I have a relationship with my mom that is really good. She did not want to send me there and she beleives that I am a good person. I get a lot of support from her. On the other hand my dad is a different story. To be quite frank he sucks. He talks to me as if I am the worst person in the world and nothing is ever good enough for him. I try to tell him about the programs but he just gets defensive. There is no point, nothing i ever say will he believe. So he pays for my college because of a court order and that is our relationship.