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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => The Troubled Teen Industry => Topic started by: Anonymous on March 03, 2005, 05:24:00 PM
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I'm having trouble with my 15yr old son. He is extremely rebellious. He refuses to listen to what our family wants from him. He often fights with his auts and uncles, refusing to follow their wishes.Is there any program out there that is not abusive and would help him grow to b a better human being?
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On 2005-03-03 14:24:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I'm having trouble with my 15yr old son. He is extremely rebellious. He refuses to listen to what our family wants from him. He often fights with his auts and uncles, refusing to follow their wishes.
Why would he need to follow his aunt and uncle's wishes? Is he not YOUR kid?
Is there any program out there that is not abusive and would help him grow to b a better human being?"
No. That's YOUR job
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On 2005-03-03 14:24:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I'm having trouble with my 15yr old son. He is extremely rebellious. He refuses to listen to what our family wants from him. He often fights with his auts and uncles, refusing to follow their wishes.Is there any program out there that is not abusive and would help him grow to b a better human being?"
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I get financial assistance from my aunt, hence the need for my son to follow her wishes.I am a single mom on public asistance and really need the extra funds. Being that she provides extra funds for us,My family feels she has the right to tell him what to do.His father has plenty of money but only comes over asking for sex.So the extra funds are essential.I never graduated High School so it is not likely I could land a decent job. I was brought up that as long as women are good in bed, some man will come along and provide financially.I have found a man that i like to rovide financially for me.
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Lady,
Seems to me like you are THE PROBLEM, and you need to get your life straight first.
You can find a job, and you can help your son.
You do not need to think that you can only find a man to take care of you "only if you are good in bed." UNLESS, you'd like to be a prostitute. If that is what you want---then you need to treat it LIKE A REAL JOB.
Get real, OK?
Do not send your son to some treatment center where he is going to be abused. Seems like this boy has enough problems as it is.
Why can't he just go and live with these relatives while you try to get you life in order?
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You had a child out of holy matrimony.God hasgiven you hese problems as a wake up call. It is his way of telling you that you having sex before marriage and a child out of holy matrimony is going against him.You should have had an abortion. Then you would never be in this situation.
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Oh Dear Lord. Where's the 'Holy Roller' icon Ginger?
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::bangin::
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Oh, BSarro, can you help me?
I masturbate CONSTANTLY and have extremely perverted BDSM sex with my girlfriend! Even "unnatural acts"!
What should I do to atone for this?
A wise and frugal government, which shall restrain men from injuring one another; shall leave them otherwise free to regulate their own pursuits of industry and improvement
Thomas Jefferson
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On 2005-03-03 19:36:00, Deborah wrote:
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Oh Dear Lord. Where's the 'Holy Roller' icon Ginger?"
Oh, I must find one! :rofl: It's our goddamn duty to get these people back on drugs so they can think for themselves again!!!
RTP2003
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I love the quality of trolls on this board. I have not laughed so hard in a long time! Most of the time what is discused on the Fornits Boards is heartbreaking, but it has be discussed and we have to do somthing about the organized child abuse for money coruption industry in America. Some of these trolls like Dr. Miller Newton and his wife and Dr. Fuckturd and this persitant troll we have here is just plain fun. It feels good to laugh when reading this board instead of getting pissed off. These trolls only lighten up this board and it is much needed at times. [ This Message was edited by: Devlin on 2005-03-04 00:14 ]
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Sounds like he's angry for good reason. He has no stability, and he has a mother that he can't respect because she doesn't take care of him on her own. Whoever said you are the problem, got that one right. Get some help (therapy). Let your son know you are getting help. Stop relying on handouts and "parenting" from people who are not his parents. Be a parent! You don?t have to be rich to provide a loving environment. Be honest with him and stop hiding things. That may be why he has no respect for you.
No wonder he's confused and angry.
