Why is every thread turned into a The Who hatred thread?
I didn't intend this thread to become a slanging match - what The Who said in reply to me made sense
What he said in reply to the ex program kid does not ... I can well believe the use of duct tape for the very reasons he pointed out, that it is so strong it would completely immobilise the child physically, hence immobilising them mentally at the same time, it seems the perfect way of getting a kid to comply if you ask me, it's a disgusting practise & something that should be left to 2 consenting adults in the bedroom!!
I do take his point about the tornado thing though...I won't call this person a liar, because I wasn't there, but it does seem a bit strange to carry out something that is likely to get the program staff killed, however, no matter what - if this person has been through any type of abuse, then it is wrong, wrong, wrong - just my 2 cents worth
well that posted wrong....
Im not the guest who was saying shut up & all that...
but thats not all she is saying.
A. she is "takes the point" of the who, whom is flat out stating the boy is lying
B she is saying "well Id never call anyone a liar cause i wasnt there" but thinks its strange or near impossible...Obviously, if she thinks its near impossible, and the only reason she cant say certainly it didnt happen becasue "she wasnt there" she's saying it didnt happen-or as close to being sure it didnt happen without being there in person
C. she ends the staement by saying "but any abuse is wrong" claerly implying that even though that partiuclar abuse didnt happen whatever did happen was bad
The implication is clearly that the boy is lying. She agrees with the "point of the Who" whom doesnt beleive it.
If she had questions about the situation like "what's a typhoon, how did that happen?" than she should have asked them in a sensitive manner.
Saying something shameful and horrible happened and then being told you are lying is horrible. They have a term for it in the criminal sytem in regards to rape victems reporting a crime & being dismissed. It's called getting "raped twice". This is why people dont report rape crime, -and program crimes. The Who knows this, which is why he called the boy a liar and made fun of his pain. He is deliberately doing that to supress info, to derail the topic which was "consider the damage that happens"& make it about "did it happen" it makes us go in cicles, and hinder other people from sharing. Its a good strategy. I know for I am not as vocal with what happend to me becasue of the "tone" here. WHo is evil, exhausted does not have an excuse.-she should know better