Dear Friend:
You sound as dumb as a box of rocks.
I have never met either of the Bundy's. However, as clever and devious as everyone makes her out to be, why would she have sex with an obvious looser like you? Come on now, it took you over a year to realize that someone had fucked you.
Were you born this dumb, or did you sniff too much glue?
Sorry pal, but I think your brain -- what little you were born with -- has rotted out.
Cptnemo
PS: From reading your post, I can tell you did not write her any love letters.