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yes the whitmore academy in utah i was there for a year and they helped me greatly. parents think that abuse goes on there but in all actuality. there isn't you can email me at cbnri4lyph@yahoo.com
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i will look into Whitmore. But I do not know if I could send him there because of my financial status.I made a typo before. I have not foud a an yet to provide for me. I'm trying but have not found a man to provide for me yet.Once I do, maybe my family will not expect him to follow their wishes.
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Someoe haas hacked into my password info and has posted in my name. This is not funny at all. Ginger, please investigate and take proper disiplinary action. This really pisses me off!
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I will be changing my password to a harder to figure out password.
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Doesn't look like it. Have you considered that maybe the voices are taking over whenever you lose time?
so long as the priest, that professional negator, slanderer and poisoner of life, is regarded as a superior type of human being, there cannot be any answer to the question: What is truth?
--Freidrich Nietzsche, German philosopher
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I think this is a blatant attempt to discredit me.
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On 2005-03-04 11:13:00, BSarro wrote:
"I think this is a blatant attempt to discredit me.
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You've done that quite successfully all on your own. :lol:
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On 2005-03-04 11:25:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-03-04 11:13:00, BSarro wrote:
"I think this is a blatant attempt to discredit me.
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You've done that quite successfully all on your own. :lol: "
Woops...did that too fast.
forgot the link.
http://fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?to ... um=9#85051 (http://fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?topic=8493&forum=9#85051)
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On 2005-03-04 10:42:00, BSarro wrote:
"i will look into Whitmore. But I do not know if I could send him there because of my financial status.I made a typo before. I have not foud a an yet to provide for me. I'm trying but have not found a man to provide for me yet.Once I do, maybe my family will not expect him to follow their wishes."
I thought you said you were rich? I remember the person who signed as you as the person who was a rich Catholic.
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On 2005-03-04 11:43:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-03-04 10:42:00, BSarro wrote:
"i will look into Whitmore. But I do not know if I could send him there because of my financial status.I made a typo before. I have not foud a an yet to provide for me. I'm trying but have not found a man to provide for me yet.Once I do, maybe my family will not expect him to follow their wishes."
I thought you said you were rich? I remember the person who signed as you as the person who was a rich Catholic."
:nworthy: :nworthy:
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After doing extensive research, I have discovered that my daughter snuck one of her friends in to our home and her friend posted using my info, which my daughter knew because she was with me when I signed up. She and her friend both had a medical appointment today and she snuck her in while I was going over our Visa Credit Statement. I have added her to my daughter's banned friends list. I never expected this from ths girl, as she also comes rom a high class Roman Cathlic family. I will talk to her parents about her possibly needing intervention. I apologize for accusing you all of hacking into my username, as I was too stressed out to remember that all of you Anti-Program people do not have the required intellect to do so. Please accept my sincere apology.
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i see someone was playing a game with the topic I started. I did look into Whitmore. I was thinking about asking my family for the money for the program.I highly doubt Medicaid would pay for it. This would provide him sometime away from our family and give me more time to find a man to improve our financial situation.
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On 2005-03-04 15:49:00, BSarro wrote:
"After doing extensive research, I have discovered that my daughter snuck one of her friends in to our home and her friend posted using my info, which my daughter knew because she was with me when I signed up. She and her friend both had a medical appointment today and she snuck her in while I was going over our Visa Credit Statement. I have added her to my daughter's banned friends list. I never expected this from ths girl, as she also comes rom a high class Roman Cathlic family. I will talk to her parents about her possibly needing intervention. I apologize for accusing you all of hacking into my username, as I was too stressed out to remember that all of you Anti-Program people do not have the required intellect to do so. Please accept my sincere apology.
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wait a minute, asshole. you are on some ego trip accusing thoughtful people of not having any intellect.
i happen to hold a master's degree. what degree do you hold?
apparently you cannot even secure your own computer or user name. you are an idiot. or should i say "dolt"? shouldn't make much difference to a brain-dead asswipe who can be outsmarted by a (uncontrolled, badly parented) teenage girl.
you need to send yourself to a TC to get some tx for your rampant egomaniacism.
