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« on: May 18, 2004, 01:59:00 AM »
You're a child, a teenager. You wake up with some burly men in your room talking in an intimidating fashion, making you get up and follow them. You might try to run or fight or scream, but nobody comes to your aid. You are terrified and helpless.
You're bound and taken to a waiting van, and driven off. Maybe to an airport and flown far far away, or simply driven a far way. You're terrified, how could you be stolen from your own house? Did your parents have a part in it?
Eventually you end up at some facility far away from the rest of civilization. Against your will. You're still terrified, still wondering whats going on, and why. Then you enter the entry phase that all of these 'institutions' seem to have, where you're told over and over how much of a piece of shit you are, you're strip-searched and humiliated over and over again, scared more and more, and broken down until you'll admit to anything to make it stop. It won't. You endure the daily raps, 'restraint' abuse, among whatever torment you have to deal with from now on. There is no escape.
Then you realize your parents did this. For the next several months, or more... You are in hell.
Think they feel loved? Think they could trust anyone again? They can't even tell their own parents, who they probably want to crawl back to sobbing in apology that they ARE sorry, and that they are being abused, but can not. All trust, potentilaly any love they ever had, any desire to be with you is now gone. Those kids who come back are the tortured, broken shells of the people they once were, who are going to shower you with affection and 'love' so they don't get sent back.
I hope every program parent here takes some time to THINK. What are they feeling now? When was the last time you spoke to your child when they could tell you anything, and you'd listen to them? Why are you breaking the bond instead of trying to strengthen it? You're supposed to love, trust, and care for your kids, and you ship them off into hell on earth.
I think everyone who sends a kid there needs to be abducted, stripped, go through the same crap those kids do... Maybe a week of raps and restraint, and wearing the same clothes they soiled days ago might 'set them straight'.
Torturing someone into changing into the person you want is disgusting. Teach, don't torture.
While I'm on my soapbox, why is it okay to force someone into a strict religion as 'treatment' in this country? What if the kid isn't a christian? What if the kid is from another denomination if they ARE christian? How many are sent there because they're gay or because they didn't agree with their parents theology?