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« on: September 29, 2004, 11:26:00 PM »
I brought this thread back from the grave, because I'm new to Utah and living amongst the Mormons. I love the Mormon people here in the outback, but what I can't stand about them is their ability to coverup for each other. I've seen this over and over.
DIRTY SECRETS AND BUSINESS TIES . . . MY NEW SLOGAN TO THE MORMONS HERE WHO WANT TO KEEP QUIET ABOUT SEXUAL ABUSE. YES, I AM SCREAMING!
When I first moved into the state, Mormon women told me that if you're a Mormon church-going man, and you get caught beating your wife, raping or sexually abusing, the elders will take you to a motel room, have a talk with you and release you back to your victims the next day. No charges filed.
If you're not a church-going Mormon man, get ready to be fed to the wolves at their sheriff's office, county attorney, child protective services, etc. where surely the victim will have blood relatives (lots of inbreeding has also occurred in some areas that have been relatively shut off from the rest of the world, and still are somewhat). They will throw the book at you.
In many instances, they don't show much love or compassion as you would imagine (but I see this in all of the religions . . . I am not religious, merely spiritual).
For instance, it is common practice for the eldest child to inherit all of the wealth of the parents. The remaining 8-9 kids are without. So, 1 in 10 gets wealthy, and 9 go away with nothing from mom and dad. I've seen this create mucho resentment amongst families.
They seem to help themselves to things that you own that they might need. This is called stealing, and you have to catch them in the act. Others might know they are doing it and they might be a good friend of yours, but if they're related or a church-going Mormon (vs. "Jack Mormon", non-church-going, there's a difference), they won't tell you. They'd say, "Why, he would never do that!"
So, to me, the little peon Mormons that I live amongst (vs. the hierarchy of the Church) are pretty good people, living by better moral standards than the rest of our nation. Where they are really wrong, and gradually changing, is from a free and rampant sexual society ruled by the men, patriarchs who built their dominance and sexual weirdness and ludeness into their religion, as a God-given right. Pretty hypocritical and totally impossible if you really know God who is not gender driven with His love or compassion.
They lack backbone, and don't like confrontations even if something is drastically wrong. They like closed doors and secrets. They don't walk their talk.
Like you say, it's up to them to clean up their own house, and I certainly have a right to post about my experiences here.
Toni