I don't think anyone is turning program parents away as much as they are trying to remind these parents that IT IS NOT ABOUT THEM and recouping their financial loss.
Second, Ever notice how the WWASPS parents always claim they didn't know about the controversy, no matter what year it was they sent their kid away?
That may have been true in 1996-1997, 10 years ago but those parents are NOT the ones posting on Fornits or the other anti-WWASPS forums.
I remember doing a search back in 2000 and Intrepid Net Reporter came up frequently. And once Desperate Measures was published, well it impossible to miss it on any of the search engines if you used key words like troubled teens, or the name of any of the WWASPS programs.
In the end, only a few parents (such as yourself) have dedicated themselves to broadening public awareness and for that, you deserve a huge thank you!
I wish more parents would stand up and take their lumps and then resolve to do something that actually helps. Donate to the watchdog groups, give interviews, help promote HR 1738. Civil lawsuits are fine but they happen behind closed doors. The public has no idea what's going on, it's a private affair.
Lastly, it must be remembered that WWASPS is not the only game in town. All this exclusive attention on them has helped to drive parents to other programs, with the SAME potential for abuse. In fact, some of the worst cases of abuse that we know about have happened at smaller programs, or wilderness programs where there have been deaths. The Ed Cons are profiting from the anti-wwasps movement too, don't forget.
There are parents who were genuinely duped, we all know that. But the WWASPS parents are the least credible when it comes to making that claim, primarily because this org. has generated the most publicity. It's a double-edge sword.
If parents really want to help, there are many ways to do so, short of posting on bulletin boards expressing their "outrage" at being mislead. That tired, sorry ole song and dance is what prompts people to tune them out, IMO. Who wants to hear a bunch of parents whining about their lost investment when everybody knows that's nothing compared to what they put their children through?