Mom, you are not going to take any of these antisocial, narcissistic drug abusers advice are you. As far as sneaking across the border, Ursus has been borderline for most of her life. These other little Conduct disorders never made it in programs because they were to damn spoiled and their parents yanked them out and bought to new cars and in Toughlove parlance were rescuer rangers.
Sounds like you are a little bit of a rescuer rabbit. Do you have any evidence of criminal child abuse. Ursus would consider telling a kid to pick up their toys child abuse. You are having the proverbial blind lead the blind.
You are looking for rational direction from wounded emotionally disordered folks who can't even operate in society. Get the facts and get off of this site, it is pure poison.
FP
Before you get on here saying this, do a little research. Go to google and search Tranquility Bay, High Impact, and Morava Academy.... Now look why they were shut down. Each of these were abusive, Just like every other wwasp program.
