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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / Whine whine whine
« on: December 01, 2001, 10:52:23 PM »
Differences
I don't think anyone here ever said that AARC was like KIDS/Staight in everyway. Let me speak only for myself. No I did not get restrained, I was not denied food or the ability to go to the bathroom. The ability to go to the bathroom alone... well that is another story. I slashed and I know and remember exactly what happened to me afterwards and during that is seared into my mind and no one can ever tell me it did'nt happen or try to down play it.
We can talk all we want about how certain things at AARC were different from KIDS. Hell lets stop comparing it to KIDS etc. all together. It doesn't make it any better. I have said before and I will say again the specific things that harmed me(at least some of them anyway):
-the slashing and how it was handled obviously
-being confronted in rap about being a prostitute (then once I was on staff being told by one of the ones confronting me that they knew I wasn't they were just doing it to F^ck with my head
-having to have someone in the bathroom with my and there when I take a shower
-Sexual confessions (talking in detail myself in front of others, and hearing others share) Beastiality, insest, rape etc. only to name a few)
-The constant negativity, breaking me down, to build me back up the way certain people think "productive members of society" should be
-Being told that "being Gay is a disease like alcoholism, they're sick"
Etc. Etc. I know that the things that went on there scarred me, and maybe why there are so many people defending the centre is because it's no one has talked about the wrong things before, and I believe if you are still involved with AARC it still has you in its grasp. Of course you think it saved your life, it is your life.
I don't think anyone here ever said that AARC was like KIDS/Staight in everyway. Let me speak only for myself. No I did not get restrained, I was not denied food or the ability to go to the bathroom. The ability to go to the bathroom alone... well that is another story. I slashed and I know and remember exactly what happened to me afterwards and during that is seared into my mind and no one can ever tell me it did'nt happen or try to down play it.
We can talk all we want about how certain things at AARC were different from KIDS. Hell lets stop comparing it to KIDS etc. all together. It doesn't make it any better. I have said before and I will say again the specific things that harmed me(at least some of them anyway):
-the slashing and how it was handled obviously
-being confronted in rap about being a prostitute (then once I was on staff being told by one of the ones confronting me that they knew I wasn't they were just doing it to F^ck with my head
-having to have someone in the bathroom with my and there when I take a shower
-Sexual confessions (talking in detail myself in front of others, and hearing others share) Beastiality, insest, rape etc. only to name a few)
-The constant negativity, breaking me down, to build me back up the way certain people think "productive members of society" should be
-Being told that "being Gay is a disease like alcoholism, they're sick"
Etc. Etc. I know that the things that went on there scarred me, and maybe why there are so many people defending the centre is because it's no one has talked about the wrong things before, and I believe if you are still involved with AARC it still has you in its grasp. Of course you think it saved your life, it is your life.