CCM girl 1989 is a poster who had been at this place for years. She was also been at Cross Creek Manor, which explains the CCM.
She has stated that Heritage RTC was the best place, she has been at. But as she also had explained there was no room at home for her because there was a step-mom.
Short to say: A New family life and she belonged to the old one, so she was out.
Because she state that is was a good place, some posters dont appreciate her statements. I respect it because I have not been there and from what I can see there are red lights by the facility, but worse - much worse - are seen.
I help out with two watchpages and an article is underway, but until that I think that you should read these links and consult these myspace groups. The best statements are always made by those, who have actually been there:
Survivor groups:
Heritage RTC, Myspace
Survivors of Heritage RTCHeritage RTC Provo tread on Facility Question and Answers in this forum
Please notice that your offspring will live there for very long time
Average length of stay is 14 months. Minimum length of stay is six months. We do have clients who stay as long as two years.
That is a long time to be away from home and with their communication policy. The first two week are there NO CONTACT. Then there are calls with a therapist present every second week. The quistion you have to ask yourself is: How can my child tell me if anything is wrong there? Remember: They have to make money in order to stay in business. Would you as a businessowner not be tempted to hide errors?
Then look at
the workbook on page 34 - the hot seat exercise:
Your child is placed in a seat and then the other kids, who also must have some kind of problem in order to be there are allowed to criticize your child. All of them in turn!
How can that improve the self-confidence?
As I said above. I see some red flags, I would use months to investigate in order to ensure the safety of my child. But it is not my child and I dont know why he or she has to be removed from the home and extended family network (The facility let the child talk to you - not the rest of the family).
I have offered to mail CCM girl, so you can write with her. If you want me to, then write me.