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The Troubled Teen Industry / Understanding the Con-Game
« on: June 13, 2006, 11:13:00 AM »
Its good information on a subject people need to understand. Its a good idea to explain the nature of the confidence scam and how it relates to what goes on in troubled teen marketing. I haven't seen it explained anywhere else like this. Brain washing is talked about a lot, but the relationship to the con-game and teen help marketing has gone unexplained. Parents are being scammed, is about as detailed an explanation as you generally find. I'm glad Kathy put this together and glad she is putting the info out and about, where it can be found by families looking into the industry. Why can't people be glad when someone puts forth the effort to educate instead of pecking them to pieces? Seems as mindless as a flock of chickens pecking each other to death.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Why I am leaving
« on: June 02, 2006, 05:31:00 PM »
This is just a passing phase -
One of my bad days. . .


Don't Leave Me Now -


Oooh Babe
Don't leave me now
Don't say it's the end of the road
Remember the flowers I sent
I need you Babe
To put through the shredder
In front of my friends

Ooh Babe
Don't leave me now
How could you go ?
When you know how I need you
To beat to a pulp on a Saturday night

Ooh Babe
Don't leave me now
How can you treat me this way
Running away
Ooh Babe
Why are you running away ?
Oooh Babe !


Hey You -

Hey you !
Don't help them to bury the light
Don't give in  -
without a fight.

Hey you!
Don't tell me there's no hope at all -
Together we stand, divided we fall


Wearing the inside out -

From morning to night I stayed out of sight
Didn't recognise I'd become
No more than alive
I'd barely survive
In a word...overrun

I murmured a vow of silence
and now I don't even hear when I think aloud
Extinguished by light
I turn on the night
Wear its darkness with an empty smile

~~ After all, its not easy; Banging your head against some mad buggers wall~~

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http://old.heraldextra.com/modules.php? ... &sid=34937
 
 
Monday, September 20, 2004 - 12:00 AM   |

Investigation shows troubled school may be buying interest with lawmakers

THE ASSOCIATED PRESS


SALT LAKE CITY -- A family that runs a chain of troubled boarding schools has dumped bundles of money into Utah political campaigns over the past two years -- and may have been peddling influence with lawmakers to avoid regulation, a newspaper reports.

 
The Salt Lake Tribune reports in Sunday editions that lawmakers quietly killed a bill this year that would have allowed the state to regulate boarding schools. Since then, checks have flown into political coffers, and complaints surrounding the schools have swirled.

At the center of the storm are House Speaker Marty Stephens, who received a $30,000 check six days after the bill died from its biggest opponent, and the Majestic Ranch boarding school near Randolph, which has been has been investigated three separate times for alleged abuse, according to state Human Service officials.

That school is owned by Dan Peart, brother-in-law of World Wide Association of Specialty Programs and Schools founder Robert Lichfield, who awarded Stephens the $30,000 check.

The ranch is among seven troubled-teen schools affiliated with World Wide in four states and two foreign countries. Several others have been shut down amid allegations of abuse or poor living conditions, including the Casa by the Sea facility near Ensenada, Mexico, closed last weekend by government officials.

Ken Stettler, director of the Utah Office of Licensing, told The Tribune he's convinced he had the votes to pass the bill giving his office regulatory authority over Majestic Ranch, if only Stephens and others had allowed it to come up for a vote.

"It still goes back to the old deal that, you know, if you are giving political contributions, then when the time comes and I want you to call in your chips, you're going to have a listening ear, which is more than a lot of the citizenry has," he said.

After several years of relatively modest contributions, Lichfield, of La Verkin, and his network of family members and business associates opened their wallets to politicians -- all of them Republicans, and many of them Utah politicians -- starting in 2002. They donated no more than a couple of thousand dollars prior to Jan. 1, 2001, but since then have forked over $1 million.

'A responsibility
to bless others'

Lichfield told The Tribune there was nothing nefarious about his sudden plunge into the political arena.

"We've been abundantly blessed, and when you're blessed, we feel you have a responsibility to bless others," he said, confirming that World Wide member schools gross more than $70 million annually.

Lichfield added that the family's charitable contributions, which he estimated at $3 million last year, dwarf its political donations.

Stephens, the outgoing House speaker whose bid for governor ended unsuccessfully in the May 8 Republican State Convention, did not return repeated requests from The Tribune for comment or a telephone message Sunday from The Associated Press.

