I believe all of us have pain associated with the program, whether it is detected at any given moment or not. If I were to let my kids go out and party, then I would be to blame for allowing that to happen. I suppose this could be like the "opening a can of worms" now, but, my kids do not use drugs. I know this because I am with them everyday, teaching them about how to become responsible functioning adults. I also have stated to them that when they are adults, they should choose what they are doing based on what is best for them. Hopefully using a positive approach over many years has influenced them enough to steer them away from dope and whatever. If they choose to use after they leave the nest, well, that's their choice. It will also be their choice to stop using. I would suggest spending more time with the kids, setting a good example for them while they are growing up, and support responsible choices as they become adults.
MG8 :smokin: