Brown,
Everyone is entitled to share what their personal experince was. Remember:there is no right or wrong just your perosnal experience. Everyone is entiled to being validated as they feel they experinced SCL it. If they feel they were abused,they probably were.If yopu werent luck ofr you.No need to feel guilty for what it took for you to graguate. Or maybe,as only you know for sure,maybe you do.
Goody for you, you graduated.........