On 2005-07-27 18:41:00, Anonymous wrote:
"I've made an attempt to respond every post directed at me or reply to one of my posts. However, I am finding more and more difficult to address everything, especially a lot of generalizations, misconceptions, and flatout mistruths presented on this forum.
But the whet the appetite of some of the nay-sayers on this forum, I will express some grievences I do have...
-I know Brat Camp is exploitation, if they were going to make a show of this, it should've been at least voluntary. It sucks to have these kids privacy violated, but you must understand the extremely lucratrive incentive to have 15k therapy program paid for in full.
-Based on what I saw on the intro to BC, Derek should not have been sent to SW. I'm fairly sure that his entire story was not told but if it's just him not taking his medication thats making him act out or whatever, then he just needs to be convinced to take his medication. I'm fairly sure that theres more to the story, however.
-Although I was required to take a physical prior to attending SageWalk, they should've done bloodwork since Diabetes is one of the conditions that prevent enrollment. I think that all students should be tested for Diabetes and Epilepsy.
Despite these, I still stand that SW is a good program. I have no freakin' clue as to why everyone thinks that all the kids are all normal kids and the parents are all abusive and evil, and then one day, they write a check, the kid is sent away and then the parents sit back at home, sip cocktails and laugh, then 45 days later, their children come out as slave robots. SW is never the first option, I read all the material that SW sent my parents (they have archived every single thing that has pertained to SW or any other treatment and circumstances of my behavior), it's no cakewalk for the parents either. They're told that they need to change their ways as well, and they have to work on that as well. It's not just a matter of writing a check either. There is a very lengthy application process.
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From your description, it would appear that SageWalk is one of the 'better' programs out there. What scares the rest of us is that this show will cause lots of parents to jump on the band wagon and send kids to places like that described at
http://www.63days.com. Or worse, send them a WWASP facility.
I wanted to ask you about the punishment. Maybe you didn't experience or see it, but what happens to a teen that absolutely refuses to cooperate. On the show they just wait teens out, but none of the kids on the show are very resistent. I know that if a kid got violent, they would restrain him/her and could have them arrested and taken away if it went far enough, but what if someone just tossed their impact letter into the fire and said, 'Fuck you, I'm not doing this!' or simply refused to hike? I can see that they cannot really kick a kid out because that would only encourage the other kids to emulate the one that got out.
I imagine they would never get to leave? At what point do they say, 'this program is not working for this kid?'
And of course, they would probably recommend one of their lock-up 'theraputic boarding schools' as a solution.
To me, it is this forced coercion where the kid doesn't stand a chance and has no choice that is the main objection I have to these programs. As an atheist/anarchist, to me, the freedom to think what one wants to is the most basic core human right there is. I cannot think of a worse nightmare for someone with my mindset than to be locked into a program of this kind. I don't know how I would handle it, but I bet I would either become seriously violent or seriously suicidal. And if I did, would it be my fault, or the program's? Either way, the program would break me and not help me. It is this no-choice choice bullshit that I cannot get past. You cannot oppose the program without destroying yourself. Thus there is no real choice.
BTW, I'm glad you found value in SageWalk and view it as a positive experience. I wish you continued good fortune in life.