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The best programs are mentoring and after school programs, activities that teach your child responsibility, discipline (to get a job done) and most importantly PRIDE and SELF ESTEEM. Is there anything he's got talent at? Make him volunteer, make him do something to feel proud of. I don't know what your life is like, but maybe if you had the time you could do some volunteering with him, or his aunt and him could find some common ground working on something together? I could have been described exactly that way at 14, and my parents sent me away to a boarding school that operated by BREAKING childrens sense of self and instilling a false morality based on SUBSERVIENCE and following orders. Even being a "leader" like they were always telling us to do was still being a follower, being obedient, for all the wrong reasons. I can't look into your future or tell you how another person is going to feel about you, but i'll tell you this about myself. I had talents in me before being sent away to school, I was a gifted violinist (who learned through the public school system not a conservatory) and good at art. I was also the classic troubled teenager, but you know people are a mix of good and bad, and the side they experience in life is the side that gets accentuated (as in, if i'd been around more positive people who liked music and art, maybe I would have done something really great, but my parents went ahead and moved me 13 times before I was 14, and I had a terrible time with shyness and making friends with other people). After I left, I was able to resume these things, but I never had the same passion about them (or anything for that matter) again. I've made it through college and am in graduate school, but I think I've done it all as a show of obedience to my parents (who wanted me to be an academic). I acted like gold upon leaving the school I was at, and my parents were delighted, I love them both and we have a nice friendly relationship . However if I ever so much let myself think about how they tricked me to going to a program for 2 1/2 years that subjected me to verbal abuse and isolation, hate burns in my heart. Do you see what i'm getting at? Many of these programs appear to work on a superficial level, they definitely modify the behavior, but at costs to the internal psyche of that individual that I would consider unacceptable. I have a life that looks good but to this day I get into internal rages and depressions that make me scared i'll accidentally kill myself in these states of mind. I'm no psychologist but my memory puts the origin of these diseased feelings at the time I was suffering through treatment in a "residential treatment center". I feel really bad for you, I have no idea what its like to be in your shoes and am in constant fear that one day I might be, but please try and find someone through a local program that will be a big brother and show him how to be cool by accomplishing things, I wish my parents had done that for me.
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You should really consider sending your son to a long-long term program, at least until he is 18. Send him as far away as possible. You will never find a man to take care of you if you have kids! You really should have used birth control.
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your a mother fucker. The state should chemically castrate you.
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I think you're the one who should be a posterboy for bithcontrol there buddy...
I have always thought that all men should be free; but if any should be slaves, it should be first those who desire it for themselves, and secondly those who desire it for others. Whenever I hear anyone arguing for slavery, I feel a strong impulse to see it tried on him personally.
--Abraham Lincoln
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there are no effective programs. trust me. i am ok now in spite of the programs, not because of them.
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Okay, someone, anyone, PLEASE tell me that these people are not "real"!!!!!! I pray these people like BSARRO or the woman looking for a man to support her are trolls! I cannot fathom that these people are honestly parents. If by any chance they are, then I think we can all clearly understand where this generation is heading. To the woman who wants to snag a "good paying" man with her wonderful female wiles....you are a whore. You take handouts from people. You are a lazy whore. You do not take responsibility for your child's discipline, you hand it off to relatives. This makes you a lazy, negligent whore. Get help a.s.a.p. To the ever controversial "Rich Catholic Mother" : I have to believe you are making this all up for your own twisted fun. No one can be this ignorant. True parents looking for help do not continously degrade the people they are asking help from. Nor. do they continue to post on a board where they feel the people are stupid, ignorant trash, far beneath them. So, the lesson here is.....Don't feed the trolls!
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One more thing...perhaps if we ignore these sad, sick individuals, we can then go on to actually discuss more relevant things, and they will feel the urge to go away.