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The Troubled Teen Industry / Seeking info on lockdown facilities in NY & MS
« on: December 06, 2004, 12:53:00 AM »
I would like to thank everyone who replied to this post back when I first wrote it. I'm back with a little more information on the treatment center my relative is in.

From my mother, I found out that it is located in Petal, MS. This should make a definitive identification possible, no?

The girl's mom paid $37,000 to house her there for the year (which started at the beginning of last summer). She was not allowed to contact her for the first 3 or so months; now they talk on the phone twice a week. The girl is said (by my mom, who gets her information straight from the girl's mom) to be very happy there now (after her experience in the "stricter" (my mom's word) NY facility she was sent there from): playing soccer, even enjoying going to church three times a week. A girl she knew and liked in NY has now also turned up there. She has still begged her mom to let her come home, though.

They will spend Xmas together - the facility will let the girl out to go stay with her mom in her hotel room in MS. I thought that sounded promising, too.

I guess this is all I know. Can anyone give me a positive ID of this facility and some idea if it really is one of the questionable places I have been reading about? I'm not sure what to think now.

FTR, my young relative was *not* evaluated by professionals before being sent away. Her mom was advised by a hotline (possibly one with a religious affiliation, as I know she's something of a fundamentalist?) to send her daughter to the NY center. And that's just what she did - pronto.

TIA for your help.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Seeking info on lockdown facilities in NY & MS
« on: November 23, 2004, 01:32:00 PM »
My very young relative (she is 15) was sent by her mom first to a lockdown in NY. But she was still having "behavior problems," so the facility suggested moving her either out of county (can't remember to which country! Maybe Jamaica ?) or to another facility in the south. First I thought I heard it was one state; now my mother tells me she is in a new place, in Mississippi.

I don't trust this girl's mother at ALL - in fact, I think she is the one with problems. And so I was shocked and extremely skeptical to hear about this lockdown treatment. The girl in question had been found with a joint in her coat pocket, talked back to/fought with her mom, and ditched school a few times. That was about it. She was sent away on the spot - came home from school and had only about 10 minutes to pack her suitcase. And then no one in our family was allowed to talk or write to her for months, not even her mother ....

I have been worrying that this is not a reputable treatment facility. I just know the state, not even the town in Mississippi. (My mom did say that, after she was finally allowed to talk to the girl, the name of the town in MS will show up on her phone record. I'm not sure how or when I can ask her about this - she is satisfied that our relative is in good hands and deserves everything they are doing to her there.)

Does anyone have any ideas for me where/how I could find out more information? Does this relationship between a NY facility and a MS facility ring any bells? Thanks in advance.

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