For me, we have been very fortunate to find a consultant that has provided us much needed support and information. So far, he has been very knowledgable about what our daughter needs. In Columbus, Ohio, every doctor we went to said "this is the guy to talk to". He charges a fee...and at first I thought it was incredibly high. But, now I think it's not. He has invested hours and hours into research and support.
OUr daughter is finishing wilderness therapy and will go on to a residential treatment program. (*save your flames, I've read them over and over and over again on other forums)
Andy Erkis works with parents all over the country, by the way. Here is his website:
www.aerkis.comI am not endorsing him, just letting you know, for US, he has been a great resource.