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« on: February 07, 2006, 03:00:00 AM »
My son with whom I spent 12 years with, informed me that he wanted to live with his father, when I was moving to another location.  I let him, why not, he wanted to and I trusted his dad.  A year and 1/2 later his father enrolled him in Darrington Academy affiliate of the WWASP programs without consulting me or my son, he told him he was taking him on a trip and simply dropped him off many miles away from home. My son does not have a criminal record and has never done drugs and is not violent.  At first, I complied with my x and his rich  wife so I may find out more about this program, I even went to the disturbing discovery and focus seminars..I was told I must do this to see my son.  Then my X decided that he wasnt moving up fast enough so 7 months later told me he was going to send him to Tranquility bay, that is where I drew the line I am going thru a court battle to get my son removed from the school...I cannot have any contact with him (not that I have since he went in)they have banished me completely saying I dont believe in the program and I am giving up on my son.  Truth is..he does not belong there, in my opinion, no child does. So why am I posting..I need any information that anyone may have on Darrington Academy..I have researched til my fingers were bruised came up with nothing but a few web pages that didnt amount to much. I cannot believe I have complied this long with my X husband  :wstupid: But...no more.  Thank God I have stopped him from leaving the country with my son so he cannot send him to Tranquility but the rest is left up to the courts, I pray thay will find him in contempt of court for taking him away without my permission and not letting me see him on my visitation. It would not bother me 1 bit to see him rot in Jail. Any information would be greatly appreciated.
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« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2006, 03:48:00 AM »
Do you not have joint custody? If so it should be that easy, unless you have a retard for a family court judge. Sorry to say, there are a few of them, but OTOH there are plenty of perfectly salient, intelligent judges sitting as well.

But, well, if its not, look at what ISAC has to say:

http://www.isaccorp.org/documentsam.html#darrington

At the very least, its just another WWASPS program with the stupid LGAT type seminar mindfucks. Taking him out would be the best thing you could do.

But, at any rate, do you not have visitation rights? This makes no sense... something isn't adding up. The program can NOT dictate to you the terms of when you see your child, or not! If you have to, call the Sheriffs office in that part of Georgia and show up with a uniformed LEO!

A PROGRAM CAN NOT TAKE CUSTODY FROM YOU! HE IS YOUR SON!

Anyway, why would a court make hime stay there if nothing is wrong with hime anyway?

Everything that people say to you is personal. Whether it is constructive criticism or not will determine whether it cam from and asshole or not.

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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2 on: February 07, 2006, 09:31:00 AM »
Unless you lost custody of your son during a divorce, I would think you could simply drive to Darrington, and pick him up.

While locked away in another WWASP gulag, my mother was in a similar situation. They used all kind of threats against her to keep her from helping me, and they were all lies. Vicious, horrible lies... standard WWASP tactics it seems.

Hopefully someone with more direct knowledge can answer, but as a former prisoner, in a similar situation as your son -- I want to thank you for trying to save your son. Thank goodness he wasn't sent to Tranquility bay.
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« Reply #3 on: February 07, 2006, 11:14:00 AM »
Thank you for the reply, when my son wanted to go live with his dad, yes I signed over custody, but it is still "joint" him being primary.  Right now my lawyer told me to just sit back, everything he is doing will be held against him he is in contempt d/t the fact he has neglected to let me see, talk or have any contact with my son unless I send him the letter first via email and he changes it as he sees fit.  This "program" attempted to brainwash me in the seminars..my X is definately programmed in a bad way..I have 5 other kids here all make good grades and are as dysfunctional as any other normal family.  I made a mistake 2 years ago in listening to my son when he said he wanted to live with his dad. I had no idea he would send him to a brainwashing "cult". Thank you for the website, it has been very helpful.
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« Reply #4 on: February 07, 2006, 11:23:00 AM »
I hope you are able to get your son back. Keep me/us up to date!
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f you were never in a program, or a parent of a child in a program, then you have no business posting here.

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« Reply #5 on: February 07, 2006, 11:24:00 AM »
Well you are a perfect person to answer my post, you are what I call a survivor!

The only people I have spoken to are graduates when I went to the seminars..all they could say is that "the program saved my life" That was such BS, since then I learned that the MUST say this in order to graduate..it just amazes me that kids are not forced to go to these places by a judge the parents actually PAY 40,000.00 per year to have their children treated this way! Paying for your child to be mentally abused seems to be a bit harsh.  
I assume that your mom told you the truth about everything when you finally got to see her and all is much better with you..at least I hope thats the case.   just wish I could contact my son and say....look, im getting you out of there, fight em off and bite the bullet..im thinkin in his valentine box ill slip a note in a sucker..grr his dad will surely look thru the whole thing with a fine tooth comb..and if he dont catch it..my sons other mother at the school will.  Grr  :flame:  soorry I was thinking outloud :silly:
Thank you again for your reply...gives me hope.
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« Reply #6 on: February 07, 2006, 11:26:00 AM »
I will definately let EVERYONE know, thank you
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« Reply #7 on: February 07, 2006, 12:21:00 PM »
I'm not sure I agree with your lawyer.

I mean - I guess it is the Proper thing to do - work it through the courts - but I really don't see why you can't just go get the boy. Then work it through the courts. While your waiting on court dates and judges decisions - there he sits. He's your son. You have parental rights. Exercise them.

