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Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: sick of child torture girl on April 18, 2007, 09:41:05 PM
Does anyone think its a good idea, that if one starts a thread and asks for it to remain "who free", that can get honoured?


Don want to seem or be domineering, or as a program parent would say "have an entitlement issue..."

Dont know maybe its a good idea?
Title: Re: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: psy on April 18, 2007, 09:43:44 PM
Quote from: ""sick of child torture girl""
Does anyone think its a good idea, that if one starts a thread and asks for it to remain "who free", that can get honoured?


Don want to seem or be domineering, or as a program parent would say "have an entitlement issue..."

Dont know maybe its a good idea?


Honored?  only if "The Who" aggrees to it.  In my experience, he does.  I started a thread, he farted in it, i told him firmly to get the fuck out and stay in his playpen we set up for him (the 230 page and counting playpen)
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Anonymous on April 18, 2007, 09:46:00 PM
You are talking about a person who takes pleasure in hurting people who have just been through horrible events, he knows, because he read the story himself. He chose to copy/past this into another thread to make a joke about it, and make a point that stories are made up on fornits to scare parents and suggest none of the accounts of abuse are true. Why would a person like this honor an agreement? He has no honor, so that is expecting too much.
Now TheWho is engaged in trying to find other people's offensive posts to get the attention of him. He is posting as a guest now trying to make a big deal about the anorexic thread to no avail. He knows what he did was wrong but instead of take responsibility he attempts to blame others. A lot of parents put there kids in programs for that, ironic isn't it?
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: sick of child torture girl on April 18, 2007, 09:52:47 PM
Quote from: ""Guest""
You are talking about a person who takes pleasure in hurting people who have just been through horrible events, he knows, because he read the story himself. He chose to copy/past this into another thread to make a joke about it, and make a point that stories are made up on fornits to scare parents and suggest none of the accounts of abuse are true. Why would a person like this honor an agreement? He has no honor, so that is expecting too much.
Now TheWho is engaged in trying to find other people's offensive posts to get the attention of him. He is posting as a guest now trying to make a big deal about the anorexic thread to no avail. He knows what he did was wrong but instead of take responsibility he attempts to blame others. A lot of parents put there kids in programs for that, ironic isn't it?


Well its pretty obvious that its different to make fun of an IDEA that will result most likely in the death of a child and the actual rape, attempted murder and near death of that child. People can see that

I guess what I was suggesting is that a "moderator" or whomever could keep im' out of the thread  :oops:(me unclear) It would keep certain threads at least on topic and "safe" to a certain extent. Dont know
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: hanzomon4 on April 18, 2007, 10:28:23 PM
Don't worry about the who, the regulars will defend the unwitting in regards to the who.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: TheWho on April 18, 2007, 11:18:13 PM
So what exactly is the problem with "TheWho's" posts?

Sorry, I didnt realize I was logged in.  I should say "my" posts.  One post is causing all this uprising?
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: sick of child torture girl on April 18, 2007, 11:45:22 PM
Quote from: ""TheWho""
So what exactly is the problem with "TheWho's" posts?

Sorry, I didnt realize I was logged in.  I should say "my" posts.  One post is causing all this uprising?


no body answer him. WHo is not gonna derail the thread about stopping him from derailing threads
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: TheWho on April 18, 2007, 11:49:14 PM
Quote from: ""sick of child torture girl""
Quote from: ""TheWho""
So what exactly is the problem with "TheWho's" posts?

Sorry, I didnt realize I was logged in.  I should say "my" posts.  One post is causing all this uprising?

no body answer him. WHo is not gonna derail the thread about stopping him from derailing threads


I would support and respect a “Who free forum” as long as people were accurate with their information, didn’t try to spread half truths and were generally upfront with the information they brought to share.
I would only step in as needed……..

Only kidding, I would respect your wish’s if that is what you wanted.  Ask Ginger to set up the forum,  I will stay away.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: hanzomon4 on April 19, 2007, 12:07:03 AM
Quote from: ""TheWho""
So what exactly is the problem with "TheWho's" posts?

Sorry, I didnt realize I was logged in.  I should say "my" posts.  One post is causing all this uprising?


Well who your post really caused some real pain to many who already have had more then their share. I see you as pro-program a yuppie but I never would have believed that you would make a post such as the one everyone is upset about. In fact I thought you were being trolled by an anon! I wouldn't support a ban, even though you derail threads and make fun of abuse survivors. You truly don't bringing anything to most discussions other than a talent for pro-program spin. But hey Ginger lets me speak my mind and thats a think I can respect.

So to summarize: Apologize and  make an effort to listen to survivors without precondition(like praising the program)

I could  follow that last bit of advice myself......
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: TheWho on April 19, 2007, 12:45:37 AM
Quote from: ""hanzomon4""
Quote from: ""TheWho""
So what exactly is the problem with "TheWho's" posts?