However, Lichfield denied receiving undue influence, and shrugs off suggestion that he has become a political powerbroker.

"Believe me, the check had nothing to do with (the bill)," said Lichfield. "Marty Stephens was going to get a donation from me no matter what happened to (it). Marty Stephens is a quality guy."

"I'd like to use my means and resources to bless peoples' lives. Does that also imply influencing policy-makers to make good policies that support good family values, quality education and the things I believe in? Definitely. I'd like to have some influence in that," he said.

This story appeared in The Daily Herald on page D4.

 

 
 

http://attorneygeneral.utah.gov/PrRel/prjune142002.htm
For Immediate Release
June 14, 2002

 

 





YOUTH RANCH DIRECTOR CHARGED WITH CHILD SEX ABUSE



      The director of a boarding school for troubled youth has been arrested for allegedly sexually abusing a young girl at the Rich County facility. Wayne E. Winder, 35, has been charged with a first degree felony count of aggravated sexual abuse, a third degree felony count of dealing in material harmful to a minor, and one second degree felony count and two class A misdemeanor counts of child abuse.
      Winder is the director and staff supervisor at the Majestic Ranch, located near Randolph in Rich County. The parents of the children paid the school approximately $3,000 a month to care for each child. The investigation involved interviews with 41 children at the ranch.
      The children told investigators about sexual abuse, physical abuse and that the defendant displayed a pornographic picture. The children are between the ages of 10 and 14-years-old.
      The Office of Licensing has sent a letter to the owners of the school to inform them they need a Human Services license to operate a residential treatment center.
      Assistant Attorney General Craig Barlow, the division chief of the Children's Justice Division of the Attorney General's Office, will be prosecuting this case. Bail has been set at $30,000.

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Maybe, if you point out to the step mom, that if she forces this through, and the child comes to harm (emotionally, mentally or otherwise) not only will the child probably hate her for life, causing unending problems in her marriage; but her husband may also come to hate and despise her as a result.

No doubt the girl is a hand full. I am sure the friction between she and her step ma ma is pretty think. All very normal. She may get the kid out from under foot for a couple years - but is that as long as she wants her marriage to last? Because eventually, the kid will come home. Even if the dad is seriously uninvolved with his daughters welfare - he will not be able to avoid seeing the effects of the Program on his little girl. I'd anticipate deep regret and anger as a result, and he just might direct it at his wife.

Majestic Ranch seems to be a dumping ground for adopted kids who have "attachment" issues; and step children, whom the Step parent finds annoying. This is also often the case with the older kids in the other programs as well - but it is only Majestic Ranch that will take the real young ones.

The child will get no individual treatment for her individual needs. She will be forced into a mold, that is exactly the same for every kid in the Program. Majestic Ranch is a WWASP Program.

Claiming they are not associated with Tranquility Bay is  not exactly a lie. They can say each is individually owned and operated - therefore, not associated. But this is an unethical white wash job. All the WWASPS programs Are associated. They are all not only associated by virtue of having an identical "program" in each and every WWASPS "school" (The Program, is the Program, where ever it is)but also be virtue of family ties and employee swapping. Certain names pop up associated with various WWASP programs - and this has always been the case. It is essentially, a family operation. Not that everyone is a Litchfield, or a Kay, or a Peart; You also have Gouldings and Hintons and Atkins and Farnsworths - but they are all long and closely associated.

Please send me a PM with your email address. I can send you copies of affidavits written by Majestic Ranch Staff.

Also, you might want to read over the WWASPS V PURE trial transcripts. I can send you a copy of that as well.

And get a copy of Help at Any Cost, how the trouble teen induistry cons parents and hurts kids; by Maia Szalavitz. There is a link to order it provided at the top of this forum. It is Very informative and your brother really needs to read it - like Now!

The fact is, even if your niece is a disturbed child, treatment such as takes place in these programs is proven to not help, and in fact hurt.

I don't know what you can do, even if you come to the states. It would be a long hard battle getting her out, once they put her in, if they want to fight you. They as the parents, hold all the cards. For now concentrate in trying to educate your brother and tell him to tell his wife to shut up for a few weeks, while he does some research! Whats the rush? This is important. Tell him to slow down and start reading - and to thik for himself. His common sence will do the job, if you can just get him to listen to it.

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Why on God's Green Earth would anyone send a child with a Learning Disability to a WWASP program??

