TS, you don't have to tell me. Got that part. There are so many people out there that you don't know about, trust me.
The big problem with all of this shit is we parents are baited from the git-go, doesn't matter who it is, and we don't see it coming until we've already taken the bate, been hauled in, or netted, then it's too late, we've been hooked, and guilty by association, but not by our own devious intentions, but more by our stupidity, and desperation, which serves people like this and WWASP to no end, while their wallets are getting full, they are depleting our families, financially, spritually, and emotionally.
I would liken them to Vampires, sucking me dry of any and all blood in the name of business as usual, with a little note left on the nightstand reading: "Nothing personal, just needed the money."