Sorry, I didnt realize I was logged in.  I should say "my" posts.  One post is causing all this uprising?

Well who your post really caused some real pain to many who already have had more then their share. I see you as pro-program a yuppie but I never would have believed that you would make a post such as the one everyone is upset about. In fact I thought you were being trolled by an anon! I wouldn't support a ban, even though you derail threads and make fun of abuse survivors. You truly don't bringing anything to most discussions other than a talent for pro-program spin. But hey Ginger lets me speak my mind and thats a think I can respect.

So to summarize: Apologize and  make an effort to listen to survivors without precondition(like praising the program)

I could  follow that last bit of advice myself......


It was one post and I apologized afterwards, this isn’t an ongoing habit.  I have always had respect for others stories and accounts.  As far as derailing threads, it isn’t all my doing.  I try to ignore the trolls, but sometimes I feel a need to respond to them and it gets off topic.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: RobertBruce on April 19, 2007, 12:52:15 AM
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I have always had respect for others stories and accounts.


Unless they claim to have been abused in ASR though right? Cause as we all know youve made your opinion quite clear on the matter. You believe no kid was ever abused at ASR, not one.

Youve also claimed that the total number of kids abused in all the TBS from the total population amounts to less than 1%. Thus you believe the majority of those of us who tell such stories to be liars.

So it would appear that no you have not always had respect for others stories and accounts.

And why would you? Its not what they are paying you to do now is it?
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Oz girl on April 19, 2007, 06:59:40 AM
Sick of child torture girl I dont know if starting an anybody free thread is a good idea. Just ignore him when he is being a dick
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Antigen on April 19, 2007, 10:48:14 AM
Who, I believe you believe what you're saying, but that's not the same as speaking the truth.

You routinely dismiss and minimize our stories. I don't believe, as some do, that you're actually a paid provocateur. But I can sure see why it looks that way to some people. I think you're just really, really soaked in Toughlove Hategroup brand kool-aid.

I do want you to hang around, though. You demonstrate to the uninitiated just exactly how dualistic and cruel program thinking is.

Here's a novel idea. Since so damned many people are all making the same complaint about you over a long period of time, hows about you take some personal responsibility, be accountable for your own actions, just quit dive bombing every single thread w/ your overbearing, sanctimonious bullshit.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Troll Control on April 19, 2007, 10:58:18 AM
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hows about you take some personal responsibility, be accountable for your own actions, just quit dive bombing every single thread w/ your overbearing, sanctimonious bullshit.


TheWho will see this as an invitation to dive-bomb this thread.  And that's exactly what he'll do!
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: RobertBruce on April 19, 2007, 12:46:47 PM
He isnt capable of all that much. Most of the time wasted on him is spent proving him wrong and arguing with him when he refuses to see the truth on matters.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: TheWho on April 19, 2007, 02:31:47 PM
Quote from: ""Antigen's Ghost""
Who, I believe you believe what you're saying, but that's not the same as speaking the truth.

You routinely dismiss and minimize our stories. I don't believe, as some do, that you're actually a paid provocateur. But I can sure see why it looks that way to some people. I think you're just really, really soaked in Toughlove Hategroup brand kool-aid.

I do want you to hang around, though. You demonstrate to the uninitiated just exactly how dualistic and cruel program thinking is.

Here's a novel idea. Since so damned many people are all making the same complaint about you over a long period of time, hows about you take some personal responsibility, be accountable for your own actions, just quit dive bombing every single thread w/ your overbearing, sanctimonious bullshit.


A little insulting, but, I can take a shot at that if you instruct your moderators to stop deleting my posts and/or rewriting them so they can be used to misquote me.  This occurs in moderated areas as well as un-moderated forums.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Troll Control on April 19, 2007, 02:40:46 PM
Quote from: ""TheWho""
Quote from: ""Antigen's Ghost""
Who, I believe you believe what you're saying, but that's not the same as speaking the truth.

You routinely dismiss and minimize our stories. I don't believe, as some do, that you're actually a paid provocateur. But I can sure see why it looks that way to some people. I think you're just really, really soaked in Toughlove Hategroup brand kool-aid.

I do want you to hang around, though. You demonstrate to the uninitiated just exactly how dualistic and cruel program thinking is.

Here's a novel idea. Since so damned many people are all making the same complaint about you over a long period of time, hows about you take some personal responsibility, be accountable for your own actions, just quit dive bombing every single thread w/ your overbearing, sanctimonious bullshit.

A little insulting, but, I can take a shot at that if you instruct your moderators to stop deleting my posts and/or rewriting them so they can be used to misquote me.  This occurs in moderated areas as well as un-moderated forums.