Ask the parents what they are hoping to gain - and if it is an education for their child - ask how they expect her to be educated in an environment designed to facilitate stress, for breaking down resistance to authority?

How is that going to help her learn to read and write?

My guess is they went looking for a specialty school and found Majestic Ranch - and when calling the marketing arm (teen help / teen solutions or what ever they are calling themselves now) they were told the program was perfect for their needs - like everyone is, no matter what their needs are.

Try this - suggest they call using different names and greatly divergent scenarios - and see what they are told about the appropriateness of Majestic Ranch. They'll need to call from different phones - maybe get friends and family to call each with a different situation.

Describe children with needs far different from your nieces - needs far different from each other - and see if any of these kids are felt to be inappropriate for placement at Majestic Ranch.

This might help your family see they are being sold a most inappropriate program for their Learning Disabled child.

Frankly, I am horrified to think of this child being sent to such a Program. The since of abandonment and fear she will suffer; and the hostility that is bound to be generated toward parents who who subject her to such treatment will be unavoidable.

For make no mistake - she must be abandoned there. Phone calls are not discouraged - they are not allowed! Visits are not allowed - not until she reaches level 4 - and that may take many months. For some kids, it takes a year and more.

On the first levels she will not be allowed to have a normal conversation with anyone. Talking is not allowed. She will not be allowed any privacy what so ever - none - ever - on the first levels. She will not get much to eat - and it will not be very wholesome or tasty. She will eat it anyway, b/c she will be very hungry. In school, if she is allowed to attend class (and if she is being consequenced for breaking any of the many rules, she will not be allowed to attend class) she will be sat in front of a computer and given copied study sheets - and she will be expected to read it ,and learn it, in a "self directed" manor. If she can teach herslef - she can do that at home. If she can't, she needs a school with trained special ed teachers who can teach her. I can't think your family has any idea what kind of place Majestic Ranch is.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Paula's comments on CAFTY's forum
« on: May 29, 2006, 11:46:00 AM »
Hey Dude (or Dudette)  the more the merrier.
Paula Reeves could provide a valuable web site if she wanted to. She is an attorney, and she is a smart lady. Her forceful and prickly personality make her difficult to interact with, but operating a web site requires no interaction, unless you want it to. That might be a better way for her to advocate.  She could give us an informative site, with a useful perspective, if she wanted to. I didn't exactly imagine it would be called Paula Reeves dot com. That's seems a bit, what? Self congratulating? Self Promoting? Something. . . I would have thought something more like teenhelpindustrylaw dot com - or if she wanted to concentrate on The Program, maybe something like regulatewwasps dot com. Being as she took my advice with the earlier suggestion, she may again. No reason why she can't have half a dozen web sites. The more the merrier.
BTW, its not that I care one whit what she has to say; or that you should; but rather, that parents looking for help might find her site and learn something useful, that might save them and their child massive amounts of grife. Thats the point.

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Guinness?
Its my most favoritest beer of all; but you've got to develop a taste fer it!

So said the little red head at Molly Malone's :wink:

Me, meself - I like Whitbread. Out of a frosted pint glass, if you please - Double Brilliant!!

CaCa? Who cares?

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Paula's comments on CAFTY's forum
« on: May 19, 2006, 09:53:00 AM »
Paula Reeves, Esq.
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Click here to see the profile of this user    Re:Paula Reeves :TRANQUILITY BAY STEVEN, LAYNE, DA - 2006/05/18 04:34 "What about your own involvement in PURE Ms. Paula Reeves?"

I think this is a fair question, Dan. You are referring to the following incorrect contact information:

For More Information Contact:
Paula Reeves, Esq.
[email protected]

I wrote the press release in 2004 and significantly contributed to components of the items in the article on Congress. I did not have a web page and did not want to create one. I only wanted to write more articles because the results of the federal appellate case will be published soon and a number of other things have occurred on a Congressional bill. (The articles written are free--not that anyone would pay me anyway for something of this nature.)

In retrospect, mistakenly, I thought it may help to put my name and contact information on the 2 articles I wrote and otherwise contributed to writing. Sue and I did not agree on the manner in which this should be done, so I asked that she either place my real contact information next to my name or remove my name all together. For whatever reason, she did not want my real contact information by my name, so, at my request, she removed my name all together. I will lodge articles elsewhere in due time.

