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« on: May 15, 2010, 06:05:57 PM »
I was at the hotel lounge yesterday and Rachel Uchitel was on TMZ. I understand her appeal. ... but I could tell she feels like a victim and kept saying that no one knows what her relationship was like with these men and no one should judge... but I do judge. I could give a hoot what some one does with their personal lives as long as they don't f*ck with families. I just don't get that - for any amount of money or validation. It's the same with all the other mistresses going public for payment. Don't say you feel guilty. You don't. Or you wouldn't have done it. It doesn't matter if "his wife doesn't understand him" or they are "going through a difficult time", you just don't do it. ESPECIALLY if there are kids. If I know a guy is married, there is a little switch that goes off in my brain that says: No. I don't even entertain the idea. It is that simple. I think women who would do this to families for any reason are complete douchebags... I don't get why these women are suing these married men for cash either. They claim to be misled. I don't care what kind of BS promises the guy made, if he is married, shut up and go home. You can't put a cash value on personal integrity. You have to be heartless to particpate in something that would undermine the safety and stability of a family... of young kids.
One of my friends told she is having feelings for a married guy who is unhappy. And she finally told they been hooking up. I tolds her I don't want to hear it. I think you are acting like a total shit for some ass who doesn't care about you so go complain somewhere else. I don't believe in situational ethics where its not okay for someone else to do it, but for you? No problemo. Incidentally, her husband had an affair that spanned years, had a child with as mistress and left her. Of course, now he is on #3. So, having been through the pain herself, I do not understand visiting it upon someone else.