This has NEVER HAPPENED.  Don't try to blame moderators for your stupid comments.  You say really dumb things and people QUOTE YOU right away to PRESERVE your comments because YOU have been known to go back and delete or edit posts that you've been proven wrong about.  You just don't like being held accountable for your statements. You are a fucking LIAR, Who.

Ginger can the history of posts in the database and she can see if posts have been modified or deleted by a moderator or anyone else for that matter.  Ginger, can you address this idiot's lies please?

Quit trying to blame other people for YOUR STUPIDITY.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Troll Control on April 19, 2007, 03:34:05 PM
Quote from: ""Deborah""
Quote from: ""Guest""
This is the last refuge for someone caught blatantly lying so many times that he has no other excuse but "They altered my posts!" What a LOSER.

 :rofl:
That's about the size of it. He hasn't a leg to stand on in an honest debate, so he resorts to attacks and false allegations. I could provide links to many posts that I would've loved to dump. They're still there.
The only one 'editing' Who's posts is Who. Remember the one in which he stated his daughter split and didn't talk to him for 2 years. He apparently forgot he posted that back when he was anon- before his picked a user name. When I linked to it, he promptly deleted it.
Wah, wah, wah.  :cry2:


The chickens have come home to roost for TheWho.  

Credibility destroyed, caught in lie after lie, deleting or altering his own posts to try to clean up his image and trying to blame moderators for his problems...

It's come full-circle on him and he's embarrassed and angry about it.  But, true to his character, he takes no responsibility for his own actions and blames others.

It took over 2,500 posts for him to paint himself so tightly into the corner that there is finally nowhere left go.  How sad  :wink:
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: TheWho on April 19, 2007, 04:02:35 PM
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This has NEVER HAPPENED. Don't try to blame moderators for your stupid comments. You say really dumb things and people QUOTE YOU right away to PRESERVE your comments because YOU have been known to go back and delete or edit posts that you've been proven wrong about. You just don't like being held accountable for your statements. You are a fucking LIAR, Who.

Ginger can the history of posts in the database and she can see if posts have been modified or deleted by a moderator or anyone else for that matter. Ginger, can you address this idiot's lies please?

Quit trying to blame other people for YOUR STUPIDITY.


If this is a moderator, I think I know who you are.  I have not complained until now and you know what I mean.  There is no way for me to prove my posts have been altered and deleted, but they have been and you know it.
You may call me a liar or check the history it doesnt matter, you know what you did.

If you want me to change the way I post here and the way I deal with people you will need to agree to change yourself and stop playing with peoples posts.  If you dont then we will continue the way we have been.  I havent complained in the past and I wont complain going forward.  But dont ask me to change if you are going to continue to play games yourself.

of course I edit my own posts, but,I take responsibility for what I write, even my mistakes, but changing what I say is wrong and you know it.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Troll Control on April 19, 2007, 04:09:17 PM
:rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:

What a load of SHIT!  Give the links to the posts you claim were altered and the admin can look at the history.  If you can't give the links, STFU!

"I take responsibility" and "Someone else did it!" don't quite compute.

Ha,Ha,Ha...  Been caught out there again and crying like a toddler.

Grow up and own your garbage!
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Troll Control on April 19, 2007, 04:22:06 PM
Quote from: ""TheWho""
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This has NEVER HAPPENED. Don't try to blame moderators for your stupid comments. You say really dumb things and people QUOTE YOU right away to PRESERVE your comments because YOU have been known to go back and delete or edit posts that you've been proven wrong about. You just don't like being held accountable for your statements. You are a fucking LIAR, Who.

Ginger can the history of posts in the database and she can see if posts have been modified or deleted by a moderator or anyone else for that matter. Ginger, can you address this idiot's lies please?

Quit trying to blame other people for YOUR STUPIDITY.

If this is a moderator, I think I know who you are.  I have not complained until nowYES YOU HAVE, SEVERAL TIMES.  IT WASN'T TRUE THEN AND IT ISN'T NOW and you know what I meanNOT REALLY.  There is no way for me to prove my posts have been altered and deletedOF COURSE YOU CAN'T BECAUSE IT NEVER HAPPENED, but they have been and you know itANOTHER LIE AND RESPONSIBILITY DODGE.
You may call me a liarYOU ARE A LIAR or check the history it doesnt matter, you know what you didYES, LEFT YOUR POSTS INTACT AND QUOTED YOU AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE TO PREVENT YOU FROM ALTERING THEM.

