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Whoa! So much bitterness. I see that alot of you guys have so much bitterness and hate towards VCA. I'm really sorry that so many of you have had such a bad experience at this school. All of you that went there were sent there for one or more reasons and they were not for not taking out the trash. Someone somewhere out there cared enough to pay well over a thousand a month for your hearts to be changed. To me it looks like those that went to VCA not willing to change didn't, never will and took VCA as a bad experience hence having hatred toward that school. Then again there were others that went to that school and wanted to change and did. I think that everyone is truely entitled to their own opinions and I see you girls come on here and vent your anger, and thats good. However I think that you also need to respect the people that feel different about VCA. I was a girl at VCA several years back. I did not want to go willing, yet my experience there was well worth it. I do not feel as if I was brainwashed. I am not a Zombie and neither is "goonandcryboutit". We are proof that if you want to change you can. People don't brainwash you. If anyone brainwashes its people brainwashing themselves. No one can force you to beleive in something that you don't beleive in. You can tell me 100 times that the sky is black, and I will never beleive you because I see the sky is blue. The staff at VCA strictly read the Bible, preached the Bible and from what I saw lived as the Bible spoke. I can only account for what I saw when I was there and there was no sort of abuse. However when you girls claim that there is, then that infact is between you, the Lord and whomever you are accusing of doing such a thing and I'm sorry that you had such a traumatic experience there. I am not a saint nor am I a "diehard" Christian. In VCA's terms I have backslidden shamefully; I rarely go to church, had a child before marriage, and lived completely right or as as God would have liked me to therefore I do not want you girls thinking that I am some sort of "Zombie" as you say. I am an averge person that had alot of problems when I was younger to the extent that my family sadly was forced to send me away to a Christian organization where only God could save me from my sin. I have a young daughter and I know that if I had such a hard time with her as my parents had with me I would not hesitate to send my daughter to VCA. I took what VCA taught me and used it. I have a wonderful husband, 2 beautiful children and I live a wonderful life and for some reason I am not as miserable as most of you guys on here, however, being respectful to everyones opinions I understand everyone has their own problems. I understand that the majority of you girls consider your experience at VCA a bad one and rather than dwelling on it I think it would probably be better for you to just move on. You all have so many more years to live, husbands to find, children to have.....laughs to laugh..... whats dwelling on 1 year or less spent in Jay going to do for you? All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless all of you!