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******I posted MY PERSONAL experiences on here..not yours. But you act like I am not allowed to post or type because they dont agree with your view of the school.******

No bitch thats your philosphy. You called me and others liars on numerous occasions. Dont get mad now when I do the same thing to you. Espically since its been shown over and over again my testimony about the school has far more credibility than yours. I was forced to be there and had to experience it day in day out. You just lived on the property away from campus and mailed out report cards. You had nothing to do with the students or our day to day life, nor are you qualified to comment on it.

*****What I didnt do was see them in their dorms or attend their counseling sessions or classes. THat still makes my experiences valid does it not?

No retard it doesnt, counseling sessions, classes and being in the dorms were the biggest parts of our time at HLA. What else was there for you to observe? You said earlier you had nothing to do with restrictions or work assingments, so what...you saw us in the cafeteria? Wow you really knew us through and through, you know you sound exactly like Witherspoon.

" And I never said I was in the cafeteria 7 times a year. I was in there if I was to guess..probably two or three times a month, more when my mother in law worked in the kitchen."

Seriously youre full of shit. No one remembers you, because you were never around. Let me ask you though why is it you claim you ate in the cafeteria 2-3 times a month, but Fat Bill didnt? I know for a fact he usually ate off campus.

"My motivation is that posts on here arent necessarily true and people are believing them when they shouldnt"

Or convincing them of your bull shit instead the reality of the situation that we offer. Oh excuse me the bull shit youve been instructed to spew off.

"This board is a VERY small minority of people who werent happy with the results of the program, didnt like working there, or didnt like (in the case of students) being made to do what they were told or be made to do chores. And possibly had encounters with employees in the past who werent good for the school and have since been fired"

Being made to do what we were told? Being made to do chores? Mrs. Grey you assume way to much, I had to do all of that stuff at home. If thats all it was it would have been no different. No I didnt like HLA because I recognized it for what it was. I didnt like being held against my will, or told every single day I was a sick person who had issues ( all while never being told exactly what those issues were or what actions I was committing which illuminated them). I didnt like a place that sought to silence us at any cost and called any complaint against the school a form of "manipulation". I didnt like being told every thought and feeling and opinion I had was wrong and thus I was a bad person, and I didnt like having my rights violated and freedoms removed, I didnt like watching a group of hypocrites go on and on about how manipulative we all were all while parents and government officals were regurally lied to.  I assure you Mrs. Grey if you had actually ever talked to other students (which as we all know you never did) you would know full well students didnt dislike the school simply because we had to "do chores", idiot.

"Nobody is trying to run the place illegally and sneak by with stuff. They do what they can to comply with whatever they need to. Its obviously not good enough for some people."

Are you sure Mrs. Grey? I gave the information you would need to confirm the fact that HLA has been lying to the state about their pourpose and avoiding regs and proper licensure? How could they after so many years not know of this?

"Maybe you shouldnt..but I am still posting the truth about what I do know about and my experiences,whereas I happen to know that some posts on here arent exactly truthful. Maybe thats the difference that I want to point out. And yes they have the right to post what they want, I understand that. But I have that right too. And should be considered as evenly as others. "

You didnt extend people that courtesy before, dont expect to recieve it now.

"I know where Robert lives because of another post on another board by an anonymous person that listed his city. (dont know his street address and dont want or need to know it). And because I already knew what state he was from from figuring out which student he was, that further verified it. I have no idea if HLA knows who he is or cares who he is. LIke I said, I dont know how much they come to this board if any.
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Hmmm I find this interesting Mrs. Grey, since I dont live in the same state I lived in when I attended HLA how could you have made this corelation? Tell me also how could you have simply "guessed" as to my identity without recieving outside information? Ive told you we met only once and then briefly, during that conversation I told you nothing about my personal life, I would assume you dont have access to former students records. So elaborate further, what basis did you have from the limited comments I made about myself to determine who I am. I mean honestly Mrs. Grey a person of your level of inteligence isnt capable of such feats on your own. So assuming that you arent just talking out your ass..again and do know who I am, lets be honest. Fat Bill let you know didnt he? I mean youre claiming that HLA doesnt moniter these sites, but as we know from Marlas experience they sure do, not to mention M. Quick and of course Lynn. Cant all be coincidences now can they, but again Mrs. Grey "tackiness" aside lets see if you cant back up your statement with just one little detail, I doubt it.