If you want me to change the way I post here and the way I deal with people you will need to agree to change yourself and stop playing with peoples postsWHY NEGOTIATE WITH SOMEONE THAT HAS NOTHING TO OFFER?.  If you dont then we will continue the way we have beenNOBODY'S GOING TO TRY TO STOP YOU.  WE'VE ALWAYS ENCOURAGED YOU BECAUSE YOU DESTROY THE REPUTATION OF PROGRAMS AND THEIR SUPPORTERS.  BY ALL MEANS, CONTINUE.  I havent complained in the pastYES YOU HAVE, SEE ABOVE and I wont complain going forwardOF COURSE YOU WILL.  But dont ask me to change if you are going to continue to play games yourselfYOU'RE THE ONE PLAYING GAMES HERE, BUDDY.

of course I edit my own postsJUST AS SOON AS THEY'RE PROVEN TO BE LIES, BUT NOT A MOMENT BEFORE!, but,I take responsibility for what I write, even my mistakesNO YOU DON'T.  THIS WHOLE POST IS YOU NOT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY!, but changing what I say is wrong and you know it.SO QUIT DELETING AND CHANGING YOUR POSTS ALREADY!


Ha,Ha,Ha...  Gotta love it.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Antigen on April 19, 2007, 05:05:44 PM
Quote from: ""Guest""
Ginger can the history of posts in the database and she can see if posts have been modified or deleted by a moderator or anyone else for that matter.  Ginger, can you address this idiot's lies please?

Quit trying to blame other people for YOUR STUPIDITY.


Ya know, I'm really not sure. I'm not at all familiar w/ the new database. I'll have to ask Kelly if and how much rollback capability we have.

But I think, really, yenz who are horn-locked w/ Who are doing a fine job already, as you note, quoting to preserve original content.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: psy on April 19, 2007, 05:50:00 PM
Quote from: ""Antigen's Ghost""
Quote from: ""Guest""
Ginger can the history of posts in the database and she can see if posts have been modified or deleted by a moderator or anyone else for that matter.  Ginger, can you address this idiot's lies please?

Quit trying to blame other people for YOUR STUPIDITY.

Ya know, I'm really not sure. I'm not at all familiar w/ the new database. I'll have to ask Kelly if and how much rollback capability we have.

But I think, really, yenz who are horn-locked w/ Who are doing a fine job already, as you note, quoting to preserve original content.


Use the wayback machine...  It's what I use whenever something dissappears...

Drag this to your bookmark bar and click it whenever you want to wind back time:

wayback
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2007, 06:36:40 PM
SEE this is just a PRIME EXAMPLE of how THE WHO derais every conversation:

The discussiion was:
"Can this thread be a calm discussion that excludes THE WHO from interfering with is NONSENSE?"

THE WHO jumps in an posts, and immediately LIES, and says:
"well is only posted once and apolgized......"

IT WAS A BIT MORE THAN ONE POST....
  This jerk actually started the TREAD, laughing at this survivor and calling him a LIAR.

THE WHO was asked to stay off this thread...now he's leading some TECHNICAL DISCUSSION about HIS POSTING BEING DELETED, CHANGED.....
Why can't he just be banned?  He contributes shit!
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: exhausted on April 19, 2007, 06:38:03 PM
I see this thread was derailed into a Who thread then  :roll:
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2007, 06:56:28 PM
Quote from: ""psy""
Use the wayback machine...  It's what I use whenever something dissappears...

Interesting...how does that thing work? How can it retrieve something that's gone (unless it searches your temporary files)?
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: psy on April 19, 2007, 07:02:42 PM
Quote from: ""Guest""
Quote from: ""psy""
Use the wayback machine...  It's what I use whenever something dissappears...
Interesting...how does that thing work? How can it retrieve something that's gone (unless it searches your temporary files)?


The internet is archived.  That link simply says "go to internet archive and locate all times of the current url".  archive.org  the whole shebang.  Anything from old forums, ST antiquities...  you got it.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2007, 08:48:53 PM
Quote from: ""psy""
The internet is archived.

I don't know if I like that or not...

I'll admit that I didn't know this existed. I knew google has its cache, but that's all I knew. You learn something new everyday, I guess.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: psy on April 19, 2007, 09:11:10 PM
Quote from: ""Guest""
Quote from: ""psy""
The internet is archived.
I don't know if I like that or not...

Well there are ways to make sure google doesn't index your site and i'm sure there are ways to tell the archive.org's spider to fuck off as well.  But that's if you own the site.  copyrighted material you can request to be taken down.

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I'll admit that I didn't know this existed. I knew google has its cache, but that's all I knew. You learn something new everyday, I guess.

Oh it's so much better than google's cache since you can explore the site freely at that point in time.  It's useful for tracking what programs advertise over the years... and the changes to advertising...  it's the subtle CYA changes that you should watch for.
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Ursus on April 19, 2007, 09:18:57 PM
There are a couple other spiders out there, but WayBack is the one I use too.  Sometimes it doesn't catch all the changes though, it depends how frequently it crawls through a site.  Some sites seem to be crawled through more frequently than others.  Perhaps psy or someone else can explain that to us?
Title: Compromise suggestion for who issue
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2007, 09:21:39 PM
I wish it worked better. There are some websites I had up way back when I tried to find but they didnt' archive back then or something.