On 2005-04-29 15:18:00, Dolphin wrote:
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On 2005-04-29 13:37:00, Nihilanthic wrote:
"I'm a dominant (I'm a male) because my GF gets off on being able to trust someone to boss her around and say dirty words to her. I dont TAKE CONTROL from her. Its a game, have you heard of those before? Besides, she has a safeword.
Sheesh. You're confusing sex and fun with controlfreak assholes who run programs and TORTURE people with someone whose trying to make his girl happy. Good god, you're either dense or just warped.
Besides, I'm really only doing what she wants me to do. Its a turnon for someone to 'control her' even though she knows shes safe and has a way out. We work out what she wants before we do it anyway!
What child in a program is going to negotiate to be humiliated, beaten, tied up or held down, and have a seminar mind-fuck without a safe word? None, except one severely messed up child.
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You are really living in lala land! What you do to women is far worse - What kind of woman would enjoy being humiliated or whatever you say she wants even in fun? Just like your lifestyle, you seem to want to get involved in controlling people with your poison about the WWASPS schools, even though you knowa absolutely no one personally that's even been there. Fun? "
Dolphin, WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? Can you not read? Is it reading comprehension? Or is it the abstract ideals in my post? I spelled it out pretty fucking clearly.
Now, let me repeat myself for your stupid ass:
SHE WANTS ME TO DO IT. Its arousing for her! She gets turned on in ropes or if I call her certain naughty words. OH MY GAWD!!!!!!
Get it now, bitch? Really? Still dont? I dont give a fuck!
DONT compare fun for her with one of your fucking seminars, btw, or with any of your programs, you punch drinking dumbfuck. She is in control of what I do, when I do it, and when its over, period, 100% of the time, all the time.
I only do what she asks. I dont push stuff on her. In a PROGRAM, they're forced, they cant get out of it, they cant run away, they cant end it, theres no escape. If she feels like stopping for any reason, guess what? She says the word and its over. (We have a safeword because she likes to say no but not have it ended. Its a GAME, something you must not be able to understand even after all those fucking processes Gilcrease put you through).
But yeah, whatever bitch. If you think I'm abusing someone who quite literally begs me to have kinky, CONSENTUAL, SAFE *SEX*, while youre going through with those humiliating, damaging, abusive programs and seminars, you *REALLY* need to go take your head off, clean the shit out of it, and screw it on straight, without Gilcrease or some facilitator around.
Let me repeat it ONE more time, dumbass. She wants to do it. She gets aroused if I get bossy or say dirty words. She likes it. Its excitement, pleasure, and orgasms. I'm not controlling her or manipulating her. I'm doing what she wants. Its a fantasy.
Your program kidnaps kids and takes them in, beats them, holds them down and ties them up, and they have no control, and likely dont like it! She wouldn't like it in taht context anyway, but she has a safeword to end whatever we're doing. The Loss of control is just another arousal device.
Oh, and the humiliation she has is just arousal. The seminars humiliation is far, far more intense and is actually damaging, not erotic at all, and kids cant get out of those either! And to top it all off, she can get off, those poor kids cant even masturbate!
Now go chew on that and make up some OTHER braindead reposte, you dumb bitch.
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