cheeya... why does every topic involving a parent have to turn into an epic fight?
Thank you CG for your concern and I think it would be a good idea as well for you parents to put your heads together, but just to warn you, I don't know how many of those you'll find at Fornits.
Do you know of any CALO support groups you can attend? You might want to try making some contacts there. Does CALO have any seminars? You will have to find ways to connect with parents who are not already aware of the issues if you want to do any good. My favorite is the seminar intervention, pass out flyers and ask some revealing questions. You might have some luck on myspace or facebook as well, maybe creating a group for former CALO students and or parents and just talk to them about their experiences, I can promise you, you'll hit a gold mine of info from former students who no longer have allegiance to CALO.