Go in with a camera rolling - and demand they produce him. Take him straight to a doctor for a complete physical.

Ask your lawyer why you can't do that? He is your son - you never were declared unfit - you still have joint parental rights - why can't you just go get the boy?

Do you think these people are going to follow "the rules" - play fair? Does your lawyer think so? If so, he might want to do a little research.
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« Reply #8 on: February 07, 2006, 01:04:00 PM »
I am calling my lawyer to ask....but no I am not unfit but maybe I have been sort of programmed..I believed that since my x husband has primary custody ..that since he enrolled him..the schools rules say I am an imposter and I have no rights to my son..of course that was the direction that my x husband gave them..and he pays for all of this with the new wifes checkbook!

Never thought of your idea...and ill get back to you with what he said.

Thanks
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« Reply #9 on: February 07, 2006, 01:25:00 PM »
Doesn't matter that he has primary custody. You still have court ordered rights which he violated without revising the existing order.
Your rights supercede the program policy. That is a fact. He, nor the program, can ignore those rights without a court order.
Show up on your regularly scheduled weekend. Remove your son, and file for primary custody based on your ex's obvious total disregard of you and your son's rights. He has not acted responsibly in that regard and should not be allowed to remain primary custodian.
Act offensively, not defensively. The longer you wait, the longer they have to build their case for your son needing 'treatment'.
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« Reply #10 on: February 07, 2006, 03:38:00 PM »
Geeze, you make me feel better than my lawyer...that sounds like excellent advice, I have no idea why I never thought of that before.  I have called my lawyer and asked him to fax a copy of my visitation rights.  We live 6 hrs away from eachother and for 2 years I have only had my son on holidays and summer, spring break.  Spring break is coming up but I hope not to wait that long, the decree should read every other weekend, but we made arrangements outside the court.  I cannot tell you how much I appreciate you and all of the other people who cared enough to post!
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« Reply #11 on: February 07, 2006, 03:41:00 PM »
Anon - you said the graduates HAD to say the Program saved their life to graduate.  Well, so how do you explain them saying the program saved their life AFTER they graduated?  No carrot there anymore, so maybe it is true??
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« Reply #12 on: February 07, 2006, 03:52:00 PM »
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On 2006-02-07 12:41:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Anon - you said the graduates HAD to say the Program saved their life to graduate.  Well, so how do you explain them saying the program saved their life AFTER they graduated?  No carrot there anymore, so maybe it is true??"


Did you miss the part about being psychologically and emotionally influenced (ie brainwashing, tortured) in a never-ending barrage of LGAT seminars for over a year, sometimes several?  Is it THAT surprising this effect caries over for a few years after graduation... or in a VERY select few, indefinitely?

You see, the sad part is... brainwashinig works. It works quite well in fact. WWASP does not use carrots, ever. Don't you get that? They ONLY USE THE STICK. There never was any carrot, only an isolation hole to suffer in, as long as it took to break your spirit, as Lichfield stated. Are you familiar with how WWASP programs work? No carrot, sorry... would of LOVED a carrot, believe me. You either do what they say, act like they say, and start believing what they say or you GET THE STICK.

So it's not about carrots... it's about fear, intimidation and coercion. Deprivation, isolation and spitit-breaking. This is WWASP's ideology and 'therapy'. You support this?

Sadly, some kids embrace the ideology (for whatever reason) and abuse the lower level students. Perhaps these are the select few who NEED to support the program to deal with their own personal demons. Whatever reason, they are very far and few between. The recent rise of anti-wwasp internet groups shows this quite clear.

Over a thousand ex-prisoners of WWASP registered at various websites, and not one who is pro-wwasp. Kind of lonely out there isn't it?
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« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2006, 04:19:00 PM »
I wonder what the president of WWASP has to say about the treatment his company is offering?

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During a period in 2002 when he'd split with WWASPS, he told the Rocky Mountain News' Kilzer: "These people are basically a bunch of untrained people who work for this organization. So they don't have any credentials of any kind. We could be leading these kids to long-term problems that we don't have a clue about because we're not going about it in the proper way ... How in the hell can you call yourself a behavior-modification program -- and that's one of the ways it's marketed -- when nobody has the expertise to determine, is this good, is this bad?"


Interesting.

http://alternet.org/module/printversion/31000
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« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2006, 04:28:00 PM »
I agree with you completely..I witnessed 3 of the numerous seminars, where they attempt to put you into a different state, and ask that you look at an imaginary photo album and tear out the ones of your mother for example and the times she hurt you then you put them in your chair and hit them with your fist...attempting to drive the "spirits" away. They do this repeatly with your father, sister, brother, etcc..this process lasts about 3 hours. In each of the Discovery and Focus seminar they last 12 hrs, ending at midnight, breaks are sometimes without 1 word..we were not allowed to.  They drill in your heads that your children need to be with them and I want you to be concerned about your own program.  They forced my son to say things that never happened..if he didnt he was not "working the program".  I believe all of the schools under the WWASPs' wings are all under the same program..some are more harsher than others, some as such Tranquility bay even physically abuse the kids..they have post traumatic syndrome..afraid of being yanked out of their beds at 3 am to have their wrists wringed over and over..so if anyone asks me..do I think that this kind of program saves lives..I simply must say no..I think it kills the very spirit in children that gives them the "keys to success"...that was too funny.
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