I do understand your above-stated question. What I do not understand is your intense anger and lashing out at me and others who mention the word "Sue." I do not have a business with Sue and, without repeating myself, I do not refer to Sue, or anyone else, etc.

That's all I can tell you on this subject, Dan, which I'm sure is not sufficient for you, but I cannot "prove" a negative. Without participating in blogging persons to psychic death, I can only assure you that I intensely disagree with the child-for-profit referral business. Anyone who knows me to any degree will confirm this. I will do what I can, given my time constraints, to stop the unfettered proliferation of these programs and those who refer.

Paula

Post edited by: Paula Reeves, Esq., at: 2006/05/18 04:45


Why don't you put up a web site Paula Reeves Esq.?
You could focus on legal issues; your efforts in congress, and so on and so fourth. Make it a blog, so you don't have to contend with other persons absurd comments. Its a good idea. You should do it.

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I had suspicions as well, but it is Still a funny story. Strange how these things grow isn't it. The person who sent it to me seems to think this came from Dave Lettermen. OH, and I now notice it wasn't Vegas! I guess this is how they grow and change :wink:

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BLACK ROBBERS - True Story

On a recent weekend in Atlantic City, a woman won a bucketful of quarters at a slot machine. She took a break from the slots for dinner with her husband in the hotel dining room. But first she wanted to stash the quarters in her room.

"I'll be right back and we'll go to eat, "she told her husband and carried
the coin-laden bucket to the elevator.

As she was about to walk into the elevator she noticed two men already
aboard. Both were black. One of them was tall...very tall...an intimidating
figure.


The woman froze. Her first thought was: These two are going to rob me.
Her next thought was: Don't be a bigot, they look like perfectly nice
gentlemen. But racial stereotypes are powerful, and fear immobilized her. She stood and stared at the two men. She felt anxious, flustered and
ashamed. She hoped they didn't read her mind but Gosh, they had to know what she was thinking!!! Her hesitation about joining them in the elevator was all too obvious now. Her face was flushed. She couldn't just stand there, so with a mighty effort of will she picked up one foot and stepped forward and followed with the other foot and was on the elevator.

Avoiding eye contact, she turned around stiffly and faced the elevator doors as they closed. A second passed, and the another second, and then another. Her fear increased! The elevator didn't move. Panic consumed her. My God, she thought, I'm trapped and about to be robbed! Her heart plummeted. Perspiration poured from every pore. Then one of the men said, "Hit the floor."

Instinct told her to do what they told her. The bucket of quarters flew upwards as she threw out her arms and collapsed on the elevator floor. A shower of coins rained down on her. Take my money and spare me, she prayed. More seconds passed.

She heard one of the men say politely, "Ma'am, if you'll just tell us what
floor you're going to, we'll push the button." The one who said it had a
little trouble getting the words out. He was trying mightily to hold in a
belly laugh. The woman lifted her head and looked up at the two men. They reached down to help her up. Confused, she struggled to her feet.

"When I told my friend here to hit the floor," said the average sized one, "I meant that he should hit the elevator button for our floor. I didn't mean for you to hit the floor, ma'am." He spoke genially. He bit his lip. It was obvious he was having a hard time not laughing.

The woman thought: My God, what a spectacle I've made of myself. She was humiliated to speak. She wanted to blurt out an apology, but words failed her. How do you apologize to two perfectly respectable gentlemen for behaving as though they were going to rob you? She didn't know what to say.

The three of them gathered up the strewn quarters and refilled her bucket. When the elevator arrived at her floor they then insisted on walking her to her room. She seemed a little unsteady on her feet, and they were afraid she might not make it down the corridor.

At her door they bid her a good evening. As she slipped into her room she could hear them roaring with laughter as they walked back to the elevator.

The woman brushed herself off. She pulled herself together and went
downstairs for dinner with her husband. The next morning flowers were
delivered to her room - a dozen roses. Attached to EACH rose was a crisp one hundred dollar bill. The card said: "Thanks for the best laugh we've had in years."
It was signed;
Eddie Murphy
Michael Jordan

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Paula? Abrupt?
No Way! (snicker)

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I hope your just some idiot trolling - but if you are for real I hope you'll pull your head out of your ass and take a look around.

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Ha - I knew you had your nose up her ass, but I never dreamed you had crawled all the way inside!

For More Information Contact:
Paula Reeves, Esq.
[email protected]
954-349-7260

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