Mrs. Grey AGAIN you discuss things you know nothing about. Maybe just maybe and Im sure this is just crazy talk, but maybe the kids who were forced to go down to that field every day would have a better idea of what its like, over you who stayed at the completely opposite end of campus and had little to no interaction with the students or even the campus for that matter.

Libra I wouldnt consider a high school diploma a reason for keeping your child at HLA, the education there is substandard at best you can view a post written by a former teacher from there which goes into specific detail. Im sure Deborah can post you the link. You should for your own childs benefit get them out NOW. Get them out and allow them to pick a LICENSED therapist whom he or she can trust. I assure you your child will have major trust issues for years to come as a result of their experience at HLA. What he or she is dealing with right now, is being degraded every single day, being forced to admitt crimes and sins to people who are often masicistic. I hope your child has a drug problem, because if they dont they are still forced to attend drug rehab. If he or she is punished for any reasons the punishment will border on abuse and will of course go on indefinitly. Espically when your child is innocent of any crime and refuses to cop to the guilt. As far as Mrs. Grey goes, she chooses to forget many of the more unpleasant aspects of HLA, simply because shes aware the food that was put on her table for seven years came as a result of organized child abuse. Oh and as another neat little token, HLA systematically lies to the state about its true purpose. They tell parents they are a TBS yet tell the state they are not, the reasons of course being if they were listed as a TBS they would be subject to review and would have to completly overhaul their disciplinary procedures. Again Deborah should be able to post the link for you. Any specific questions you have Ill be happy to answer for you.


Mrs. Grey, one more time you fail to back up your own statements, you claimed you "knew my situation" yet you for some magical reason cannot offer up a single specific detail about me. Why is this/

Mrs. Grey again you cry and moan but your hypocricy shines through. You have called me and others a liar on several occasions. Why now bitch when others myself espically do the same thing back to you? Perhaps youve forgotten the many many times youve called me alone a liar. I suppose it wouldnt surprise me considering all the other many other things youve conviently forgotten. Let me know and ill gladly post a few examples for you.

Also lets talk about this you being asked not to post my initials? By whom Mrs. Grey. After all you made it very clear some time ago that you were not in contact with Ol Marty, Bucci or any of the gang. So tell me, who exactly told you not to mention my initials? Give it up Mrs. Grey, you know nothing and even if you did you have nothing. Remember Mrs. Grey all of my statements can be backed up, not quite the same with yours now is it? By all means Mrs. Grey tell your friends whom you swear you arent in contact with to roll the dice and see what is brought down on them. But still lets see if you can offer simply my first initial. Come on Mrs. Grey back up something just once, show me if you are even capable of such an act. My first initial Mrs. Grey, you can do that cant you youve got a 1 out of 26 chance of guessing it right. Tell us Mrs. Grey what are Bucci and Marty afraid of if all Im doing is making things up?


To Juniper and the other parent who asked. Yes strip searches did at least at one point go on. And no at last check HLA has not been licensed as they should be. It is without a question an abusive facility Id be happy to answer any questions of yours as best I can.

Mrs. Grey you know my situation? You give yourself far to much credit. You know absolutly nothing other than the things Ive been geneorous enough to share with you. But if you think you know things about me by all means share them, for once back up your own statements. Im still waiting for you to announce my name to the message board, along with call up those agencies I refered you to, and to post your pictures.

Honestly Mrs. Grey if you arent going to make good on your threats why make them at all. Looking forward to you evading these questions and laughing at you as you cant respond to any of it.

I wonder Mrs. Grey do you seek out topics on which you know nothing, to respond to above all others? It looks that way.

Again Mrs. Gray you post as if you have some knowledge of what goes on at HLA. Weve made this beyond clear you dont. Since this is the case how can assert that we are telling half truths and exagerations? Now you are certianlly entitled to claim that you never saw or knew of the things we are refering to ( as an employee of HLA denial would automatically have to be a big part of your job description anyway) but to call us liars when you have no such basis, and are refusing to examine the facts for yourself is just one more testament to what a hypocritical bitch you are Mrs. Gray. Im curious though, how is it you have the time to contact the health dept about the score the cafeteria recieved, yet dont have the time to call them back on the full story or the Lumpkin County Register or the ORS? Oh still still still waiting for you to make good on your empty threats. Or have you forgotten mine and Dysfunctions names?

Just as an interesting addition to comments made by Rudy, Greg told my peer group once that regardless of color we stood a chance of being shot by some inbred hick should we try and run away and end up on someones property.