PM »
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« Reply #17 on: June 01, 2005, 04:50:00 PM »
I actually jumped into this thread doing one of the things that the program instilled in me.  I shot from the hip and got something off my mind that had been bugging me for a long time.  I did it without thinking at all.  Just like I used too.  I let my own thoughts and feelings and the "Need to Get Things Out" over-ride any logic, or sense of decorum. I think I finally get it Kim. I will never again assume you want any help to feel better or desire any human contact.  You are now free to go back to being a stranger.  As for you Chris, God I pity you.

As far as stigma's go, I do not have any relations with my father still.  There is just nothing there.  I'm all dead inside.  It really does'nt bother me because when I think back on all the horrible concessions I had to make in order to "fit in" I feel that I would have to be crazy to spend time with a family that could do what they did to me.  There is nothing to fix, because as long as I stay away from them, there is nothing broken.  As far as dating goes, I am just about there financially, and I meet women all the time through my job.
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« Reply #18 on: June 02, 2005, 08:29:00 AM »
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On 2005-06-01 13:50:00, 85 Day Jerk wrote:

 I think I finally get it Kim. I will never again assume you want any help to feel better or desire any human contact.


God Bob, get over yourself.  Where did I ever say that I needed your help?  I have plenty of human contact and for the most part I feel quite well.  You took one post I made on a night that I couldn't sleep and turned it first into dating 101, and now a cry for help from me???  Whatever. :roll:

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