On 2003-10-25 17:05:00, Deborah wrote:
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kdj,
I hear your frustration, I for one wouldn't consider sending my minor child to strangers, but there are situations in which parents are sold a bill of goods.
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I have to say i have some feeling for some of the parents who send kids to wildreness programmes, particularly if they are only for the summer. Before i knew what went on in the industry i thought the idea of sending your troubled kid to get away from it all for a little while and spend some time chatting with sympathetic trained adults and getting some exercise seemed a good enough one. Particularly if things were becoming strained at home. It was only when i read more about the punitive atmosphere which some programmes promote & of the lax regulations and series of abuses and deaths that i felt disgusted. I can easily see how an unsuspecting parent who feels that they have done their homework by getting an ed con to "research" could send their kid to such places unwittingly.
I dont excuse what goes on and i will certainly never understand getting an escort service, but I have some sympathy for the parents, particularly those who are made to feel that they are failing as well as for the kids who end up at these places.