I used both bottle and breast for all three....no problems with either. I think these days as a matter of simplicity for moms, its best to do whatever works for you.
I think this particular instance was more of no one wanting to make a decision or take respnsibility if anything bad should happen....never mind that something bad was already happening. There were no actual pediatricians or neonatologists around, so it took them two hours to dig up a nurse practioner that could make the call....he sat down and proceeded to tell me about his credentials and the hospitals staff while my son laid lethargic in the easy-bake oven....I promptly told him to shut up and give me a bottle for the baby. I guess no one warned him that i was pissed off.
I tell you what though, I laid awake there in the NICU for 24 hours straight and I came out terrified of the things those nurses were saying to each other and the lack of competency that those poor little tiny babies were subject to.
Seriously, if i ever get shot...dont take me to the hospital...they'll kill me!