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Offline CCM girl 1989

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« Reply #15 on: June 02, 2006, 03:50:00 AM »
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On 2006-05-26 16:14:00, Anonymous wrote:

"hI. My daughter can not live with me right now because my husband is a sex offender. I am loking to send her to live at a boarding school. Any ideas to an appropiate placement?"


I know this sounds crazy....but I have been through it all. If she is a good kid, I would consider having her in my home. We live in a beautiful home, on 3 acres and I am completely sane. You can give us the money to take care of her. Check me out at http://www.myspace.com/ccmgirl1989
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f you were never in a program, or a parent of a child in a program, then you have no business posting here.

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« Reply #16 on: June 02, 2006, 07:06:00 PM »
He is considered a sex offender because he molested his step sister 10 years ago.
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« Reply #17 on: June 02, 2006, 07:42:00 PM »
Who gives a shit about the justness of sex offender laws?  This broad is SENDING HER DAUGHTER AWAY for no other reason than that he is a sex offender.  I don't care if he fucked his 16yo girlfriend when he was 18.  Why is sending the daughter away even an option?  The idiot parents who post here never cease to amaze me.
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« Reply #18 on: June 02, 2006, 07:43:00 PM »
Forgot to log in.  That was me.
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« Reply #19 on: June 02, 2006, 07:57:00 PM »
Maybe the daughter wants to go away.  Would that ever occur to any of you or is leaving your cozy little homes and, god forbid, access to Fornits more than you can bear the thought of?
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« Reply #20 on: June 02, 2006, 10:56:00 PM »
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On 2006-06-01 19:06:00, Anonymous wrote:

 Statistically it is almost a guarantee that they will reoffend, much more than with any other type of crime.  This is why we only have a sex offender registry and not one for shoplifters, etc."
Please cite your source for the research. I suspect you are not correct
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« Reply #21 on: June 02, 2006, 11:03:00 PM »
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On 2006-06-02 00:50:00, CCM girl 1989 wrote:

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On 2006-05-26 16:14:00, Anonymous wrote:


"hI. My daughter can not live with me right now because my husband is a sex offender. I am loking to send her to live at a boarding school. Any ideas to an appropiate placement?"




I know this sounds crazy....but I have been through it all. If she is a good kid, I would consider having her in my home. We live in a beautiful home, on 3 acres and I am completely sane. You can give us the money to take care of her. Check me out at http://www.myspace.com/ccmgirl1989"


What an incredibly generous offer![ This Message was edited by: Badpuppy on 2006-06-02 20:04 ]
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« Reply #22 on: June 03, 2006, 10:37:00 AM »
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On 2006-06-01 19:06:00, Anonymous wrote:

"So you wouldn't consider a 13 year old a threat to your daughter if he's already had sex with a 9 year old?



You wouldn't want that info?



Anyway, searches on sex offenders do not show juvenile offenders' info.  Sadly, that's not public knowledge until they reoffend after age 18 and are caught and convicted.  Statistically it is almost a guarantee that they will reoffend, much more than with any other type of crime.  This is why we only have a sex offender registry and not one for shoplifters, etc."


The point is well taken and demonstrates the complexity of the issue. It is, of course, impossible to predict who will and who will not re-offend and there is no cure. The usual treatment is a form of 'chemical castration' combined with therapy to get the offender to understand why their behavior is wrong.

I still stand by original statements. Teens will engage in sex with each other and this should not usually be considered a crime. It depends on specific circumstances. It is very difficult to design laws and policies that can cover all circumstances. So, the line was drawn at 18, etc.

Anyway, we are way off-topic.

The other posters have a more valid point when they question why the new guy (sex offender) should take precedence in the home over the child. She does not deserve to be removed from her mom and home just because a new guy shows up. The children are supposed to come first. For some reason, parents keep forgetting this.
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« Reply #23 on: June 03, 2006, 10:52:00 AM »
Agreed.  This is a perfect example of a horrible parent who should have tied her tubes if she's willing to dispose of her child so easily.  

Perhaps the girl has a friend whose parents would be willing to offer foster care?  CCM girl's offer was generous, yet it would force her to leave her friends, school, and community.  The abandonment her mother is planning will be traumatic enough for her.
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« Reply #24 on: June 03, 2006, 02:12:00 PM »
That's true, it would cause her to have to leave her friends which isn't fair. Why should she have to leave????? Parents who send their kids to these places for the most part are very selfish.
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« Reply #25 on: June 03, 2006, 02:13:00 PM »
As if there could be any question that sending your kid(s) off to some pseudo-therapeutic greed-based mind control cult is any kind of solution to anything!!! You all should have been abortions yourselves and have no business being responisible for the life of another human being.
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